It's actually been a struggle for me to make this video the entire day just because I didn't
know how I wanted to word it.
And I didn't know how I wanted to exactly formulate my thoughts.
And it took me a while to actually come to terms with what my message is for today.
But the real reason why I'm making this video is because yesterday when I did more of a
longer form style like this, where I sat down, and I just expressed, you know, my thoughts
for 1314 15 minutes, I think you guys got a lot of value out of that.
And what I could tell from the comment section as it seemed like people really enjoyed it.
So I know what you're thinking, you're thinking, it's pretty late for you to post a video and
you would be correct.
I also know that you're probably thinking that it's crazy that a person of my size can
have biceps this big.
If you're thinking that that would also be correct.
But all jokes aside, okay, you see the title today?
And I put how to get a woman?
Or how do you how do you ensure that you get the right behavior out of the relationship
that you want?
Or how do you get a woman's genuine desire?
And what we're going to do is we're going to really formulate where questions like this
stem from, I'm going to actually give you the insides and how this is done.
Not to mention, I'm going to show you the right way to think so that way you can have
sustainable success throughout all endeavors in your life.
Now, with that said, this question and how I'm going to answer it really stems from one
of the students that was asking me a question regarding focus inside my freedom Academy
just this Monday.
Okay, now, long story short, in a nutshell, you have to have the ultimate confidence.
Like I can't express to you as a man, how important it is to have completely unshakable
confidence at all times, you have to feel as if 24/7, deep down, nothing can get in
your way.
Nothing can throw you off center, nothing can move you off center, nothing can actually
start to break you.
And see this.
This takes having a very deep mindset and a very deep understanding as to what it is
to actually be strong what it is to actually be full stack.
But the reason why I'm telling you this is because yesterday or on Monday, on my freedom
Academy, I had a member he was how do I maintain focus throughout the day, I'm trying to build
my purpose, I'm trying to build, you know, XYZ in my life, I'm trying to build my business,
I'm trying to do all of these things.
And what he kept noticing was that it was hard for him to stay focus, you know, he check
his phone, he do this, you do that it's hard for him to actually sit down and do the work.
And the way that I helped him get over this was by him actually understanding that it's
not about focusing in the day to day.
And the comparison that I made is you could sit at a table just like this, and you could
work 12 hours a day, seven days a week for literally two months in a row.
And your life would basically be the exact same.
Like just think about that for a second, your life would pretty much be the exact same.
Now you might be wondering, how does this stem into your dating life?
How does a seven tell you live as a man will continue watching because you're going to
need to actually internalize this.
When a man shifts his time horizon in life.
Okay, when you stop looking at things day to day and you start looking at things as
month to month or year to year, everything starts to come together.
So here's what I mean.
While he's so focused on building his business and staying on his purpose to this day, this
month, okay, I'm looking at my business, my purpose throughout the next five to 10 years.
So I myself will lose focus time to time just like everybody, right?
Some cute chick might text me, I'm gonna take a second I might reply, me and my brother
might kick it to a music video or a song we might take time out of our day to do that,
even though we're supposed to be working.
Okay, a new YouTube video from a content creator that I watched my pop up that I'm into, I
might have to take a quick break and check that out.
But it's not about the focus day to day it's about can you sit down?
And can you focus for the next five to 10 years?
Can you actually maintain alignment with yourself and with your purpose over the next five to
10 years.
Now, this stems into confidence, this stems into who you are.
So when it comes to women, and when it comes to referencing yourself as being a man of
value.
The only way to have the most unshakable confidence at all times in order to not only win over
her genuine desire, but to genuinely feel good about yourself, is you have to maintain
alignment and realize that your confidence is not about who you are right now.
Your confidence is not about who you were yesterday.
Your confidence stems from the work that you know that you're about to put in, in the future.
Let that sink in for a second.
When you operate on that mindset, that you know your future self will be better
than 99.9% of men.
