One of the biggest problems that I see when coaching guys is that once they've
met the girl, they don't know how to continue conversation or make the
interaction interesting and build attraction. They freeze up and the woman
immediately loses interest. Now let's talk about how to know when what to say
when you're talking to a woman and how to make that conversation interesting
memorable and one that builds sexual tension and I'll show you some body
language techniques to make you more attractive when you talk to her if you
know exactly how to talk to a woman and in what order it will remove the fear
and anxiety inside of you if you know what to say when you want to attract a
woman then you can easily transition into getting her number and getting her
wanting more to do this I created a conversation roadmap that's easy to
remember because they all start with the letter e you want her to remember you at
the conversation you want her saying in her head Wow I want to see that guy
again if you can hold intriguing conversation then you can easily
escalate interaction to a physical level more on that later but for now let me
teach you the four E's that will help you build a fun interesting and engaging
conversation that's going to put you ahead of any other guy that she talks to
I'll also show you a live example from one of my students so you can see the
conversation roadmap in action the first thing you need to know about
conversation is that you have to move her you have to get her to react and
intrigue her with the things that you're saying the big idea here is that it's
not always about what do you say it's about how you say it most guys think
it's the opposite which brings me to my first e energy you need to put energy
into the conversation whenever you talk to a girl there needs to be a fire lit
under your butt and you need to be excited if you're not excited then
you're going to come off dull and boring which makes the conversation dull and
boring let me give you a prime example of energy right now imagine a girl tells
me that she's from Texas I'm going to respond with a low energy and a high
energy response and you'll see what sounds better so
again let's pretend I just asked a girl where she's from and she says Texas oh
cool yeah I've never been there before what's it like
see how dull and boring that sounds now let's try that with high energy oh cool
yeah I've never been there before what's it like do you notice the difference in
my tone of my body language that's a difference between a boring conversation
and an interesting conversation that little tweak and women will feel your
energy they're going to feel you in
conversation and that's why you have to make things sound exciting and
interesting and it's pretty easy all you have to do is use your body language and
tonality practice saying things in an exciting way the next time you talk to
someone so while remembering the energy you have to bring to a conversation
let's move on to the next part of the roadmap where I'm going to teach you how
to continue a conversation in a way that makes it interesting the best way that
I've found to keep a conversation going is by active listening and extracting
which is our second II extracting means that you'll be extracting a word from
what the other person is saying and using it to respond in conversation
here's an example let's say that you're talking to a woman and again she says
I'm from Texas your key word here that you're going to extract is Texas now
that you've extracted the word you have two options right you can either ask a
question or you can make a statement so a Texas you can ask a question such as
what's Texas like or you can make a statement like Texas is an awesome state
Austin is one of my favorite cities so let's review really quick you want to
listen in on conversation and I mean really listen don't think about what
you're going to say next instead look for a key word that she
says and respond to it with this you tie in your energy and you have a continuing
conversation that's interesting you can literally just use energy and extraction
and hold a conversation with anyone but you're not trying to attract anyone
right you're trying to attract a high quality woman so you want to use the
next II which is emotion when trying to attract a girl you want to
bring conversation to an emotional level when I say emotional I don't mean that
she's crying or getting angry with you rather you're bringing feeling to the
conversation the conversation needs to make her feel something okay feel
something in order to do that you can either ask emotional type questions or
tell a story that engages her let me show you how to do both first is
emotional questions most guys ask the boring questions right like what do you
do where are you from do you come to this place often a high quality man does
not ask those kinds of questions instead I want you to ask more interesting
questions that's going to bring up more of an emotion get her to feel something
so instead of asking the what ask her the why let me say that again don't ask
her the what because it would just get an answer with a bunch of facts instead
ask her the why for example you could ask a girl what she does for a living
which I said a little earlier that it's kind of boring right instead ask her why
she likes what she does why does she like her job
why is she passionate about it asking the why brings out emotional answers and
brings the conversation to a whole new level
another way to bring conversation to an emotional level is through storytelling
which I'm sure you know about telling one of your stories to a girl will keep
the girl interested and interested in you people love stories it's why we read
books it's why we go to the movies you can get her to feel that same
entertainment but at the same time getting her attracted to you if your
stories are interesting and bring out your best qualities maybe tell a story
