Boys who walk with their hands in their pockets.
If I ask "where shall we eat" and he's got the audacity to day 'Anything'.
'Anything' is the worst reply from a boy.
Boys who complain that girls take too long doing makeup. - Boys complaining - Yeah.
While the girlfriend is trying to make herself pretty, him complaining that it takes too much time.
Hey guys and girls welcome to Ask Japanese this is your flashy fashion reporter CathyCat
Today we hit the streets of Tokyo from morning till evening to find out
What will make you UNPOPULAR as a boy if you come to Japan
Ah take some notes cause you don't wanna do that. Let's go and Ask Japanese.
We are asking what is uncool and will make you suck as boy in Japan.
Boys who are always condescending. - That is right.
Or who talk to staff of stores like they are the boss themselves.
Boys who don't even use honorifics to staff are suckers.
Do Japanese boys act like that a lot?
Boys who think it's cool to act like a jerk will do it. - Yeah those conceited boys exist sometimes.
Let's rest, no let's respect store staff too boys.
Boys who walk with their hands in their pockets are uncool.
Boys who have hands in their pockets or hold their own hands.
Those are the types that do not want to hold hands with girls, I do not like that.
Hold hanzihans.... Sorry Japanese goof.
Boys who cannot hold hands with their girlfriend are uncool - Totally.
They won't get laid.
Boys who look at other girls.
Hey you just looked at her - Exactly
When we are talking he be looking at another gal.
Who the heck are you looking at.
What if he says 'Isn't that girl over there a real cutie'??
That's a sucker. I won't forgive that jab.
I would be like WTH
How about boys who do this.......
Boys who just check their phones - No way, totally red flag.
Yeah yeah yeah
'Anywhere is fine' - Hell no. I want him to decide on stuff.
If I ask him where to go next ' Anywhere is fine' Is a bad response.
He better make up his mind.
In Japan a boy decides on the dating plan right?
If you can do that, it will make you popular with girls. - Hell yeah.
What if he leaves the whole date plan up to you? - I would not like that.
The best is if you both think and plan the date together.
Looking at your male friends, what conditions do they have to have to become your boyfriend.
What will make you want them?
When he notices things, that I am trying not to show.
Aaaah - oh my heart.
He really sees who I am... - Yes that.
I might not look like it but mentally I am not very strong...
If he notices that a comment of someone hurt me, and says "Their comment just hurt you right."
If they try to comfort me for that, I will know they really see me and understand my ways.
That would make a girls heart beat faster.
Before we asked what will make you popular in Japan but...
Today tell me what 3 things will make you totally unpopular as boy in Japan.
Too much perfume
Using no honorifics with staff, and complaining about how long I put on makeup.
If she is making herself pretty, complaining she is taking time.
Those three.
Someone who does not have any manners.#
Which manners?
Someone who complains and is mean to staff.
Also manners in the work environment or eating etiquette are important.
Boys who cannot do that are out. Also boys who cannot do HORENSO
Horensou? Japanese word for Spinach?? No???
It's the abbreviation for REPORT, CONTACT, DISCUSS
This is what horensou stands for? What sort of report?
Reporting that you will be late for a date for example
If he comes home late after work, just notify me
And the REN stands for?
Being able to communicate and stay in touch where abouts he is
I won't know where he is otherwise
And the SOU stands for ? - Being able to discuss
Being able to confide and discuss topics before you report or contact like "I am thinkin of this what do you think?" kind of
Boys need to be able to communicate that.
Not good if he cant communicate.
Problematic
Looking at your male friends, or strangers, is there a moment when you thought 'oh he just messed up'
Men who spit gum to the floor.
It's just so gross. How can he do that. Ewww.
That is such a gross turn off.
What about littering buds?
Dude just smoke in the smoking area and throw it away there.
We just saw a guy who decided to ignore both smoking spaces left and right and smoke right in the middle
What the hell
Right! - That's such a jerk move to do.
Really no way - At least throw it in the ash tray
Are Japanese very strict on rules?
Even on stairs, when there are no signs
By social manners people will split into either of the sides
We know that people leaving a train go first.
We Japanese already know our manners and can do them without thinking by now.
Say hi to our viewers aboard - Hello
We already asked what would make you popular in Japan in an earlier video.
Tell me today what makes someone totally unpopular in Japan
What would make you ditch a guy, what is uncool, what is NOT ON?
Being indecisive.
What do you mean?
What do you want a boy to do?
If I ask him "where shall we go for food" and he says "Anywhere is fine!'
' Anywhere is fine' is the worst! - You want him to be decisive?
Boys who will make you wait even though you agreed to meet at a time.
How long will you wait and forgive a boy to be late?
What is he is pretty much almost on time?
That is ok, even if he cuts it close.
5 minutes late - ok 10 minutes late? - Just about ok
30 minutes late - That's a no go
I would hate that - How about one hour late?
I would not wait that long. I would just go home.
If he is late and apologizes with buying you food? - That is ok
That is really good.
If he pays lunch for being late that's a good makeup.#
So guys manners in Japan are a lot more important than you might think, compared to your country.
Don't worry. We asked things that will make you unpopular but we also asked what will make you popular in Japan
Be sure to check that one out if you wanna get popular with the ladies
Thank you for subscribing, catch you soon in Tokyo