You Now release control and give yourself the excuse to actually be confident right
here present in the moment because you know the trajectory of your path is on the correct
road, you know that the trajectory of your path
is actually going the way that you need it to.
With women, you have to have the most unshakable confidence at all times, because you as a
man need to know that you can hold down the fort.
Provisioning matters as a man status matters.
As a man success matters as a man, getting rich matters as a man, having enough resources
for yourself.
So that way you can live a life of abundance matters.
See, this is part of the biggest reason to why I released the freedom Academy this year,
because there's a different flow when you're an actual creator.
And I'm not just talking about me being a creator of content, I'm talking about creating
work that I find very meaningful within my business.
You see, when you're a creator, not only is your income not capped, not only as who you
are different, but you enter into a different energy flow, it's like you're actually exercising
your will out into the world.
Now, the freedom Academy was crazy, because when we released this just a few weeks ago,
my brother and I, we've already had 150 members enter into this bad boy, and it's already
spreading like wildfire.
And I see guys making money in their sleep, I see guys finally actually like understanding
how to make money passively, I see guys actually starting to crush it and understand the value
of being a creator and being on their purpose, and actually watching the fruits of their
labor pay off.
Now, what's crazy is, as this comes together, I can't let this group get too big.
Okay, because right now in these early stages like this, I'm building this out to make this
literally the best community possible all of 2022, all of 2023, my time is spent doing
that, which means I'm capping this at 250.
Right now we have an additional 100 seats and additional 100 members.
And when it comes to that exact number, I'm going to be shutting down the enrollment for
a period of time, we're going to make this thing watertight.
And right now if you want to be one of the early adopters, and the early members into
that, right now would be the time because we have a hard cap right here at 250.
And these guys who I'm seeing that get into the state of creation, you have to understand
the different wavelength they start to enter into and why women respond so much to that,
when you work a bullshit nine to five.
And not not even that none of us are bullshit, there's tons of nine to five that are meaningful,
like you have to really understand what I'm picking what I'm trying to put down here.
When you're doing something that you genuinely want to do.
You're operating at a different wavelength than 99% of people.
Like when I have like, I can't show you guys this because I have stuff all over my house.
I have different whiteboards, I have sketch boards, I have things that I'm doing, but
I have jotted down like my day to day notes in my day to day plan.
And then over here is my six month plan and the stuff I want to get done the projects
for my six month plan.
And then over here is like the five year plan.
And then over here I have the pillars that I'm trying to accomplish in business within
the next 10 years.
And it's like when you lay all that out on paper, you have to now understand how we bring
this back to focus.
Back to my original question with the guy ahead in the freedom Academy, he's asking
about focus, it's like it's not about focusing day to day or week to week or even month to
month, you can work as hard as you want and have the best focus.
You can literally only take breaks to go take a shit, eat for five minutes for lunch and
only get six hours of sleep and you can work your you can work your ass off as hard as
you want.
Dude, you're going to be in the exact same spot in a week.
Even working that hard, you're going to be the same spot in a month, there's even a chance
to some you might even be in the same exact spot in a year.
The difference is can you maintain that focus over one year, two year, three year, four
year, five year six year all the way up to 10 years?
Plus?
Can you have a plan and stay on that purpose?
So when you operate on that wavelength like I do, it takes the pressure off day to day,
okay, it takes the pressure off day to day because I'm no longer worried about am I going
to get all my tasks done today, I don't care.
So that I have tomorrow.
Like when you operate like that, it takes that stress and that takes that anxiety off
that anxiety of constantly having to get shit done like that, that that neurotic add like
you have to just always be doing something and it will ruin you.
It will actually rob you of your life.
So when you're operating from the state of being a creator, not a taker, right like taking
work, oh, my boss gave me the works.
I took the work I took the task and I did it just got it done to get it done.
Take Take Take your salaries kept your incomes kept.
