everyone wants things to go their way
here seven mine tricks you can do right now to get what you want
to get someone to subconsciously
think be like you mirror their body language "feel like we could
bring in" "that's great I'd love to work here"
ask a small favor of someone. "Can you open this for me"
before you ask them for what you really want "hey you know you're pretty strong"
"I'm moving this weekend I could really use some help"
"Oh, yeah sure"
ask for something big "Hey Sarah would you mind watching my cat this weekend?"
"uh this weekend?" before you reveal what you really need
"Actually maybe that's a lot to ask, maybe just put this mail for me"
"Yea, I could do that" sometimes we think our emotions are caused one reason
but are actually caused by another
do something exciting with the day and they might mistake there jitters for
attraction
you can get someone to agree with you in the moment on something that is clearly
incorrect
by placing them in a group setting and having everyone else give that wrong
answer
"Hey, by the way all of us have been showing up to work every Sunday"
"You haven't been there, right guys?" "every Sunday man" "you got a show up to work on Sunday man"
"okay okay"
"cool" if you want someone to remember you out of the group, try to be introduced first
or last
"Who wants to go first?" "I'll go first" "we all have to go to the damn bathroom every once in a
"while but what could be a helluva lot more"
fun" you do you can persuade an audience better by mildly swearing at the
start and/or end of a speech or presentation
it will demonstrate that you're passionate about your argument "and short"
"it's something we need, damn it"
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