Tripp Kramer here from
www.trippadvice.com. What I want to talk
to you about on today's video is how to
talk to girls on the phone. In this
scenario, what I'm going to be talking
about is one of the first types of
interactions you guys are having. This
is going to be a phone call that you
might make after you met her on an app
or after you met online or even after
you met her at a bar or somewhere else.
Which brings me to the first question.
Why should you be calling a girl? Well
like I just said, the phone is a great
way to build rapport with someone, get
comfortable with someone. I wouldn't
use the phone as a means of attraction.
Attraction is something that's
built in person. This is something that
needs to be communication right in front
of you. This is not something over the
phone. That's because we are wired as
human beings to be attracted to someone
when you are seeing them, when you are in
their physical presence, when you're
feeling their energy. I want you
to use the phone not to build attraction, but
to build rapport and rapport is going to
lead to trust. One of the reasons
why I want you to use the phone call
before a date and after you meet her
on an app or online dating is to build
that trust. Let's talk about that for
a second. Let's say that you met a girl,
you swiped right, she swiped right on you,
you got her phone number and maybe you
already even set up a date or this is
something from online. You guys
messaged each other a couple times on
one of the websites Ok Cupid or Match
or whatever and you got her phone number
and maybe you set a date. Maybe you didn't
even set a date quite yet. Well the phone
is a great way to seal that date. First
of all, most guys are not calling girls.
They're not even the ones that
are getting on the phone. This is
going to make you stand out, but also
this is a way to get to know each other
on a little bit more of a comfortable
level because you're talking to each
other than waiting for the in-person
date. I highly suggest you use the
phone after you meet them online or off
an app. You can also use the phone
to gain rapport, build
that comfort and build that trust after
you meet a girl in person as well. This
still works. Whether you met on the
sidewalk, grocery store, a bar somewhere
in person, this cold approach
technique. After you've done that and you
get her number, you can also get her on
the phone. One of the best ways to do
this is you end up texting her to
get a conversation going and you guys
are texting back and forth but you don't
want to use texting to be just building
comfort. You want be texting to
meet up with her. Now what if you're
texting her and she doesn't respond? This
is the case in which you can use the
phone. You can be texting her
and she doesn't respond or she's too
busy to meet up with you or she's
giving you some excuse that she doesn't
want to meet up with you. You can
call her get her on the phone to remind
her of who you are and remind her of
your personality. Remind her of how cool a
guy you are and this can help seal the
deal to get a date. That's really the
main point here. I want you to use the
phone as a tool to get the date when you
guys are talking, whether it be in
the middle or at the end, you need to be
using that to say hey we should hang out
sometime, let's grab some dinner, let's
grab a drink, let's go do this, whatever
it is. The phone is similar to texting in
the sense that it is a tool to be able
to meet up with her. But it's a little bit
different than texting because you guys
are able to actually chat with each
other and get on that more comfortable
level so you're probably wondering now
what do you say on the phone call. What's
a conversation on the phone actually
look like and how can you get it to the
point where you build some trust and
build some comfort there. Well really
it's very simple you just got to go on
the phone and start a conversation and
the conversation does not have to be a
mind-blowing of course it shouldn't be
boring and just asking her like hey so
what you up to and what are you doing
today and how is your reach bit right
I'm going to teach you a little
technique to get off of that boring
topic but either way the phone call is
just a way for you guys to talk there's
already an initial attraction there if
you better run an app
in person or on an online dating site
right so it's already there right this
is just a way to be like hey I'm a cool
guy I'm normal I talk normal I am normal
right decision to get her to feel safe
and comfortable that you're not going to
sort of creep so really general
conversation is shit fine dr. completely
confused on where do I begin a phone
call what am I supposed to say here's a
little technique for you okay I want you
to pick one thing one thing that's
happened or something that you've done
in the past two weeks that's been
interesting or something that you've
been thinking about or something that's
been on your mind and I want you to
communicate that with her the second you
get on the phone okay so it does again
it does have to be anything crazy you
might be thinking like trip I've really
done anything the past couple weeks I
just go to work like I'm how I'm going
to work and come home that's a separate
problem in itself you should probably be
working on that and having a more fun
lifestyle but beyond that i'm sure
something interesting or something just
a little bit different has happened to
you in the past two weeks I want you to
bring it that up to her did something
weird happen at work did you go see an
interesting movie did you have an
argument with one of your friends? Are
you reading a new book? Did you see
something funny online? Did you travel
somewhere or go somewhere interesting?
Did you eat some sort of good food?
Whatever this is, just bring it up and
start talking about it. Then you can
flow the conversation from there.
We don't want to get her on the phone asking her a
bunch of questions, making her do all the
work. You offer something and then let
her respond and then you can go into
general conversation where it's back and
forth, back and forth. Again, just showing
her that you're a cool, normal chill guy
and then you go for the close which is
going to get her to meet up on a date.
Now if you have trouble with conversation
then I have a brand spanking new video
for you and it's one hundred percent
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over some of the most hard hitting
conversation topics that women can't
resist. I'm going to put a link to that
in the description below. This is brand
new, if you're watching this video
first time in March of 2017. I want
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teach you some amazing conversation
topics that you can use on the phone or
you can use in person. Pretty much
anywhere where you're meeting girls and
this sucks girls in and they really
love it. Go get that video. It's called
Chick Crack. I put that in the description
below. I want you to comment right now
down below this video. Let's have a
conversation about the phone. Do you have
any questions? Write them down below. I'll
be in there answering and I'll see you on
the next video.