- In this video, I'm gonna show you step by step
how to attract a higher conscious person into your life
when it comes to love.
I'm gonna show you step by step what you can do,
how you can activate that energy,
and what you must not do that will actually block them.
There's things that you do
that will actually block them from coming in.
When you remove those blocks, things come in naturally.
Now, the first thing to understand
about this process is many times
what ends up happening is we may have an initial belief
that says there aren't many high vibrational people
out there in the world.
There aren't many higher conscious evolved people
out there that would really get me,
that would really be able to be present with me.
And here's the thing, if we believe they're not out there,
how are we gonna find them?
How are they gonna find us?
We literally have a belief that negates them
from coming into our reality.
If we have a belief that says attracting love is hard,
how can they come into our reality?
We literally believe they don't exist or that it is hard.
So an important aspect of this process is becoming aware
that our beliefs create our reality
and our beliefs are either blocking the right people
from coming into our lives,
or they're attracting the wrong people into our lives
because of what beliefs we are attached to.
Beliefs are also the stories that we have.
And when many of us go through a spiritual awakening
or begin to evolve our own level of consciousness,
let go of things that don't serve us anymore,
what can end up happening is as we do that,
we develop a belief that says,
we may go through a spiritual awakening,
believe, kind of feel kind of alone on the process.
We may develop beliefs that say
there's not that many people out there like that.
And the first thing I want you to know is
that there are people out there like that.
And just to prove the point of it,
go ahead and you can either comment below, like the video,
however many people watch this video,
it's a sign that there are people out there that want
and desire a higher conscious person
and that are looking for that.
All right, so it's first off, realizing that's one
of the powers also of like,
when I do live events, for example,
I do live events, people from all over the world come,
and what happens is people say,
"Wow, there are people out there just like me,"
and it rewires their belief.
It makes them say, "Wow, there's people out there,"
there's people sometimes even
from different countries and stuff,
and we have similar comments,
we have similar things in common,
we have similar values.
That wires their belief that,
wait, maybe there's somebody out there that actually
I'd really resonate with at a deep level,
and I'm here to tell you there are many people like that.
But you have to drop the belief that they're not out there
for them to actually come in.
Now let's go into the different dynamics that go
into actually attracting a higher vibrational,
a higher conscious person.
Now, the most powerful, the most maybe obvious part of this,
this is what I call,
I call this the Magnetic Being Triad.
It's like these three simple steps, right?
One of the most important things
about this process is opening your own heart
and understanding that who you attract
in your life is a reflection of your own energy.
So for example, if you want somebody,
if your desire is to attract somebody
that has a regulated nervous system,
you must have a regulated nervous system.
If you want somebody that has a clear energy field
and your desires to attract that kind of person in,
you must have a clear energy field.
It's understanding that sometimes we focus
on the outside of what we want,
but the key is that what comes into our life
on the outside is a reflection of our own inside.
So the question isn't how can I attract someone
with a regulated nervous system
or a clear energy field or someone that's present,
the question is, how can I regulate my own nervous system?
How can I clear my own energy field?
How can I feel present?
How can I open my own heart?
When the focus is on that,
the energy is then transforming from the inside out.
Those are very different questions.
I can tell in my life that for me,
to be the most magnetic version of me to attract love,
to do and pretty much accomplish everything I have
in my life, it's come from an inside out modality,
inside out.
I would feel it on the inside
and then see the reflection on the outside.
But many times we get focused on,
we focus on the outside, the outside, the outside,
and it dilutes our own energy field.
So one of the first things to understand
about this process is I call this the Triad.
And doing these three things every single day
I believe will completely transform your life
and help you to actually attract
that higher vibrational conscious person.
There are three different aspects to this.
Now, one of the first ones,
the top one is passion and meaning.
Now, this is understanding that
when you follow your passion,
when you're doing what you love,
you are the highest vibrational version of you.
When I was working a 9 to 5 to job that I hated,
selling women's shoes,
guess what kind of woman I dated?
Women that were also working 9 to 5 jobs they hated.
That was the pattern because you get a reflection
of who you are and and the energy you're putting out.
And we had a lot in common.
We would go, we'd bitch about the jobs that we had,
how we didn't like corporate politics.
