- Hey, Mama.
Hey, baby.
You look good.
Oh my god.
Hey, baby.
How you doing, Mama?
I'm doing OK.
Have a seat, baby.
Oh, you started drinking wine without me now?
Baby, I drink it.
You already know that.
I feel antsy about telling my mom
that I'm engaged, especially the meet with Marvaline,
and just how bad it went.
Is it all right if, you know, if I marry her?
I'm not going to say I'm pleased with it.
I worry about my daughter.
Why would I approve something that I know needs work?
I can't help you there.
I'm just hoping this one goes good.
I need some kind of positivity, somebody
cheering me on at this point.
And I'm hoping it's my mom.
I'm going to tell you something.
I'm nervous right now to tell you.
But a few days ago.
I asked Kee Kee to marry me.
So we're engaged.
Why did you drink the wine like that?
Wow.
I mean, it's a big shock.
If I wasn't the person I was, I probably
would've said something extra.
Marriage is a big thing.
I'm kind of feeling a little nervous going into this--
- Of course. you're 23. - Yeah.
And that's the reason why.
Let me ask you a question.
Do you feel you lived all your life,
and you done had all the women you needed to have in life?
Have you ran through enough?
Mama, what?
I mean, answer the question.
For one, I dipped and dabbed in it, and it wasn't for me.
I mean, it's a big shock.
I got married young.
I just feel like I don't want him to make that mistake I
made a long time.
I don't feel like Kareem is ready to be a husband.
You know, Kareem, I really want you to be seasoned.
You know, let a little time pass by.
Because I got married at 22.
And I was married for eight years and I let it go.
But then I got married later in life.
And it was a different situation because I had lived life.
I could tell with some of her words
or some of the facial expressions
that she didn't agree with it.
And that makes me feel really terrible inside.
I just need your 100% full support in it.
If you don't have a foundation,
the whole house will collapse.
Think about it.
It ain't going to work.
Good afternoon.
How are you doing?
I'm good.
I'm here.
We want to talk openly and honestly because I know
that you have some serious concerns about Kee Kee
and about Kareem.
Am I right?
Yes.
I can't control who she lives her life with.
I can pray about it and certainly
hope that it's the right person for her and life and her son.
Right.
Now I want you to be honest.
Do you think that there needs to be more maturity?
Do you think he's ready?
You think he's gotten all of his dating out?
No.
You don't think so?
I hope he has.
But she's never told me that he cheats or anything.
No.
But she's told the pornography.
Mama.
Just going to throw it out there.
Don't look strange.
Let's not get into that.
I'm not--
We want the truth?
Put it on the table.
At this point, my mom is just trying to find
excuses to pick on Kareem.
I just feel like that's so extreme.
He's came to family dinners, Thanksgiving, Christmas dinner.
And he sits like he's a stranger to us.
I had the impression that he thought
he was better than our family.
And why?
I have no earthly clue.
I mean, does this make you, has
this sort of made you hesitate, you know,
going to see your family?
Because-- really?
That's a problem.
That's a part of the reason why I wanted to smooth
everything over, is because that impacted
my relationship with them.
And at one point, my grandfather lived with her.
And so I didn't see him a lot.
And time got away from me, and my grandfather actually passed.
Oh.
So I beat myself up a lot because I knew I should've
spent more time with him.
And I didn't because of this little
whatever this is that's going on between my family and Kareem.
If something happened to my mom before we
were able to fix this, I don't think
that I could forgive myself.
So I'm actually glad that everything's out in the open
now.
So hopefully we can resolve it.
Ms. Marvaline, how you feel about what she's saying?
She spoke about her grandfather.
And during the death and burial, something that Kareem
said to her is very immature.
Do you know what that is?
I don't, I don't remember really.
When he told you why are you crying?
He's dead.
I do not like his personality.
Well, that's a problem.