about a crazy travel experience you had or a time that you helped a friend who
is in a big bind you should make a list of the stories that you have and find a
way to tell them when you're talking to a girl just make sure it's somewhat
relevant and conversation and here's another tip if you don't have an
interesting story to tell then use the idea of energy body language plus
tonality remember to make it sound more interesting remember it's not always
what you say it's how you say it so you can get a good idea of how this
all looks let me show you a quick clip of one of my students talking to a
couple girls live and how he uses each one of these principles Todd I was like
oh she's dressed really well it's like super stylish right now you two you two
are both dressed well thank you do you see that like a so just a quick little
reminder here in terms of your opener he kind of goes in he says that it looks
stylish he stops them right so that's the first part of conversation if you
didn't hear that he says all you guys look really stylish he stops him and now
his continuing conversation yeah I think it's like I don't know it's like some
new shoes come out like this red carpet so now he's just commenting on what he
sees around him he's talking about the red carpet so he just started talking
about this he didn't need any kind of segue but he just started talking about
what's around him so you can do that too if you ever with the girl or you
approach a girl and you're kind of running out of things to say see if
there's anything cool around you and here he had something to say just all
like that Nike store I'm like what is happening no clue
you're just like having luck figuring out okay see how he's extracting a
little bit here right so there's a little bit of a pause and then she says
we're just having a look and he just kind of repeats it all you cool you guys
are just having a little look guys that's a today and then he knows that
okay the conversation is dipping so going into a nice transition which is
what do you guys up to today oh really where you guys from Barcelona oh my god
my friend is going back to Spain okay so here I know I've told you earlier don't
really ask you know where are you from what do you do but this called for it
because they said that they're only here for a couple of days so it's fine to ask
where you're from and now do you see extraction happening live right here
they said Barcelona and now he's about to tell a story about Barcelona next
week actually it makes me kind of sad yeah she um she's here she like stays
with her family and she just like watches the care stuff but like what she
does during the summers for like no no that's like how she gets those states
and she's here for like three months I make me sad though that she's going
back to Spain boom and now he enters a motion right so he says that he's sad
that she's going back to Spain and you see how he just is has no problem
offering a story right so I always say that to when you extract a word you're
either gonna ask a question you're going to tell a story he is no problem with
just telling this story about his friend from Barcelona and then he brings it
back to this emotional place which is going to get the girls feeling more
empathy for him like she tells me like the sangria's they're always like be Baz
yeah they are you guys like don't have any accents are being from Spain that's
fine once an introduction oh so you're fancy
that's it okay see how he says oh so your fancy size just a little bit of a
tease right so he's obviously doing what I call active listening he's listening
to every word they're saying he's not just trying to come up with the
next question he's responding very well to what they're talking about and then
he's able to even throw in a little bit of a tease like oh you're so fancy
because you went to this school it's alright little bit you're like just a
little huh no that's awesome that's really cool so what brings you here then
oh just visit a so it's like you know it's like a week trip that we're gonna
make or have you guys been here a week no and just note his body language he
hasn't crossed his arms he hasn't put his hands in his pocket he's staying
very relaxed very calm oh it's your first day okay you see that energy
that's really big right there right they said it's their first day and he kind of
like lights up his eyes a little bit I would wish he would have been like oh
wow that's so cool but just notice that that that's part of the the body
language aspect of energy right I told you that energy it's body language plus
tonality so he's reacting really well to them which makes the conversation more
energetic and therefore more fun and more interesting oh my god what is it
like 10 the 10 hours Oh 18 yeah why am I thinking 10
oh she's is Krait that's I was there like crying babies on there and you're
just like please what a la Cece again he's bringing it back to this emotional
kind of level like Oh is there crying babies was it hard was a difficult right
he's bringing in emotional type questions instead of like oh cool like
he he talked about how long the flight was which was a little bit of a fact not
that interesting but then he goes right into awe with her crying babies and
let's see what happens God's up it wasn't bad so what you guys
doing like what you guys are like doing out here you guys going out looks like
your plan and then at this point you know he brings up you know what are you
doing now because he's also seen that there's a still a little dip in
conversation they're not that engaged yet but they're engaged enough as you
see they're both facing him in conversation here like it seems so
random that you guys are like you know they just make a a couple day three day
trip here they go more emotion right saying like oh it's
so random you guys made a three day trip here
none of it I don't know
oh my god you guys are everywhere and do Vegas and stuff since you're gonna be
