Hello my wonderful friend! In today's video I'm answering the question how to
make a girl think about you all the time. What you are about to hear is based on
my insights as a woman and on my extensive research as a coach. The last
tip is one that pretty much nobody else talks about, but it is so important and
so effective you're not going to want to miss it. So be sure to watch to
the end. Before we get started be sure to subscribe and ring that notification
bell. My name is Melannie, I'm a dating and relationship coach for Christian men.
I help you get the girl of your dreams so be sure to subscribe, ring that bell, and
give me a big thumbs up. Now I recently did this video which is
How to Get a Girl to Think About You Constantly, and you guys wanted more so
here it is. I am about to let you in on a huge secret. As a matter of fact I don't
really think any of the other coaches want you guys to know this. So be sure to
pay close attention. If a girl likes you, she is going to think about you all the
time. That's it. That's the secret, that's the key. It does not have to come down to
these little tricks and games. The truth is, if she likes you, it doesn't
have to be complicated. As a matter of fact it shouldn't be
complicated. If she really likes you for you she's gonna think about you all day
long. So all you have to know is how to get
her to like you, what is it that gets a girl to like you. And that is what this
video is going to be about. It's not about making her. As a matter of fact if
you have to make her like you it's not really very fulfilling, it's not really
gonna work out. You want a girl who just likes you, who just wants to like you.
So that is what makes these tips so effective, is they help you just be
automatically attractive and someone that a woman falls crazy hard
for. So let's get started with how to make a girl think about you all the time
which is really just how to get a girl to like you. Tip number one is to
have an attractive and flattering hairstyle. This is something I really
stress with my clients. When you are trying to become more attractive to a
woman, because let's face it physical attraction is not the only thing that
matters but it does matter and it's important to be proactive in that area.
When you are trying to be incredibly physically attractive to her your
haircut can work wonders. What I mean by this is do not just get the cheapest
haircut you can get. What so often happens is we kind of define our style
in high school and then we never question it again. That is actually a
really bad move, because you're not in high school anymore, you're a man now and
you want her to see you as a man. And the truth is she wants to see you as a man.
So it's important to get a stylist who knows how to work with your face shape.
It doesn't have to cost a lot of money but you are worth investing in and so
you should spend more than five dollars on your haircut. It's a really good idea
to just do a Google search "best hair styles for men 2020" and see what appeals
to you. Take some of those pictures into your stylist and ask her what would look
best with your face shape and ask her to help you know how to style it. Honestly, a
haircut can make you feel like a completely new man. And all of the ladies
will notice it and it will be very attractive to them. Along the same lines
of a haircut is to make sure you are keeping your facial hair looking really
sharp and attractive. If you saw this video then you know it's important to
keep your facial hair trimmed and sharp and classy. I'm not saying you can't wear
facial hair, as a matter of fact sometimes a little bit of stubble is one
of the hottest things you can do. If you saw that video you know I have an
obsession with jaw lines. And using facial hair the right way can
actually really accent that. I think I'm blushing guys. Just ignore it, it'll go
away. If you have not seen that video yet check it out in the link in the
description below. Tip number two is to use
her name. This one sounds like really random and like it wouldn't be very
effective, but guys, never underestimate the power of using someone's name.
Our name is something that belongs to us. In a way it identifies us, obviously.
So when someone uses our name, wow, we feel important, we feel connected to
that person. We feel like we matter to them and we feel like they remember us,
and that helps us remember them, be very attracted to them and want to be around
them more. So use her name casually in conversations. You don't want to overdo it
"Hey Melannie. How are you doing Melannie? Melannie, I had a question for you Melannie.
What are you thinking right now Melannie?" That's going to become really irritating
very quickly. However, if you can casually fit her name in she's gonna notice and
it's gonna make her feel connected and it's gonna make her like you a lot more.
If you feel like someone doesn't notice you this is a really good hack to help
her notice you more by showing her that you notice her and making her feel
important. And we are to tip number three which is
one of my favorites. I like this just about as much as I like jaw lines. Um, I
share some embarrassing things with you guys. But, you know, it's okay. I'll take
the hit for the team. The way you smell has a lot of power when it comes to
attraction. And guys, when cologne and proper hygiene and everything is used
appropriately, oh my goodness it is so so attractive. If you watch my stories on
Instagram then you have heard me say that I will be walking through a store
and I will get a whiff of a man's cologne and without even looking at him
I already kind of have mentally decided he is attractive because of how he
smells. P.S. If you don't follow me on Instagram
there is a link in the description below. Be sure to check it out, I do some
awesome things over there. But this is the effect smelling really nice has on
women. So it's a really good idea to make smelling nice a high priority. Use
aftershave, use cologne, practice personal hygiene and
make sure you're smelling really nice. In addition to this it actually helps boost
your confidence and make you feel more attractive, which will make you act more
attractive, which will make you more attractive. So it's really a win-win
situation no matter how you look at it. Now, a word of caution.
