Do you question if the guy in your life is truly in love with you? I mean, a guy can
tell you that he loves you, but how do you know for sure?
Because some men will say and do all the right things to win you over,
that makes it difficult to know for sure if his actions are genuine
or if he has ulterior motives.
The good news is if you pay attention to his behavior and body language and know what
to look for, you can gain insight into his true feelings and remove any doubt.
That's what we're talking about in this video. I'm psychologist and relationship
coach, Dr. Antonio Borrello. Keep watching because I'm going to share the
Seven Undeniable Signs that a guy is head over heels in LOVE with YOU
don't go anywhere cuz we're starting right now.
So it can be tough to tell if a man is truly in love with you, especially early
on in a relationship because some men say and do whatever it takes to win a woman over.
But
Don't be Fooled by GRAND GESTURES and EMPTY WORDS.
The real proof of a man's love lies in his behaviors and actions over time.
You just got to know what signs to look off for and pay attention to. So without further
ado, here are the
Seven signs that a man is TRULY in LOVE with you!
Number one, he wants to combine social circles.
This means that he wants to bring you into his world and he wants you to invite him into
your world.
That means that he's proud of you and proud of the relationship, and he wants you
to know
his important circle of family and friends, and he wants them to be approving of you.
And this is a strong sign of his love because it shows that he values your relationship
and wants to integrate you into every aspect of his life.
On the other hand, a guy who is in love with you will also want to become involved
in your social circle.
He will want to meet and know your friends and family, and he will want to make a good
impression on them too.
So he will show a genuine interest in getting to know the people who are important to you.
This is because he cares about your happiness and wants to be accepted by your people.
again, if he's in love with you, he will want to combine social circles with you just
as you combine your lives into one couple and building a future together.
Number two, he values the time he spends with you and he wants more of it.
Love is not just a feeling, it's also in action. And when a guy is truly in love with
you, he wants to show it through his actions, including the time he spends with you.
It doesn't matter what you're doing, whether it's something exciting or something mundane,
as long as he's with you, he's happy. And this is because when a guy is in love, he
values the time he spends with you.
He wants to be there for you, to support you and to be part of your life. And he's willing
to go the extra mile,
whether it's helping you with the project or running errands just to be by your side.
Also, and this is probably the most important thing, the time that he spends with you doesn't
have to be primarily sexual.
Of course, physical intimacy is a crucial part of any relationship, but it's not the
only aspect of a relationship. A guy who truly loves you wants to spend as much time with
you as possible regardless of what you're doing. That's the kind of love that lasts
a lifetime.
Number three, he protects you.
When you love something, you protect it and,
this is especially true of men.
That's because the male brain is wired to protect his tribe from threats.
Even in our modern day world, this biological instinct to protect you is only triggered
if he really cares about you deeply and sees you either subconsciously or consciously as
a member of his tribe or family.
And I can tell you as a man, a guy is not going to protect you if he doesn't care about
you a lot.
But when he loves you, he'll be protective of you in several different ways.
For example, he might stand in front of you if there's a visible danger, or at night
he might walk between you and other people acting as a first line of defense.
It's not that he thinks that you need him in order to be safe, it's because he wants
you to feel safe knowing that he will defend you in any way that he can.
He will also protect you in social situations where he will defend your reputation or stand
up for you when someone is being rude or unkind, if he's willing to speak out and support you
even when it might be difficult or unpopular.
This is a strong sign that he cares about you deeply and is willing to do whatever it
takes to protect you and your relationship..
I'd love to read examples of how the guy in your life has made you feel safe and protected.
Leave a comment below and share your example.
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Number four, he takes care of you when you're sick,
when a guy offers to take care of you when you're sick or recovering. , it's a huge sign
that he loves you. Now, I understand that when you're sick, you might not want him to
take care of you because you don't want him to see you that way.
But if he insists on helping you or taking care of you in some way, yes, that's a huge
sign that he cares about you so much,
and if you are sick with something contagious and he still wants to take care of you,
that's an even bigger sign of how much he loves you.
That's because when a guy cares about you, deeply caring for you and protecting you is
a bigger concern than his exposure to the same illness.
And just like I said about protecting you, if he doesn't care about you, he certainly
isn't going to offer to take care of you when you're sick and contagious.
So if you are sick and he isn't offering to get you some soup or bring you medicine
or take you to the doctors or help you in some way, then you have to question how much
he really cares about you.
But wait, I'm gonna make one exception here because taking care of you when you're
sick
might not be something that immediately comes to his mind for whatever reason.
So if we're giving him the benefit of the doubt, you may need to ask him for help. And
when you do, he's gotta be very willing and able to help you without any hesitation whatsoever.
He's gotta jump to it and be so happy to help you.
Number five. He's not afraid of commitment.
He tells you that he wants a committed and official relationship with you.
So he doesn't shy away from having the talk or talking about the relationship, and
he makes you feel comfortable for asking about where the relationship stands or how he sees
your future together.
And he never makes you feel like you're impinging on his territory or freedom.
Not being afraid of commitment also means that he openly and naturally expresses his
feelings for you.
He doesn't shy away from talking about the way he feels about you, and he makes you
feel comfortable sharing your feelings for him.
He also communicates any relationship issues or problems with you and
makes you feel comfortable in sharing your questions or concerns as well.
Now, I know that many of you are in situations where you don't feel comfortable asking about
your relationship because you are with a guy who doesn't want to get into anything serious.
Now, if that resonates with you, I'd love for you to share your experiences in the comment
section.
Again, I'm going to randomly select one subscriber who comments, and I'll email them
an Amazon gift card.
I'll also be responding to all of the comments for at least the first week after posting
this video, so let's talk.
Number six, he makes the relationship a top priority.
He is consistently showing you that he's committed to making the relationship a high
priority, and I don't mean just empty promises.
He not only lets you know that you're a priority, he demonstrates it in his daily
and even hourly commitment to keeping the relationship healthy and thriving.
That means investing in a daily effort to stay tuned in and connected to you. So ask
yourself,
are you the one who's constantly having to reach out to him
or is he calling you and texting you and making plans with you?
Do you feel like the relationship is balanced and that it's important for him to make daily
plans with you or to make plans with you to spend quality time together?
If so, then he's showing you that you and the relationship are top priorities, and that's
a huge sign of love..
number seven. He misses you when you're apart and he shows you
when you are in love with someone, you yearn to be near them, and you miss them when
they're gone.
Now, that doesn't mean that you're constantly thinking about them to the point where you
can't get anything else done because that would be an unhealthy obsession.
But thoughts of them aren't far from your mind. And when a guy loves you, he will certainly
miss you when you're apart, and he will want you to know that he misses you. He will do
this in several ways.
One way is through little acts of thoughtfulness.
For example, he might send you a text message just to say, I miss you, or I'm thinking
of you.
He might also surprise you with small gifts or tokens of his affection,
like a bouquet of flowers or one of your favorite treats to let you know that he's
thinking of you.
Other ways that he might show you is that he might send you funny things that he finds
online or links to articles that he thinks that you'd like
or he'll tell you about something funny that happened to him today that, he thought
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