- "LOVE HIM OR LEAVE HIM,
BUT DON'T GET STUCK WITH THE TAB,"
AND IT'S LOVE ADVICE.
AND WE ASKED SOME PEOPLE IN OUR AUDIENCE HERE
IF THEY HAD ANY QUESTIONS THAT LONI COULD HELP WITH,
AND BRITNEY MOLNAR-- WHERE IS BRITNEY?
BRITNEY, WHAT'S YOUR... WHAT'S YOUR QUESTION FOR LONI?
- HEY. HI, LONI. HEY, ELLEN.
- HI. - HEY.
- SO YEAH, I'M CURRENTLY KIND OF IN A BEST FRIEND TO FRIENDS
WITH BENEFITS TO QUESTION MARK, QUESTION MARK PHASE,
AND I'M A LITTLE AFRAID OF THE COMMITMENT.
I'VE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP,
SO I'M KIND OF--I DON'T WANT TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP,
BUT I DO CARE BOTH PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY.
I DO. I REALLY DO. I JUST DON'T KNOW.
I DON'T WANT TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP,
'CAUSE THAT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING.
- NOW, DOES HE WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP,
A SERIOUS, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP?
- I THINK HE DOES, YES.
- OKAY, BUT YOU DON'T?
- I DON'T KNOW.
I DON'T KNOW.
THAT'S WHY I'M ASKING. DO I?
- OH, OKAY. WELL, HOW DO YOU DON'T--
IF YOU DON'T TRY IT-- AT LEAST TRY IT.
BUT YOU'RE STILL YOUNG, SO REMEMBER THAT,
BUT ONCE YOU GET TO 30, YOU BETTER WATCH OUT,
'CAUSE YOU'LL BE ON CHRISTIANMINGLE.COM, GIRL, OKAY?
SO...
- OKAY, WELL, WE DON'T WANT THAT, SO...
- TRY IT OUT, AND IF IT DOESN'T WORK,
YOU KNOW, THEN GO FIND SOMEBODY ELSE,
BUT WHEN YOU HIT 30,
START GETTING INTO COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS, OKAY?
- GOT IT. GOT IT.
- REALLY, THE LONGER YOU WAIT, I THINK THE HARDER IT IS
TO LET SOMEBODY IN, BECAUSE YOU'RE SO SHUT DOWN,
AND YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SHARE, AND YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO--
AND I THINK IT'S IMPORTANT TO AT LEAST TRY IT.
- I HAVE WAITED A WHILE.
I AM KNOWN AS THE SPINSTER IN MY GROUP OF FRIENDS,
SO IT MIGHT BE TIME TO--YEAH.
- AT 23. THAT'S SAD. OKAY.
- OKAY.
- ALL RIGHT, BUT SERIOUSLY, LET SOMEBODY IN.
IT GETS HARDER AND HARDER.
AND VALENTINA.
WHERE'S VALENTINA?
- HI, ELLEN. - HI.
- HI, LONI. - HEY, VALENTINA.
- HI.
I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR SEVEN YEARS.
I'VE GOT THREE CHILDREN.
AND I'M FEELING THE SEVEN-YEAR ITCH.
DO I LOVE HIM, OR DO I LEAVE HIM?
- GIRL, DOES HE HELP YOU TAKE CARE OF THEM THREE KIDS?
- HE DOES THE BEST THAT HE CAN.
- MY OTHER QUESTION IS, DOES HE WATCH THIS SHOW?
[laughter]
- ALL THE TIME, ALL THE TIME.
- I MEAN, REALLY.
- BUT I MEAN, THIS IS THE-- YOU KNOW, DOES HE WORK?
- YES. - DOES HE PROVIDE?
- YES.
- GIRL, DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY WOMEN WANT A MAN LIKE THAT,
AND YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT LEAVING HIM?
YOU BETTER LOVE HIM.
- I WILL. - THAT'S WHAT YOU DO.
- THANK YOU.
- OH, BOY.
[laughter]
LAMYAN. WHERE'S--IS THAT YOU?
WHAT'S YOUR NAME?
- THAT'S ACTUALLY MY LAST NAME.
MY FIRST NAME IS GREENBERG.
- WHAT'S YOUR FIRST NAME?
- GREENBERG. - OKAY.
- OKAY. - I HAVE IT BACKWARDS HERE.
OKAY, GREAT, AND YOUR QUESTION IS?
- MY QUESTION FOR YOU, LONI, IS,
I'VE BEEN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND FOR TWO YEARS.
IT'S GONNA BE THREE YEARS THIS SUMMER, THIS AUGUST,
AND I JUST WANT TO KNOW, WHEN SHOULD YOU PROPOSE?
- IS SHE HERE?
- YEAH, SHE'S RIGHT HERE.
I'M NOT SAYING THAT I WILL PROPOSE TODAY,
BUT WHEN SHOULD YOU KNOW?
I JUST WANT TO-- I JUST WANT TO BE PREPARED.
[laughter]
- YOU ABOUT TO GET YOURSELF IN TROUBLE, OKAY?
- OH, MY GOD.
- SERIOUSLY.
I WAS WATCHING HER FACE, AND SHE'S LIKE,
"OH, OH, MY GOD. HE'S GONNA PROPOSE RIGHT NOW."
- I KNOW. LOOKIT--NO, NO.
LOOKIT. SEE, SHE WAS ALL HAPPY. SHE WAS...
- I KNOW.
- YOU SHOULD PROPOSE TO HER ON BLACK FRIDAY,
WHEN THE RINGS ARE, LIKE, 99% OFF.
[laughter]
- SOUNDS GOOD. SOUNDS GOOD.
- ALL RIGHT.
OH, MY LORD.
LONI'S BOOK "LOVE HIM OR LEAVE HIM" IS AVAILABLE.
I WISH WE HAD MORE OF THESE QUESTIONS,
'CAUSE THEY'RE QUITE SOMETHING.
LONI LOVE, EVERYBODY.
WE'LL BE BACK.