The power of eye sex, how to seduce a woman with just your eyes. Now, before we get into this,
it's important to note that holding eye contact with women conveys confidence.
The only reason, or one of the main reasons why we are unable to hold eye contact with
women is because we suffer from something called toxic shame. If you are someone that
really struggles to hold eye contact with women, just type into YouTube,
Gary Gunn, toxic shame. And I have given you three very powerful videos that will help you to deal
with it so that you are able to hold eye contact. So this episode is for people that do not struggle
to hold eye contact, and I will show you what you can do to understand the power of eye sex.
So another, just precursor to this, when you first get eye contact with a girl that you like,
it is important that she breaks eye contact first. So ideally, you want to catch her attention,
look at her in the eyes, and you want her to break the eye contact with you.
Now, if she's going to then give you a sign, she likes you, she will typically look down,
look away, and then look back at you whilst you're still holding her eyes. That is a great way
of showcasing that you like each other before you've even started a conversation. It conveys
confidence and it's the beginning part of a seduction just by using your eyes.
Now, let's talk about the two techniques that you can use to understand the power of eye sex. Now,
the first one is to slow down your voice. Now, this is an actor's technique and it
is brilliant. So if you listen to a lot of my videos before you'll know that I speak this pace
most of the time, however, there are times when I will slow down my words to emphasise
points. Now, the way in which I do this is by using my peripheral
vision. Now I'll explain how this works. So if you're looking straight in front of you,
you can try this. You can try this by pausing this episode and trying exactly what I'm describing.
So as I'm looking forward, I'm a 100% focused on what's in front of me.
And I sort of have a little bit of peripheral vision to the left, to the right, to the up and
to the down. Now, what I can do to slow down is to put some of my attention on my peripheral vision.
So I'm going to do that now, just as I'm speaking, as I do that instantly,
because I'm trying to focus on more than what I'm saying, you'll notice that I've slowed
down and you can speed up by putting your attention back to the front,
or you can slow down by having more attention on your peripheral vision.
Now, the reason why this is ultra important, because when you slow down, all of a sudden,
when you're talking to a woman and you slow down the pace, you are controlling the frame,
and what you're doing here is creating a seduction with the power and the resonance of your voice.
So you can be talking to a girl that you like, you're having a nice conversation
and then all of a sudden you slow down and you look at her directly in the eyes
initially. So that's the first part, is to slow down your voice by using
your peripheral vision. Now you keep your eye contact on the girl as you're speaking to her,
you just become more aware of your left, your right, the up or the down, and you can
practise this as I've just alluded to, and it will teach you how to slow down at any point.
You can also use this for presenting. You can use this at work. You can use it at any time
you want to emphasise something and become more powerful and more seductive with your behaviour.
Now, once you can do this, the next part is called the triangle gaze. Now this is when
you continually look from her left eye to her right eye to her mouth, back to her left eye.
And if you slow down your words, so you've created a seductive frame
and you're looking between these three, you want to hold it for a fraction of a second on her left
eye, then slowly over to her right then hold, then slowly down to her lips. But you want to
hold for a fraction of a second at each point. And this is called the upside down triangle.
Now, when you do both of these together, you are creating a very seductive vibe.
You are controlling it. You are moving it from a nice conversation to a principle when
you are leading. And this is the perfect precursor to lead up to the first kiss.
So let's round up this episode and just give you an overview of the power of eye sex and
how to seduce a woman with just your eyes. So I spoke about initially, if you cannot hold eye
contact with women, it is probably because you suffer from toxic shame. The good news is I've
done a lot of videos on this and you are able to cure yourself. The second one is that when
you first get eye contact from a woman, it is important that she breaks your eye contact first,
otherwise you are conveying a lack of confidence. Now onto the two techniques is to slow
down when you're speaking by putting attention on your peripheral vision.
And the other technique was the triangle gaze, where you flick from one eye to the other,
down to her mouth. When you do these together, you create a very powerful,
seductive moment. I am able to teach all of this from anywhere around the world,
on my Skype coaching sessions. So if you would like to learn more about how to seduce a woman
with your eyes and the power of eye sex, then you will find a link to my website and a description
where you will then be able to book a free consultation call with me
where I'm able to educate you on how I can increase your dating confidence.