Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on
common signs a woman is flirting with you. Essentially I'll be answering the
question "does she like me?" If you are watching
this video it's probably safe for me to assume that
you've been in that situation where you see someone that you're like really
interested in and you think she's really cute. But
you're having a hard time telling like "is she flirting? Is she not?" The last
thing you want to do is like embarrass yourself if she's not flirting, right? One
of the big differences between the guy who gets his ideal
girlfriend and the guy who ends up getting rejected and feeling embarrassed
is that the guy who gets his ideal girlfriend is able to tell if a girl is
flirting with him and he knows what to do after that. So just knowing
these common signs that she is flirting with you, being
able to answer the question "does she like me?" is going to put you way ahead of
the game and help you get that ideal woman. Sound exciting? Be sure
you watch to the end so that you make sure you get all of the
signs because they're very very powerful. Each woman is a little different so you
want to make sure you know what each of these signs
are. Now before we get started if this is your first time watching be sure to
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dating coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time on
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ring that bell, and give me a huge thumbs up. The secret
to being able to tell if a woman is flirting with you
really just comes down to how she's interacting with you and her body
language. I did want to mention be sure to also watch this video which
is how to tell if she's flirting or just being friendly.
That's a huge thing to know, right? That's very very important.
And be sure to watch this video it has some more signs that she's flirting with
you. I will put links to both of those in the
description below. And with that let's get started. Sign number one, our
first common sign that a woman is flirting
with you, is if she compliments you frequently.
Now the important word there is frequently.
If she just like throws out a compliment every now and again
or it's happened once or twice that's not necessarily
a sign that she's flirting with you. She could just be
a very very kind and building encouraging person.
That certainly happens. But if you notice that she complements you frequently then
that is a very good sign that she's flirting. I start with this one because
it's maybe the most obvious sign that she's
flirting with you. So it's a very important one to be aware of.
Not all women are very like obvious about their compliments. So especially if
you're crushing on a girl who's a little more shy
or maybe if you are in an environment where you're both trying to act more
professional her compliments may be more subtle.
Maybe they won't be about your physical appearance but if you pay close
attention, if she compliments you frequently,
that is a very very common, a very very good sign that she's flirting with you.
Sign number two is that she texts you a lot or she interacts with you a lot on
social media. That is a very common sign that she's
flirting with you. Because ultimately she's just trying to get your
attention. She doesn't really care how she just wants you to notice her and
talk to her and interact with her. Women are very much like men. When we're
crushing on someone we're like thinking about them a lot and so she wants to
interact with you. So if you notice that she texts you a
lot, even if maybe she doesn't start the
texts, maybe you initiate them, but she like tries to keep them going
and she sends you long texts or if she comments on what you post on
social media a lot or DMs you or tries to interact with you
a lot she is flirting with you. Quick question. I want to hear from you
guys in the comments would you like more videos
on flirting and how to know if she's flirting with you
or even how to flirt with her the right way? If you would
be sure to comment "YES!" And feel free to leave any
other recommendations specific things you would like to hear about
flirting and women. I also wanted to mention a really huge mistake you need
to make sure you avoid when it comes to reading these
signs and knowing if a girl likes you. I put it here because I know
so many people don't watch to the end and it's so important
that I need you to know this because I don't want you to be
rejected and embarrassed and hurt. If you see the signs that she is flirting with
you what it means is that she's interested
in you, she thinks you're cute, and she'd like to get to know you better.
It does not mean "oh hey I'm in love with you and I want
to marry you." So it's very important that you know
what to do next. I have a lot of you wonder "okay so now I
I know the signs. What do I do next?" And the truth is
that's a critical part of the puzzle. Because the truth is
even if she's showing signs that she's interested in you
but your approach doesn't go well and you're not interacting with her the
right way it can still completely totally fall
apart. So I see so many guys who are hurt and
feeling rejected and don't know what went wrong.
