If A Woman Has These Traits, Never Let Her Go
15.
She’s positive- If you have a woman by your side who always sees life as half full instead
of half empty you have a keeper!
Maybe you think she’s too happy and confident all the time and while this can be annoying
to some people, it’s an excellent skill to be able to see the good in situations.
Because negative people aren’t good for your health or your life in the long run,
and you don’t want to be dealing with that kind of stress.
Relationships should make you feel happy and bring positivity to your life, not pressure,
anger, and negativity.
We tend to take the negative from other people we spend the most time with subconsciously
without even realizing it.
For example, if your best friend is always cynical and has something bad to say about
everything then that energy will rub off on you even if you don’t know it until someone
says something to you about, or sees a change in you.
It has been proven in research that negativity can increase your heart rate, messes up concentration,
and messes up our digestion system.
Proof that you should surround yourself with positive people.
14.
Smarter than you- Scientists all over the globe have been trying to figure out the issues
dealing with intricate things we all deal with in life like, relationships and love,
and have spent tons of time and effort trying to figure out how people interact and go together
like puzzle pieces, and what qualities need to be in a relationship to make a healthy
and lasting relationship.
When you are looking for a soulmate or a partner in crime as some people say, make sure that
she has brains and not just beauty.
Ideally, the woman should be smarter than you are.
Science says, the disease called dementia has been researched for a long time, and scientists
and professors have found that an intelligent woman can help you avoid getting dementia
later on in life.
Professor Lawrence Whalley said, “The thing a boy is never told he needs to do if he wants
to live a longer life, but what he should do is marry an intelligent woman.
There is no better buffer than intelligence.”
So having a partner who never stops challenging you and keeps you on your toes, also helps
you keep your mental health in check.
13.
She’s honest- We’re not robots, we’re all human which means we make bad decisions
and mistakes from time to time, this is what makes it even more critical to have someone
who can keep you on track and isn’t afraid to tell you when you're wrong.
Studies have shown us that men want to have an honest woman by their side when they are
looking for a lifelong partner.
This is an essential thing on the priority list for just about anybody
12.
She compromises- Life can’t always be sunshine and rainbows and at some point during your
relationship you and your partner will argue about something.
It’s completely normal, and a given that something is bound to leave the both of you
upset or disagreeing with each other, but a relationship only works if both people are
willing to work on the issues.
Psychologists at UCLA have done surveys on 172 married couples for eleven years and Author
Thomas Bradbury said, “It’s easy to be committed to your relationship when it’s
going well, as a relationship changes, however, shouldn’t you say at some point something
like, I’m committed to this relationship, but it’s not going very well, I need to
have some resolve, make some sacrifices and take the steps I need to take to keep this
relationship moving forward.”
Scientists say people who are willing to compromise and make the sacrifices will have a long and
happy marriage.
11.
Open heart- Having a partner who stands out in public without even trying to and can make
herself heard in a crowd can make things a lot easier for you.
The University of Westminster did a study that showed that people who are more open
to love and expression of love and share personal information about themselves are seen as more
attractive by other people.
The authors who did the study said that this quality is such a major one that people will
judge the person’s physical appearance of open people as more beautiful or handsome.
It has a lot to do with the way someone views you, and even if you’re not the most gorgeous
person on the planet, chances are if you have an open heart and aren’t afraid to be open
about yourself, people will find you much more attractive and inviting.
10.
Parents- If your woman has a good relationship with her parents, that’s always a positive
sign.
If you want to see how your girlfriend will look like years from now just take a look
at their parents, and pay attention to how they treat their parents.
The way people treat their parents when they get older says a lot about a person.
Researchers at the University of Alberta asked 2,970 people of all different ages and saw
a pattern between the relationship people have with their parents in their teenage years
and their love life later on in life.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that her relationship with her parents would affect her romantic
relationships, but knowing your part in the relationship with your parent’s would be
very important to realize any sign of repeating behavior, whether it be negative or positive
in an intimate relationship.
The best way to be great in other relationships is to be aware of specific behavioral traits.
9.
Supports you- If she supports your goals and pursues her own at the same time, that is
a very good thing!
For some time, scientists have tried to prove that men like to marry weak women instead
of strong financially independent women.
But times have changed, and women have more rights than they used to.
The book, “Why smart men marry smart women,” explains
why the myth is wrong and proves that successful, and well-educated women don’t get married
any less often than anyone else.
Having a strong woman by your side has its advantages!
She will motivate you and won’t depend on you for everything.
You don’t need to stress as much, and you won’t need constant validation.
A weak person usually seems to forget about their own goals and self-care.
Those people don’t prioritize their partner’s goals either; they seem to forget goals and
aspirations completely.
