Oh boy, there you go again.
You’re doing it for the 20th time today...
You’re staring at your phone again…
Debating whether or not you should shoot her a text to stir up a conversation and make
her like you just a little bit more.
But even if you did text her… what would you say?
You hate sending the first text because you don’t want her to think you’re too into
her, or too needy, or weird...
And the LAST thing you want is to send her a text message, and be left without a response…
Oh man, I’m just cringing at the thought of sending something to the girl I like and
being left on “read.”
I don’t miss those days...
Thousands of guys all over the world are experiencing this exact feeling right now.
They want to text the girl they like but they don’t know how to text her without seeming
needy or annoying.
They don’t know how to text her and feel absolutely confident that she’ll respond.
Well today, I’m gonna break down the exact formula for how to construct a text that piques
her interest and doesn’t come off as needy.
I call it the ‘Carefree Charisma’ formula.
First things first, stop being a pussy.
Seriously.
If you’re trying to think of something to say to make you sound NOT needy, then you’re
already in the wrong mindset because you’re putting yourself in a needy position.
You’re approaching the text conversation with this girl from a place of scarcity, and
basing your value on whether or not she responds.
Does a badass guy spend 10 minutes contemplating whether or not he’s gonna text the girl
he’s interested in?
Is he gonna debate with himself about what to say to her?
Fuck no he isn’t.
He’s not needy and doesn’t care about getting her approval.
He simply wants to talk to her and texts her to do so.
The first and most important part of the ‘Carefree Charisma’ formula is to develop this strong
self-confidence so that you’re not constantly worried about seeking a girl’s approval.
Once you have that, you’re texting game changes drastically because you’re no longer
dependent on the outcome or the girl’s approval.
You’re only focused on hitting up the girl you like because you simply want to talk to
her.
Now this may sound counterintuitive, the whole reason you’re watching this video is because
you’re looking to create the outcome of:
Texting her without seeming needy AND Sending the perfect message that gets her
to respond to you
The reason you have to be OK with the possibility of her leaving you on “read” is because
if not, your mind will jump to a mindset of neediness and scarcity.
This scarcity and neediness will force you to act in an approval seeking, and needy way,
therefore making her unattracted and not responding.
Once you’ve developed a strong sense of self-confidence and are perfectly OK with
the fact that it may not work out with her, you’re no longer acting out of scarcity.
You are now acting out of abundance… the root of being carefree.
This mindset creates significantly less pressure than being focused on crafting the perfect
non-needy message to make her respond and have sex with you, doesn’t it?
The second step is say something that’s funny or witty, and most importantly, carefree.
If you send a girl a message that’s funny, and shows you’re a laid back and cool guy
then it’s going to show her that you’re not needy and that you’re a cool person
that’s worth investing her time in.
Guys with this carefree attitude always have the most success with women because they give
off that fun and adventurous vibe that girls love.
Not to mention the fact that a carefree attitude makes girls feel WAY more comfortable around
you because it allows them to be themselves and not worry about you becoming too clingy
or needy.
Does a guy who’s carefree give off clingy or needy vibes?
FUCK NO.
The only vibes he’s giving off are fun and positive ones that make him interesting and
more importantly, intriguing to be around.
Carefree guys are also great with girls because girls feel comfortable enough to not feel
judge and are more willing to do things like flirting and teasing since they know he won’t
take their comments personally.
In order to portray this carefreeness over text, you have to send her something that’s
fun, lighthearted, and teasey.
You might say something like “Hey it’s me, I’m here to sweep you off your feet.”
or “Thought I’d make your day and shoot you a text.”
Here are some more examples of texts on screen from MY OWN text conversations that convey
this “Carefree Charisma.”
Can’t you just feel the carefree and playfulness of messages like that?
When you break them down, you’ll notice they’re made up of three parts:
They center the conversation around you and her, aka “me, you” communication
They assume attraction They incorporate a playful tease
If you can incorporate those three pieces into each of your text messages, then you’ll
be well on your way to creating that Carefree Charisma that makes girls go CRAZY.
But how do you become TRULY carefree?
Even if you do become carefree, how can you be sure you’re conveying your carefree-ness
it to girls every time you send a text?
Well unfortunately, there’s no magic bullet solution to this.
It’s not as simple as watching and then magically becoming this totally different
person.
And tackling neediness is something guys spend YEARS working on, and believe me, it’s a
painful journey.
Luckily, I’ve broken down how to destroy these insecurities and become carefree and
non-needy in my new Texting course, called The Godly Texting Guide.
In The Godly Texting Guide, I breakdown the EXACT mindset you need in order to be successful
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Imagine knowing how to build SO much sexual tension over text, that you LITERALLY made
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I’ll see you in there, Zeus out.