Texts Women LOVE [0:00:00]
First up on the list, the I hear you text. Examples you can steal, “Wow! Seriously?”
“That’s crazy.” “Tell me more?” “What happened next?”
When you’re talking with someone face to face, it’s easy to see that they’re paying
attention that they’re listening based off of their body movement, based off the little
things that they say. But, when you’re texting, that is non-existent. So, you need to be able
to jump in, you need to be able to quickly show that you’re listening to her.
Next up, that decisive text. The ladies love a guy with a plan. When she says, “Hey,
we should meet up. Where should we meet?” She doesn’t want to hear from you, “Oh,
I’ll just let you pick.” No, actually, choose a place. Give her a time, give her
specifics. Lay out a plan. Women love it. Now, I know some of you guys are thinking,
“Antonio, how do you know what a woman wants?” And the answer is I don’t, but my friend
Claudia Cox over at Text Weapon does. This is what she specializes in. This is what she
does. She’s got into women’s minds. She understands
what they want when they’re getting texted. In fact, she’s created a free course which
I will link to down in the description. Basically, the ultimate texting tips.
Again, it’s free, Claudia is my friend, I asked her to come in help me put this video
together and to give you guys a really good guide if you’re out there texting ladies,
if you want to meet up here soon. And, yeah, you want to be able to engage women be able
to really connect with her via text. Next on this list, we’ve got the great meeting
you text. So, at this point, you just met her, you just got her phone number, you just
had a great connection. And you really want to stay fresh on her mind.
Now, there’s a lot of different theories about how to play the game, but what we’re
talking about here is while you are fresh on her mind to basically send a fun playful
quick text that isn’t overbearing that simply lets her know, “Hey, I’m thinking about
you.” Here’s an example that you can steal. “Hey,
it’s Greg. The guy you’re probably talking about with your friends right now. I really
enjoyed our chat. Let’s catch up soon.” Quick, simple, playful. It’s a reminder
of the conversation you just had. And by the way, all the information all the
text examples I’m talking about in today’s video, you can grab over at RealMenRealSTyle.com.
I’ll link to the support article. We’ll have all these texts written out, so that
you can save them so that you can use them. Next up, we’ve got the I’m proud of you
text. This one works really well if you know the person, if you’ve been in a relationship
for awhile. So, the key to making this text work is to
randomly send it when she least expects it. You’re looking at throwing her off her guard.
All of a sudden, she gets this message, this appreciation that you’re noticing her kindness,
her hard work, her honesty, the things the work that she put in, you are taking notice.
Now, you don’t want to overdo this, but to be honest, most guys never send a text
like this. They don’t really worry about that, but don’t send it five times a day.
In addition, you want to make sure you’re sincere. Note something that is true. Don’t
make stuff up. Example texts that will get the job done,
“Do you have any idea how important you are to me? I’m amazed at how you’re able
to smile through even the most difficult times. You are such a strong woman. You are such
a kind person. I’m proud to call you my girlfriend.”
Gents, keep it simple, keep it sincere. If you land this right, you are going to bring
her to tears and that night, yeah, you’re going to get lucky.
Speaking of getting lucky, let’s talk about warming her up with flirty compliment texts.
So, one of the secrets to complimenting a woman well is to understand what does she
like about herself and that’s what you want to double down on.
So, if she really does like her body, she’s happy with her backside, she’s got a nice
tush because, yeah, she knows how to squat, so compliment her on that. Say, “Hey, I
can’t wait to get my hands on that later this evening.” Yeah, a little bit direct,
but it’s something she’s proud of. She loves her hair. Okay, you can’t wait
to touch her hair to smell it in your hands. You love her eyes. She loves her eyes. You
can’t wait to lock eyes and just simply, yeah, you know where I’m going with this,
guys. The more specific the more sincere the more fun and flirty you can be, the better
luck you’re going to have warming her up for, yeah, later on.
Next up, we’ve got the I miss you text. Now, again, you want to be careful overdoing
this one and it really depends on the relationship how long have you been together. But, if you’ve
been together for a while and you’re separated now for a while, you want to let her know,
no, things are not okay, they’re not the same without you here. I need you.
This one incredibly powerful if you do it right. But, how to do it right? Here are some
examples. “I’m lying in bed missing you. I can’t wait to have you in my arms. One
more day and you’ll be back where you belong, with me. I really wish you were here, so we
can get cozy under the covers.” Next up, we’ve got the encouragement texts.
One of the best parts about being in a solid relationship is knowing that somebody’s
got your back. That you’ve got a cheerleader, you got someone who is going to watch out
for you no matter what. Now, gents, I don’t know if you’ve been
in your relationship for ten days or for ten years, but when was the last time you let
your partner know that you are behind them that you’ve got their back that you have
sent a message of encouragement? Example, “Honey, trust me. You are going
to have a great day.” “Babe, I know you got a big day, but you’ve got this.” “Be
prepared for some major spoiling when you get home. I’m making dinner.”
Next up, the I’m sorry text. Gents, here’s the honest truth. Most of us guys at some
point, we are completely assholes. Now, you can blame it on work, you can blame it on
politics, you can blame it on whoever you want. But the thing is is we oftentimes unleash
this demon on the person that cares most about us.
[0:05:02] Now, when it comes to dealing with a big disagreement,
a big blow up, it’s best to do it in person or over the phone, maybe Zoom, maybe Skype.
But if it’s something small, if you are just being snappy, if you are ignoring her,
if you just really weren’t there, guys, this is great opportunity to apologize via
text. Example you can steal. “I’m sorry. I was
such poor company tonight. I have a rough, rough day at work. Can I take you out to dinner
Friday? I want to make it up to you.” Next up, we’ve got the straight from the
heart text. Now, at this text, gents, you’re not acting cool, you’re not playing games,
you’re letting your guard down and you’re telling her exactly how you feel. “Just
seeing your name pop up on my phone, makes me smile. Typical Monday, work keeps piling
up, but I’m thinking about you. I really wish you were here right now.”
So, what video to watch next? How about the ten texting mistakes that men need to avoid?
Don’t do this or you’ll get in trouble. Find out what I’m talking about in this
video right here. [0:05:52] End of audio