You're operating from a lower level of wavelength when you're operating from the state of creation,
you start to see that you are now the prime force in your life.
You are now the prime mover in your life.
You are now in control of your income.
Do you understand that that is so interlinked to getting success with women.
Like when a girl so when a woman sees that you are a prime force of nature in your own
finances, your demeanor starts to change.
The reason why I was able to have success virtually my whole life with women was I genuinely
believe because at heart, I've been an entrepreneur.
And I'm not saying everybody needs to go out there and start a multimillion dollar business
or a fortune 500 company, but Goddamnit, you have to be in control of your own income.
If not, you're a slave whose income is capped.
You are now trading time on Earth.
Okay, for $1 amount.
Last time I checked my time on this planet, because I only have a fixated amount of it,
and I will die one day, and life is genuinely too short to be broke, I am going to have
to work.
Life is too short to be broke, I'm going to have to work and therefore my time is limited.
Therefore, my time needs to command a certain dollar amount.
And every hour I have on this planet is worth a hell of a lot more than $20 per hour.
Like do you not understand this yet?
Everything is correlated.
So then a girl then Then a woman or girl, whatever, it depends how old you are, what
you're calling them all you classify like, I got no I got 13 year olds watching this
channel.
18 year olds, 20 year olds, four year olds, 50 year olds, it doesn't matter.
Okay?
When you're operating from this wavelength, women that come into your life, all of a sudden
see a guy who's in control of his income.
They see a guy who's pressing forward in his ambitious, this makes a woman feel safe.
And not only safe just because you have resources to back up what it is that you do, and she
sees you as a beta or provisioning, which is a whole nother BS topic I'm not even going
to get into today.
But she sees you're a prime mover in your own life.
She sees you're actually willing to exercise your will into the world, take rejection,
take risks, take take hardship, take failure, still persevere, still kick ass and keep pushing
forward, women find that extremely sexy.
Women find that that dominance factor and a man that is willing to go and chase and
get what he wants extremely sexy, they're hardwired to it, I'm going to let you in on
a little secret.
Ever since I became an entrepreneur, and specifically a successful entrepreneur, virtually every
woman I've ever went out on a date with or been intimate with has virtually wanted to
lock me down and be my girlfriend.
Not and I'm not saying that to be cocky.
I'm not saying that for some of you to think, Oh, this guy's trying to just say he gets
a bunch of women or anything like that.
What I'm telling you is when you display the right traits as a masculine man on your mission,
when you're a prime mover in this world with your confidence, women are going to fight
tooth and nail to lock you down.
And for damn good reason, too.
They should, you're actually doing things that signal high value, you're actually doing
things that signal high status.
But it's so hard for me to make these videos on masculinity, it was so hard for me to continue
to push the self development content and not actually show guys how to make money because
frankly, that's been the bread and butter for my entire life.
It's been the bread and butter to learning these high value skill sets.
It's been the bread and butter to selling.
It's been the bread and butter to deliver a message like this for 13 and a half minutes
right now and not stutter and to connect with my audience.
Like you have to learn high value money making skills as a man if not, you're in for the
long haul of actually being sad, being depressed, having some having somebody else is in control
of your income, and not being able to live the life that you want.
And that should piss you off a little bit inside.
Like that should really make you angry that you trade your time on this planet, your precious
time, just for a low paycheck that doesn't even suit the life that you want.
I'm here to not only empower you to tell you that it is possible to get rich because I
made millions of dollars at a very young age in my early 20s quicker than 99% of the population.
I like when I'm in a better spot right now than most 40 5060 year olds that I meet.
And I'm not saying that to brag I'm telling you that when you do the right things as a
man, it actually is possible to get success.
So how do you get a woman's genuine desire, you have to have the most Unshakable Confidence.
And that Unshakable Confidence really only comes when you've done the work, and you know
that your future self is going to be better than your current self.
