Heya playa, excuse my allergies but if you're in high school and you have a crush on someone,
there's only one reason why you're watching this video and that's to get your crush to
like you back.
And how exactly do you do that?
Well, I'll tell you how right after this.
This is The Josh Speaks.
You're watching The Josh Speaks.
Now before you get your hopes up, I want to let you know right off the bat you can't make
someone like you.
What you can do is make improvements to yourself and to how you interact with your crush to
create a setting where they may potentially like you.
For example, one thing you definitely want to do is make yourself noticeable.
To many times people just sit there and stare at their crush thinking, if only.
But it doesn't have to be like that.
You see, the more active you are in social activities, the more you'll get noticed by
other people and inevitably by your crush.
Try picking up a new hobby and introduce yourself to new people in your class.
The bigger your circle is, the easier it'll be to find someone that's actually friends
with your crush so that they can make the introduction for you.
But what if your hobby is something completely out of their range of interest though?
Well a bare and simple topic that you can easily connect with them over is schoolwork.
No, seriously.
I've seen tons of people approach their crush and talk to them about schoolwork only later
on to get their phone number from a friend and build from there.
I remember in one of my college classes I was sitting there staring at a girl I liked
when a new kid walked in, sat down right next to her and started talking to her for the
whole semester.
Eventually they started going out, and me the person who was sitting behind her staring
at her for the whole semester now had to see the both of them together.
Now there may be problems with this approach because if you only talk about schoolwork,
you'll be teetering along the lines of the friend zone.
So what you definitely want to do is talk about schoolwork in the beginning and then
switch over to something more interesting.
That sounds fine and dandy.
But if you're one of those people who freeze up every time you think about just even approaching
your crush check out my video right here where I explain why and how you should approach
them in under 3 seconds.
But lets say you already talked to them and you interacted from time to time, how then
do you take the next step which is to build this consistent stream of talking to them
so that they end up liking you?
What I've come to learn is that to get someone interested and engaged in a conversation with
you, the best thing to talk about is them.
When you show a person that you're actually interested in learning more about them, it
becomes way easier for them to open up.
And because both of you guys are in high school, I know you already have a ton of questions
running through your head that you can just ask them.
They could be basic things like what college are you interested in going to, what major
do you want to have or what's the last show you binged watched on Netflix?
By getting them to open up and talk more about themselves, they'll also be interested in
what your answers to the questions are too so make sure to sprinkle in your own opinions
and your own thoughts in the process if you want to be successful.
What do you think?
What's holding you back from talking to and interacting with your crush?
Leave your comment below and we'll talk about it.
So if you combine and put into play all of the points that I've mentioned, the first
step would be building social proof.
Meet new people, interact with them and let your crush see that you're interacting with
them as well.
Second, approach with something relatable that you guys can easily talk about.
Schoolwork and school situations are the simplest things to start with.
And third, ask more about them so that you could not only learn about them but it'll
open up the door for you to share more information about yourself.
If you can learn to master these three steps, you will definitely build the confidence and
boost up your chances of having your crush like you back.
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I'm also going to share a playlist in the description of some of my best middle school
and high school videos.
A lot of the points overlap so you definitely want to check them all out.
As always guys, love and peace.