over there yeah you guys are gonna have a lot of fun I'm trying to gel it oh
okay so oh look at this I'm like really does right now right see
how a reacted to that right so he starts talking about a little bit about facts
about Oh Vegas things like that and then it goes and do I'm jealous
right emotion right so I want you when you're in conversation to bring out that
emotion when you're talking to girls right be vulnerable it's okay to say I'm
jealous or oh that makes me sad you know but also you know positive things like
that makes me happy where I'm so excited right show that emotion and then with
women they'll react to that see they were like oh right and now that just got
her engaged enough where she's now finally talking to him and asking him
questions yeah I live I'm actually not too far off so I was like it's like well
I need a bite here because I'm actually flying out to Chicago tomorrow morning
so I like saw you guys I was like oh my god they're just super cute let me say
something to them real quick see now at this point he's bringing it back to a
little bit of a flirtatious mode he wants to you know let them know that
that's the reason why I stopped him he you know thought that they were cute so
that really helps in bringing it back a little bit to get into more of a flirty
level yeah but that's nice that you guys are gone I'd be like
but so you guys are just here tonight do you have plans even though I know you're
jet lag and see that too right how he mentions that their jet lagged again
bringing more emotion into the conversation but also bringing it back
to them a little bit in an interesting way to wear the pin of the Pierre I was
like the pin what is the big good example of extraction right there plus
energy right so he misheard her thought she said something like the pan when she
said to Pierre and he just kind of reacts to it like what is she talking
about but plus he extracted it because he's listening to every word she's
saying even if he knew that she meant the Pierre it's good that he still said
oh wait did you say the pin like what are you talking about right so that just
makes conversation a little bit more energetic and again more fun and lend up
more memorable oh my gosh I know I was like you're acting sorry coming through
Mike where is this coming from I was like you're such a snake I hate it oh my
god that's boy gonna visit that
Venice is nice yeah man this is very cool and then you're back to LA and then
you're LA tonight and then you take a bus tomorrow whatever trying to think of
you should be going somewhere while you're out here like tonight you should
be going somewhere I actually know a place where you should go okay what are
you like downtown LA or oh my god I have the perfect spot me absolutely perfect
okay so this is a really really good part in the conversation just in the
second here he's about to tell them a bar that they should go to okay and this
bar is called the Edison's actually in Los Angeles now he could very simply
just say you guys should go to this bar it's really cool it's called the Edison
you should check it out but instead of saying that he tells a
little bit of a story and makes it sound so much more cool which makes it more
interesting so watch what he does here okay um is that your plan like you guys
want to go out like that's your thing I don't know we're not like you're here in
LA for a day you probably should like you should go I am at least one
that's why it's more important that you see it at least you see like to me it's
like the coolest part out like here so what it is it was like the first power
plant in LA right and what they did it's like the kind of it's like a basement
thing what they did is they converted it into this huge speakeasy like it's huge
and so you know they have like aerial dancers like with ribbon dancers they'll
have people maybe doing maybe a little burlesque or they'll have or don't have
like camp dancers they always do something like crazy and then you know
there's like a girl dressed up like Tinkerbell she like pushes around like
absinthe cards my stuff like yes so place is called the Edison see even
before he gets to say with the name as he does this he does such a strong
description of the place that she's like oh what's it called all right so the
point here that I'm trying to make is when you're more detailed when you're
telling stories right and you make things sound more interesting it's gonna
get people around you not even just women to be sucked in to whatever you're
saying and they're just hanging on every word and they're entertained but at the
same time they just feel like more comfortable
around you because you know you're you're just telling these stories and
being so detailed and that's what I want you to do I want you to be really good
at storytelling and being able to listen in on the conversations you're having
with women so you can easily extract the words and then go into a story which is
automatically going to make it emotional and then you're going to put energy
behind the story so again we're just wrapping this all up giving you the
three principles energy extracting and emotion alright let's recap
you're going to bring energy into the conversation using your body language
and tonality you're going to be able to continue that conversation by extracting
words and commenting or asking a question and when you finally ask a
question make sure it's about the why and get to know her on a more personal
level and during the conversation be sure to tell a story or two to make her
interested and engaged so there you have it that's the
conversation roadmap and when you use these principles you're going to see a
dramatic change in the way that you talk to women to get a recap of the
conversation roadmap be sure to download and read the free report underneath this
video and one more thing in this report I've included a technique on how to talk
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