So for example, everybody wants to know, what's the hack to being high value, dude, there
isn't one, you're either putting on putting in the work and you're a creator in your own
life, you're either breaking out of paradigm number one of the 99% of frame entering into
paradigm to the state of desire.
And then slowly moving into paradigm three, which is a state of replication, where you
finally humble yourself and learn from specific mentors.
You're either moving down that paradigm shift to become full stack, or you're not.
And if you're not, I want to ask you why.
Why have you not yet taken the time to do that?
Because if you really want to get women like you say you do, if you really want to get
laid, if you really think sex is all that good, which let me tell you once you have
it a few times with a few different girls, it's pretty boring, just like every single
other experience you've ever had.
It gets monotonous and you no longer put it on that pedestal.
When you put in that work.
How can you not have the most Unshakable Confidence?
You already know that every single time you go out on a date, you're in a better position
than nine times nine guys out of 10 that she's gonna meet.
You're in a better position and probably 10 Out of the 10 guys that she's gonna meet you
finally become the byproduct of one on a track demand is, your confidence needs to be based
on the work you're putting in today to know that your future self will kick ass, that
you're your future self will be nine times better.
10 times better, 20x better, 50x better.
And when a woman sees these traits, you got to understand, they're not just trying to
be with you for your money.
Like, it's the total package of who you became, it's the full stack persona.
Money is one thing, if you give a broke guy a lottery ticket, he wins.
Yeah, he's not gonna learn anything.
It'll be week, it'll be a 99% of his whole life.
But you take a guy who's self made on his purpose, you could take every dollar away
from me out of my bank account, and it would not matter, you could put me in a new city,
a new state, you could put me in a different country, I would find a way to succeed because
of the internal fortitude that turns a woman on, and has very little at that point to do
with dollars in a bank account, she genuinely feel safe.
And you want to provide that sort of experience to a woman feel safe around you.
When you do these things correctly, virtually every single woman will say, Man, I feel so
comfortable about you, I feel so comfortable around you, I feel safe with you.
I'm very comfortable with you.
I feel like we just have the right sort of chemistry.
And it's because you've curated the frame.
You've curated the man or woman experience, you've curated the dynamic.
Like it's no secret that virtually every single content creator, you probably look up to as
an entrepreneur.
And it's no secret that virtually every dating guru you've ever looked up to, who does great
with women, also probably does great in business and does a great job monetizing that skill
set of dating.
And the reason being is because it doesn't have anything to do with women, it has to
do with you being ambitious on your purpose, and curating the persona that shows you can
win in life, that copy, paste and carries over into your dating life.
I'm not used to talking this long on camera.
So I don't know how this looks.
I don't know if you like this.
But if you do, let me know.
If you want to be part of the 100 inside of the Freedom Academy before you hit that page
where we're closing enrollment at 250, you can hop into it.
I'm truly making it my mission over the next 10 years.
And that's the cool thing.
If you're full stack, if you're part of this head man movement that I've created.
Like, you want to be part of the things that I've done, okay, you're going to come into
this, you're going to come into this community, you're going to come into what I've built,
you're going to come into my other products eventually down the road, you're going to
see that I've dedicated my life to this.
Like for the past 567 years now this is all I've done.
And for the next 10 to 20 years, this is all I'm going to do.
It's hard to replicate what that feels like in words to show you.
But I am so much on my purpose.
Like I would never if I wanted to.
I would know I wouldn't have to work a day for the next five years for one maybe even
10 maybe even longer.
I mean, I don't know if I could fully retire but damn close.
I wouldn't have to do a whole lot of anything if my living stayed the exact same and I'm
only 26 years old.
So what I'm what I'm doing is I want you to experience what this feels like.
I want you to experience what it feels like to be on your purpose and to see monetary
fruits of your labor and then not even play the game for money because you've became full
stack you hit paradigm six.
I can't wait to show you guys how to do this.
Like I said, I get I get a lot of enjoyment out of delivering this content to you.
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