There was a lot of that energy there.
Once I started following my passion,
I then would only be in relationships
where somebody was doing what they're passionate about,
was being that version of themselves.
So remember, it's a one-on-one reflection here
and one of the first parts
of this process you wanna become aware of,
am I following my passion?
You don't know what that is yet, that's okay.
Set the intention to find out and to follow your passion.
Start that doing that in little ways.
What are you most passionate about doing today?
Maybe it's going for a walk, walking your dog,
hanging out at a park, going to nature,
hugging a frickin' tree, taking a bath or shower, whatever.
Follow your passion.
What kind of books are you reading?
What kind of things do you naturally,
it doesn't feel like energy for you to do?
It's just easy for you to do.
Start paying attention to what those are,
and start to follow those threads.
That will make you and help you become
the highest vibration version of you.
Now, the other part of this is meaning.
Realize that everything in life has no built-in meaning
other than the meaning we give it.
A rainy day is neutral,
whether it's a positive thing or negative thing,
depends on your either past experience
or past meaning.
Some people in Oregon, they may get so tired
of the rain, they're like, "Screw the rain.
"I don't like the rain."
Even though they live in Oregon (laughs).
And then some people, like I was born
and raised in Las Vegas, it hardly ever rained.
When it would rain, I'd be like, "Heck yeah, it's raining,
"this is awesome!"
I'd be so excited because the meaning I gave to it
was a positive experience.
So realize you give things meaning,
and it also helps you take your power back.
So that's one aspect.
Now, the other aspect of this,
I call this neutrality practice.
Neutrality practice is, so think about it like this,
think of this line right here.
Oh, you can't really see it.
Think of this line right here.
Neutrality practice.
This is like you're helping to clear past energy here,
neutrality practice, shadow work, your inner child, energy,
becoming aware of the patterns within yourself.
When you become aware of these different things,
it helps you to then,
you can become neutral about it.
When you talk about high vibrational
and important aspect of it is being able
to neutrality practices, ability to observe.
Observe your patterns.
Not try to control 'em, but to observe them.
I became aware back in the day that I had this belief
that there aren't other hi-vi people out there.
I was able to observe that.
I was able to observe
that I believed there was something wrong with me
because I was prescribed Adderall, I had ADHD,
that I learned meditation
and kind of dropped that identity.
I was able to observe it.
I was able to observe that my ex stepmom was out of my life.
But there was a manager in my life
that was the same personality as my ex stepmom.
I was able to observe that energy
and then I forgave my ex stepmom
and then that manager got fired.
It was crazy how much of a reflection in my life
these energies shift,
it changes everything.
So neutrality practice, observing your thoughts.
If you observe your thoughts, I promise you,
if you were to observe your thoughts for 10 minutes
in the morning and 10 minutes at night every single day,
it will transform your life.
Promise you.
You won't see a huge difference
within three to six days of doing it.
One week you're like,
"Oh, Aaron said change my life and I did it for seven days.
"It hasn't changed my life."
But you'll notice, maybe you feel a little bit more present,
a little bit more aware.
But if you do that for months and months and months,
it will completely transform your life.
You'll have more of a regulated nervous system.
You will feel less reactive.
You will feel more present.
That helps you to regulate your nervous system.
I recently did a four day breath work
certification process where I actually had to go
through a whole bunch of breath work trainings,
be able to facilitate it, something I did
because I do my live events, my 21 day challenges,
and I always bring in other people to do the breath work.
And it's always the most transformative thing.
I see people completely transformed afterwards
and I got tired of having to talk to all my friends
and get them to come in and work with their schedules,
and I'm like, why don't I just get certified?
So I got certified.
Part of that though meant that I was going
through the breath work myself
for like four or five days in a row,
and it was extremely intense.
But afterwards I feel completely different.
And for way more regulate,
I was able to release energy that was trapped
in my body for a long time.
I was able to tap into sadness
in a way that I hadn't let myself feel in a very long time.
Underneath the anger for my ex stepmom, there was a level
of sadness and I was able to tap into that.
And here's the thing, when it comes to vibration,
if you block yourself from feeling the lower vibe emotions,
you're also blocking yourself
from feeling some of the higher vibe emotions.