That's why you have to know what to do next. Just knowing the signs is not
enough. I obviously do not have time to go into
that in this video. That is something I do cover in my
program How to Get a Girlfriend I cover it extensively
because obviously my goal is for you not to be rejected. My goal is for you not to
get hurt. So I teach you all about that in my program How to Get a Girlfriend
I'm actually giving you a free sneak peek and a free preview at that
course right now. You can get three paid lessons totally for free, no credit card
required when you sign up today. There's a link in
the description below and I will actually put a link in
like the pinned comment. This is a great way for you to take it
for a test drive and get a sneak peek at all the material. So be sure to check
that out. Again just because she shows interest
does not mean she's in love with you. It means she's
interested. So you want to make sure you know exactly what to do
that is going to impress her and make it go amazing. So check out those links like
right now. And with that on to the rest of the
signs. Sign number three is that she laughs at all of your jokes. Guys this is
easily one of the most common things women do
like when we think you're attractive and when she's interested.
As a matter of fact when a woman is interested in a man
we just tend to think he's more funny and we are certainly more attracted to
men that we think are funny. And so for some reason
when she is attracted to you she's going to laugh
at your jokes a lot. Even when they're not funny. Have you ever cracked a joke
that you're like even you know that's bad
but she's still laughing? Yeah that is totally something women do when they're
flirting and when they're interested. Often without even knowing it. But it's
also a way for her to get you to notice her.
She wants you to feel like you guys have so much in common
and she wants you to notice her and she wants to make you feel good.
So it's very very common when she's flirting with you
for her to laugh at all of your jokes. Number four, and this is another really
obvious one, is if she hints about doing things with
you. If she's doing this she is definitely
flirting. So let's say for instance you're talking about a new
restaurant that you really enjoy or a show or
something you like to do. And she says "wow that sounds really fun! We should do
that sometime." That is her saying "Ask me out!" Or if for
instance she just finds ways to be where you are
or try and get invited to whatever it is she knows
you are doing those are ways she's flirting with you. She's trying to get
to know you better, she's trying to be close to you, she's trying to get you to
notice her. So especially if she ever says something like "We
should do that sometime." or "I'd really enjoy doing that sometime."
that is her like hardcore flirting, she wants you to ask her out.
And our fifth common sign a woman is flirting with you
is when she asks you a lot of questions about yourself. This is especially true
if maybe she doesn't know you very well yet.
If she is asking you a lot of questions that is showing interest.
Now she may not even start the conversation. She may wait for you to
initiate the conversation. Because again women need to be pursued. That is how God
made us. And so she may wait for you to start the conversation.
But if you notice that she's like asking a lot of questions
and trying to keep the conversation moving and long
and trying to keep talking to you that is a really good sign that it's
because she wants to keep talking to you. Because she's interested, she's flirting.
And so if she asks you a lot of questions about
yourself and getting to know you better that is a great sign that she's flirting.
I mentioned earlier that she may like text you a lot or talk to you
on social media a lot. These signs can actually go together.
If she's asking you a lot of questions in text
or if she's asking you a lot of questions in social media
then that's a really good sign that she's interested, she's flirting, she
wants to get to know you better. Now those are your five common signs a woman
is flirting with you, helps you know if she likes you. As I did
mention before guys I'm trying so hard to save you from
heartbreak and embarrassment and rejection. So again it's so important
that you do know what to do next, that you do know how to
approach and interact with her the right way.
Otherwise that is the best way to get rejected.
And even if she was interested in you she'll end up like
feeling uncomfortable and not want to get to know you any better. So it's very
important to know those things. Again check out the links in the
description below to take advantage of those three
free lessons. Guys these are things people pay me to teach them
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Take it for a test drive, try it out. Thank you so much again for watching
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as well. Thank you so much again my amazing friend
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Okay I'm really excited about this video.
Let's do it. Let's do it! [laughter]
Okay I always get excited. Comment if you always get excited too.
I love this. Okay here we go. [singing a jingle] Let's see. Oh, yeah. I got lost
in my own thoughts. It happens more often than you would think.
Okay. [nervous laughter] I've got to fix my hair. It's like a hot mess today
because it's so hot in here. Even my hair can't handle the pressure. [laughter]
I am in a goofy mood today. And common mist- [messed up]
Common mistake? That does- what? Thank you so much again for watching...
Oh I just realized I forgot to make sure the microphone was on.
Had a mini heart attack, the microphone is on,
we're good. [laughter]