I've already acknowledged guys, I'm a huge fan of cologne. However, if you use
too much it kills it, like so bad. And it actually makes her not want to be around
you simply because it's overpowering. So be careful not to use too much. It's okay if
you have to practice it a little bit to get the hang of it for a few days. But
don't use too much, but be sure to use it. And we are to tip number four which is
to dress attractively. I like to call it dress to empower. I'm sure you've heard
"dress to impress" and "dress for success", but the truth is dress to empower, because
how you dress is how you see yourself. It has absolutely nothing to do with how
much money you've spent or how you appear in the world's eyes, when you
dress attractive you feel attractive. And you deserve that. In addition to that, as
a woman, when I see a guy who dresses really nice, I'm gonna be really honest
with you guys, this is turning into a more embarrassing episode than I
intended. When I see a guy who dresses really nice it shows off all of his good
points and he looks super hot. Okay? Bottom line. Just like you like it when a
girl gets dressed up all pretty for you and she looks amazing, girls like it when
guys get dressed up all super handsome and attractive and hot.
It makes us sweat and nervous and excited and it's super super attractive.
So, when I teach my clients about fashion, and this is actually something I talk
about a lot in my online course, if you want to learn more about that check out
the link in the description below, but when I teach my clients about these
things the most important things to know are to get clothes that fit you.
It is very very important to get the right fit that shows off your positive
traits. That is the whole point of wearing nice clothes, is to show off your
positive traits. So make sure your clothes fit nice and that they are
flattering to you. It doesn't have to cost a lot of money, as a matter of fact
there are some really good hacks that I do teach my clients that you can use to
not spend a lot of money but to look like a stinking rockstar. So be sure to
dress nice. On this note, I'm actually thinking about adding some
YouTube videos about men's fashion and how to dress attractively. If that's
something you would like to see me do here be sure to type "Yes!" in the comments
below. And we are to tip number five. This one is probably gonna surprise a lot of
people. The way you treat people matters to her. And the way you treat people
can take the attraction level up dramatically. I'm sure you have heard
"Oh, good guys never win." And as a matter of fact it's kind of a pet peeve of mine
and I'm really tired of hearing that because it's not true.
If we are talking about good girls, girls who just want to love and be loved,
because there are a lot of women like that. If that's the type of woman we are
talking about, um yeah she crushes hard on good guys. The way a man treats other
people tells a woman how he's going to treat her for the rest of their lives if
they end up being together. It lets her know how he will treat her children, how
he will treat her family, how he will treat her friends. We don't want to be
around someone who's not nice. As a matter of fact if you saw this video you
know that the number one trait people wants in a spouse is kindness. So, if you
treat other people with kindness you are going to be incredibly attractive to her.
That right there is a deal-breaker. Often a guy who some people would say
is not particularly attractive, simply by the way he treats people all of a sudden
makes him incredibly attractive. Now I do want to point out that being a nice guy
does not mean being a pushover. This is actually where a lot of the confusion
comes where people say "Well, there are a lot of nice guys who nobody's attracted to."
Well, it's important that you're also a confident person, it's important that
you know how to set boundaries, and it's important that you have a healthy sense
of self-worth. Those are also attractive, being a pushover is not. So it's
important to be a nice confident guy. I really need to do a video that goes more
in depth on this one. So if you are interested in a video on that be sure to
type "Nice!" in the comments below and I will be sure to do that for you.
Bottom line, nice guys do win, there's all kinds of research and fact backing
this up, but make sure you're treating her and the people around you nice.
The waitress, your friends, your co-workers. When she sees you treating
people nice, that makes her incredibly attracted to you. And that's it for my
five tips, however, I have a bonus for you. And that is how you make her feel. If you
can make her feel like a princess then she's going to see you as her prince
charming. One thing I teach my clients is the
entire key, the entire key to attraction is that people like people who make them
feel good. It's as simple as that. We love to be around people who make us feel
good. And if you can make her feel good then yeah she's gonna think about you
all day. She's going to crush on you so hard because she feels good when she's
with you. Now this means making her feel safe when she's with you, it means making
her feel pretty and attractive when she's with you, and feminine. It means
helping her feel relaxed and helping her feel encouraged and built up and happy.
This one kind of goes hand in hand with how you treat other people. So how
you treat other people and how you treat her really does matter. One thing I do
want to point out when it comes to girls like good guys, is I get comments from
guys saying "Well, if you're a good guy she walks all over you." Okay, one thing you
really really need to know is only bad girls do that, only toxic girls do that.
Good girls would never treat a good guy that way. So if you are struggling with
girls doing that, you're hanging out with the wrong girls. I actually have an
entire online course on how to avoid bad relationships and attract healthy
relationships. If that is something you've been struggling with be sure to
check out the link in the description below.
Good girls who are not toxic love good guys. And again, if you make her feel like
a princess she will see you as her prince charming. When that happens she
thinks about you all the time, because that's what girls do when we like
someone. Speaking of traits that make a girl fall crazy hard for you,
how would you like to know the 17 traits Christian women want most in a man? These
are the traits that give her butterflies and make her crush on you
and ultimately fall in love with you. Check out the link in the description
below. It will ask you for your name and your email, as soon as you enter that
information I will send you this free guide. Thank you so much for watching my
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up if you enjoyed what you saw. Question of the day. Which of these tips surprised
you the most? And if there's one you would like me to do an entire video on
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I can't get through that without blushing.
So make sure your clothes dress nice and that
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