So the key is feeling it to heal it.
And when I began doing that,
it completely changed my own energy feel.
And remember, you get a reflection
of the energy that you're feeling
and the energy that's inside.
So you wanna become aware of this energy,
and you want to feel it to heal it.
So this is something to become aware of
that really changes a lot.
Also, I have an inner child meditation,
if you haven't checked it out yet,
where we energetically go to Kauai, Hawaii.
It's completely free.
You go to AaronDoughty.com/CHILD,
C-H-I-L-D.
That's the inner child meditation.
Listen to it for 21 days.
Watch how it transforms your life
because you become aware of these emotions.
You let yourself feel it and it completely heals everything
on the outside as a reflection.
It's AaronDoughty.com/CHILD if you wanna check it out.
Now the other aspect
to this Magnetic Being Triad is this step right here.
This is being.
You don't get in life that what you want,
but you always get a reflection of who you are being.
How are you showing up every single day?
You want to have a daily practice
of taking action, of being.
In 2017, I started making daily videos on YouTube.
I was being a full-time YouTuber.
When you're being it, you're being it
because it's who you are,
not because of what it'll get you.
Sometimes people, they're like,
I'm gonna do this until, I'm gonna become an artist.
I'm gonna be an be an artist.
I'm gonna take action as an artist until I am an artist.
But instead, you wanna be the artist,
and take on the identity with you
and just be it every day because it's who you are.
It's a very different energy.
But when you look at these three things,
it's daily action, following the thread
of passion and then observing your thoughts,
observing your beliefs, observing your attachments,
you're able to then activate your heart
in a very powerful way.
What you wanna focus on is,
values make up our identity.
If you want somebody that's present with you,
if you want someone that's a regulated nervous system,
everything I was mentioning earlier,
you must have that within yourself
but also live according to the values you choose.
Not tuning to everybody else
and trying to get everyone else's validation or approval.
That a lot of times happens in dating as well.
When it comes to dating, people are focused on
someone else's validation or approval, how they're feeling.
Going on a date with somebody who's like,
are they gonna like me?
Instead of going on a date and thinking,
are they gonna like me?
If you go on a date, think,
I wonder if I have something in common with this person.
I wonder if I'm gonna feel safe,
if I feel safe around this person.
I wonder if this person and I have similar values.
Curiosity's way more attractive than neediness.
So it changes everything.
But what you wanna do is, for me,
I had to focus more on open up my own heart.
And I focused more on being vulnerable,
sharing the real me, being authentic,
not validation seeking.
You might want somebody that leans
into their shadow, that isn't afraid to look at themselves.
Well, guess what?
It means that you gotta be able to look at your own shadow
and not be afraid to look at yourself.
You don't wanna make this person very important,
where they're more important than your own happiness
or you're putting them on a pedestal
because that makes it not natural.
And you wanna also focus on being present, not perfect.
Huge.
You're talking about dating.
If you focus more on being present,
you will have way more magnetic energy
than focusing on trying to be perfect.
And people don't really relate anyways.
Perfection on Instagram and all this stuff,
it's like it's unrelatable anyways.
So one of the most powerful things I've learned
how to do is to be more curious,
to open up my own heart, to focus on regulating
my own nervous system and embodying the values
and the energies of what I want to attract.
I've had to embody myself in order to do so.
And you can do the same exact thing.
Now also, if you haven't checked out something
that's brand new that I have, it's a free training.
It's called The MAP, the Magnetic Activation Process
for activating all this energy within yourself.
It's a free training video and a 5-7 page PDF
that shows you step by step how
to apply the Magnetic Activation Process,
then go to AaronDoughty.com/MAP, slash MAP,
check that out and download it.
Begin to apply it.
Watch the training video.
It's like a 40, 50 minute training view
that shows you step by step how to apply it,
and watch how much your life begins to change.
Now, one thing that I have as well,
that the key to raising your vibration is really letting go.
And when you let go, you have way more magnetic energy.
So if you wanna learn the five secrets
to letting go that make you magnetic AF,
watch this video right here.
In this video, I wanna share you five secrets
to letting go that will make you more attractive
and that will completely transform your life.
And when you start applying them, it changes everything
because you start realizing who you really are.