Girl: Guys need to get some balls and actually come up to girls and start approaching
much more because it's like they just don't do it enough hey guys this is
Julianne barrace mine science and dating coach with the attractive man I'm here
in beautiful British Columbia Vancouver Canada on the Granville Strip it's
Friday night the party is starting to rock the drinks are starting to flow and
we're gonna be interviewing some cool and very beautiful women on what's going
on in their heads to break up the stories in your heads that you have
about approaching them we're gonna learn a lot tonight it's gonna be a lot of fun
so stay tuned my first question to you is what was your most memorable approach
oh my god I don't know I've had my eye smack so many times and then I just
turned around and smack them back so she's pretty memorable yeah okay okay
they attractive men okay yeah I'll tell ya okay no no we got a couple more oh
okay okay okay look at this girl Dan for real I was working and I had this guy
come up to me and he was like hey like all up in my face and I was like hey
personal space you know personal space okay so no space yeah and then 20
minutes later I see him at my job stalking me asking me questions I was
like no I mean a good memorable approach I told they're all bad I don't like not
many guys approach me like him let me think
then just cook me like hey you look cute like do you want to go for a coffee
sometime and I'm like I love my guys fluffy and they asked me like what you
want to go out sometime instead of being ready for I said being really pushy and
being like I look so hot like you're so sexy like I love when they're like
really nice marriage like if they're too if they're rude like you're like no I
don't want you near me you know that okay yeah turn that way if they're like
this is sweet and they're not too pushy I don't have any memorable ones they're
all the same amount or certain poems okay I think the most remembered push I
had from a man so many options to drum iciness was just super contouring
they're like you look like the most beautiful and I've ever seen eyes like
really I was like really no one's ever said that to me they're like yeah I know
I really think so and I was like oh yeah okay and they're like yes what you're
like go get like some food I was like so is that your definition of memorable we
go that's a feeling they're like what kind of food was it oh my toes memories
I don't think I have any no memorable gorgeous my first memorable approach
actually happened here in Vancouver believe it or not
I think it was one of your colleagues something may have approached yes one of
the one of the guys that approached you yes okay I was shopping here downtown in
Pacific center we're here on Granville and one of your
I believe your colleagues who I recognize are shavers
yeah approached me good guys and it was memorable about it he just asked me
where he's the best place to grab some food which was I did not even consider
it an approach I just considered a friendly encounter I guess like the
first guy I met that I was like very much attracted to I was like I'll date
you was like the guy came up to me was just like like hey what's up hey what's
up that was it so natural and just so like oh like I can talk to you it's not
like come up to me in the club and try something where I'm like okay you're
trying it was organic where I was like hey like what's up oh it's not like a
high school party almost I can think about one but just be direct hey if you
want to fuck with me say it to me if you wanna I don't know whatever jizz that
guy wants to hook up with you say directly yes please yes see you guys
it's okay to express your sexual desires you're hearing it right from her mouth
tell them it's okay yeah it's okay it's all good do it do it do you wish that
more guys approached yeah I wish because I like to be able to be honest like I'm
the person who actually goes after guys yeah I go after them cuz no one actually
was there but enough guys are approaching no not huh hello to YouTube
tell those guys ephra should men approach more they should buy in a kind
way a kind way so do you remember a not so kind way
yes someone trying to cat call me or like smack my butt you know
does it never work no that never works I'm telling you it doesn't work you
should try a different way I don't know I like it being fun but also like
appropriate PG kids no I mean it could be a little bit it's gotta be a little
bit fun r-rated you know a little bit r-rated not in a disgusting way not in a
disgusting way you can't just go up to a girl and just smack her booty you know
this happens a lot I mean you have a really nice ass oh thanks I can't blame
them I'm not condoning it but I can't blame them thank you thank you I
appreciate it I appreciate it a memorable is their option of approaching
I'm just gonna say no one it's gonna say that's not the way to go about things
there's probably many different ways but a lot of men don't think straight and
think properly so probably that's a hard thing to answer about what's your dream
way of a man approaching you when you come to approach your girl make sure you
got your facts straight and information straight and make sure you don't come
off creepy okay so how do you want to be approached by guys I would like to be
approached by guys but like hey miss how you doin you know like actually how my
day is you know before you come up to me and be like hey what's up what's how you
do you know like all up in my face all up in don't get all up in her face or
her space say how are you doing yeah you got the date right yes how you doing yes
how you doing how you doing how you doing you do I don't want to feel like I
am being approached I wanted to be very natural and like welcoming
yeah I don't want to feel like I'm being hit on okay I gotcha I gotcha okay
pretty straightforward pretty straightforward normal is very natural
it's not like you're trying to impress your friend you know she's your friend
she like gives enough of a fuck but it's organic you're not pressing her but
you're welcoming her we're like she's like yeah like I'm
comfortable with you're like how much flirtation you give how much you just
give so like I would just tell that's a guy's like what you give to your
girlfriends like you want that kind of playfulness with your girl so just give
what you would give to your girlfriends give what you would give to your
girlfriends being natural now do guys have to say incredible things to impress
you know you just literally have to be yourself and not do that because the
girls getting girls can tell when you're literally trying to impress them and
you're just like just broke who are you who are you I don't know what like your
vancouver status is i want to know what your status is and who you are you don't
need to call confidence it's all it's just being yourself who's coming over
and saying hi because girls aren't scary just those guys are not scary like we're
all exactly and just come over say hi like they're worse I can like oh that's
or not for any person you want to hurt a guy that approaches you even if you're
not interested no never never never never it's not dangerous
see it's not a big deal okay hey guys so what did you learn in the video what
excuses do you realize you've been telling yourself what beliefs are broken
up what did you learn about women what did you learn about yourself you see
they're all stories in our head that's all they are and if you're gonna let
stories stop you from getting the women you want getting the dating life you
want getting the life you want in general what kind of way to live is up
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