You my friend are about to discover why women do not like aggressive alpha males, and five
uncommon things that you need to do immediately to become the true alpha male that sexy women
absolutely crave! And to explain it let me tell you something
really [ __ ] up that happened to me where i almost died!
I was inches away from a furious intoxicated drug addict yelling in my face screaming i'm gonna kick
your ass my roommate josh at the time got addicted to cocaine and it turned him into the most
unbearable person to live with and for the sake of my sanity i decided to move out which meant
josh had to move out as well which really pissed him off the evening before the move-out date
josh came home from the bars drunk and hyzerkite and saw that me and my girlfriend at the time
had packed up some of his things for him and he became furious josh got inches away from my face
yelling at the top of his lungs swinging his fists with veins bulging from his forehead like a crazy
maniac now normally i would have just pushed him out of my face but we were on the second floor and
my back was against the low hanging window i knew that if things got crazy he could just push me out
of the window then likely i wouldn't be here right now making this video but something weird happened
at that moment i didn't feel angry or tense for some reason i stayed grounded like a mountain
simply nodding and talking to him in a slow calm way but my girlfriend at the time was sitting in
the kitchen with one hand on her phone about to call the police frankly i thought she was
gonna immediately dump my ass for being a coward for not fighting him but after a few minutes of
yelling at me and me just staying calm and poised josh finally stepped back collapsed onto the couch
and started sobbing as i walked over to my girlfriend thinking this is it she's definitely
gonna break up with me for not fighting him i was completely blown away when she jumped into
my arms and said that was the sexiest thing i ever saw that night i discovered that being alpha had
nothing to do with fighting or being tough or overpowering other people quite the opposite in
fact those types of alphas typically scare women and make them feel unsafe a true alpha is grounded
he's calm and he can hold his composure during high pressure moments he stands up for himself
but he only fights when absolutely necessary like a lion peacefully leading his pride knowing that
he can handle anything that comes his way and it might be hard to believe but it's one of the
fastest ways to turn a woman on because when she can really feel that you're that type of solid
grounded man she will probably throw herself at you and the next time a woman tests you
you won't crumble like a sad pathetic child or get all angry and butt hurt but instead you'll
stand up to her and show her that she can't emotionally knock you down thus making her
choose you over all the other alpha males chasing her so then the question of course
is how do you become that type of grounded man you put yourself in intense situations and then
practice remaining calm present and emotionally unaffected and now let's get into my five
favorite ways to do that at the top we have cold showers i'm talking like 40 45 degrees
fahrenheit and you're gonna want to freak out the first time you do it you're gonna be like ah
this sucks i hate you matt but the key is to remain calm and just clean your body and just
breathe into it and instead of freaking out just allow yourself to feel the coldness on your body
it might feel like shards of glass but just accept that feeling knowing that in a few minutes
that feeling's gonna go away and then you're gonna feel super pumped and energized when you
get out of the shower man if you do this every day not only does it speed up your heart rate
variability which makes you feel just more calm and relaxed throughout your day but when high
pressure situations come up you're gonna be able to just stay a lot more calm and relaxed next is
public speaking or public singing aka karaoke for a lot of people it's kind of like skydiving
or bungee jumping which seems like really really scary until you actually take the plunge usually
getting up in front of a big audience is really scary until you get up there and then you're more
in the moment so it's not only about being calm and relaxed while you're in front of the audience
but also the moments before and i remember one of the first times i did improvisational comedy
where i was up on stage with a few other performers and i was waiting for them to call on
me and i was all in my head trying to prepare like something funny to say and when they called on me
it wasn't all that funny i didn't really like i was so in my head i didn't have anything good to
say but when i just relaxed and i didn't even think about it and i just let the moment come
to me when they called on me i was a lot more funnier because i was in the present moment and
really the key here is to release the nervousness the anxiety and the anticipation that comes up let
all that go so you can be fully present fully in the moment and normally you'll perform much better
next we have competitive sports and fighting now i'm not talking about picking fights at the bar
i'm talking about boxing or sparring which also has the added benefit of toughening you up as a
man if you feel like you are too soft or women have told you that you're such a nice guy then
chances are you need to unleash that masculine beast inside of you but you need to do it in a
controlled safe environment because if you're like most guys who keep that part of you suppressed
all the time then at some moment for example when a woman confronts you and yells at you
or does or says something that you don't like that beast might come out in a way you do not want and
absolutely terrify her so you need to be able to control that side of you because remember
a big part of attraction does have to do with making women feel safe and a good example of
this is imagine how michael jordan would respond to missing a shot or something not going his way
versus how charles barkley would respond too necessarily to take that shot that fast next
we have comfort zone challenges these are doing things that just get out of your comfort zone
typically in public areas such as going up to a random woman and proposing to her take me to beer
oh my god or one of my favorites public penis push-ups now i'm not talking about actually
doing a push-up with your penis that is pretty hard maybe impossible i'm talking about doing
push-ups where you yell the word penis in a public place or you could ask for a slice of pizza at a
mcdonald's or ask for a burger at pizza hut run over on roll or you could just go up and ask to
borrow a stranger's car literally the list of things that you could do is pretty much endless
and here's a little secret at our seven day advanced boot camps we do a lot of comfort zone
challenges and a lot of exercises where we bring out that masculine powerful man inside of you and
then finally my all-time favorite approaching beautiful women hey real quick hey excuse me
don't i know you now not only are you building resilience and the skill of flirting with women
but you're also building courage every time you see a beautiful woman and you actually go talk
to her can you girls help me with something you're doing something that's courageous
it builds courage versus the opposite where you see a beautiful woman and you don't go talk to her
because of fear you're actually building more fear inside you you're actually becoming less
attractive so remember that next time you see a beautiful woman that you want to go talk to do it
at least for the reason that you want to become more courageous because women are absolutely
attracted to courageous men they are not attracted to men who are full of fear now these are just a
few things that you can do to help you become more grounded but of course there's a ton more
that's why we usually work with guys personally to give them this deep transformation to become
more grounded and a lot more attractive we release their emotional blocks and remove their anxiety
have them role play with female models to help them be a lot more centered and present in front
of beautiful women and tons and tons of other techniques to help them become more confident
and grounded and it's no wonder why so many guys tell me that they were totally shocked at how much
they'd changed or they feel like they've gained a superpower i feel like superman right now i feel
like i've gained a superpower the point is it's a life-changing process and if you'd like to see how
our process can transform you i'll put a link down in the description and at the right side of this
video to apply for a free breakthrough session so you can chat with our team they'll ask you a few
simple questions to evaluate your situation and then give you a personal action plan to transform
your dating life so what are you waiting for man apply for coaching and i can't wait to see you
at a boot camp soon my name's matt artisan from the attractive man thanks for watching this video
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