You need a combination of both your own goals and goals the two of you set together as a
couple.
8.
She laughs- It’s always a good feeling when someone you like laughs at your jokes and
thinks your funny.
Of course, we always want somebody by our side who actually thinks our jokes are funny.
A study was done by psychologists in 2006 at Westfield State University that said having
a partner who thinks their funny is more desired by men than it is for women.
If you're lucky enough to have already found a woman that you can laugh and be silly with,
make sure you treat her right!
7.
She’s kind- Science suggests that two key things to a happy and long relationship are
generosity and kindness.
John Gottman, who is a psychologist at the University of Washington, started researching
married couples over four decades ago.
He discovered two kinds of couples, Masters, and Disasters; the disasters usually separate
within the first six years of the relationship.
But the masters say together for a very long time and always have something in common.
“They are scanning the social environment for things they can appreciate and say thank
you for.
They are building this culture of respect and appreciation very purposefully,” he
told the Atlantic during an interview.
6.
Remains calm- If your lady remains calm during arguments and calms you down too, you have
a winner, and you're a fortunate person to have her.
Fights are without a doubt going to happen in all relationships.
Never disagreeing is not a good sign of a healthy relationship.
But the important thing is how you deal with the arguments and how you make up with each
other after.
Researchers at the University of California Berkeley have studied eighty couples for thirteen
years, and they found out that a relationship will last the longest if the woman calms herself
down during a fight and transfer those emotions to her partner.
The effect isn’t the same if the guy is the one that calms down first though.
Women are usually the ones who get heated and start talking too much during an argument,
and if they calm down and catch themselves before they say something they're going to
regret later, it could save a lot of time and arguments in the future.
5.
Her own life- Having your own life and privacy is critical for your relationship
This has been proven by studies at the University of Michigan.
Terry Orbuch said in an interview with the Wall Street Journal, “when individuals have
their own friends, their own set of interests when they are able to define themselves not
by their spouse or relationship, which makes them happier and less bored.”
It’s always good to have your own separate life and make your own plans and keep yourself
busy, so you don’t forget about yourself in all of the excitement and distraction that
a new lover and new relationship brings.
4.
Nurturing skills- Most women have this quality already embedded in them as a natural way
of life.
Women are born with the instinct to take care of things; this might explain why they can
multitask and take care of work duties while taking care of a baby at the same time.
Men like a woman who they see would be suitable for their future children and as a great mother.
They want to know that if they were to have a family one day, which they are responsible
and have the nurturing quality to take care of the family.
3.
Silly with you- Does she do foolish things and acts silly with you?
If you answered yes, then chances are you have a great woman in your life.
For example, if you’ve found a woman who doesn’t hold it against you if you stay
out too long partying or in most cases because she was out having fun with you, so she had
no reason to wonder or worry, then never let go!
It’s a healthy thing to be able to have fun and let loose with your significant other
without any jealousy or drama.
If you have a partner like this, don’t take them for granted.
A study done at the University of Michigan showed that the happiest couples where those
who drank alcohol together.
Of course, that doesn’t mean that alcoholics are happier than sober ones, or that party
couples are better than sober couples.
But it could be because couples that do more fun activities together are better marriage
material.
It’s a mood killer for anybody if every time you go out with your partner there's
an argument or you don't feel comfortable being yourself, so if you have someone who
has fun with you and doesn’t give you a hard time for letting loose and getting a
little wild together at a party, don’t let them go!
2.
Accepts flaws- Way too many relationships seem to have one partner always criticizing
the other one.
Whether it be their outfit that you're not a fan of, their bad jokes, or their annoying
eating habits, or their crazy driving, it could be anything, but you get the idea.
So if you’ve found a woman who just accepts you, you should consider yourself very lucky.
Having a positive outlook will rub off on you and attract you to other people who also
see the world as more positive than negative.
In a healthy, real relationship both partners should always accept each other’s flaws
and imperfections.
Otherwise, you’ll be really annoyed the majority of the time and will make your partner
feel less confident and comfortable around you.
So if you have found a girl who embraces the weird things you do and doesn’t try to change
you, you’ve got a good one!
1.
Doesn’t hold grudges- If you have found a woman who can forgive other people and doesn't
hold grudges, you should keep her by your side for a long time.
Studies have shown that people who forgive others unconditionally live longer lives.
It’s a huge turn off if someone always holds grudges and doesn’t move on from the past.
Forgiveness really is the foundation of a healthy relationship.
Nobody is perfect, and neither are you, and there will be times when you do something
that upsets your partner, and that’s when you'll want her to be able to forgive you.
If both partners do it, this is a strong aspect of a long-lasting relationship.
If you have a woman by your side who has some or all of these qualities, treat her well
and never let her get away, your life will be much better with her in it!