Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to make a girl happy. And
spoiler, it's not as hard as most people think. What you will learn in this video
comes from my insight is a woman as well as my extensive training and research as
a certified coach. The easiest tip is probably the last one so you're gonna
want to make sure you don't miss it. Before we get started be sure to
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My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I help really good
guys get the girl of your dreams so you're gonna want to make sure you
subscribe and ring that bell. So have you ever tried to get a girl to notice you
or to be interested in you or to smile and it just kind of like failed and you
felt like super awkward? Super painful, am I right? Honestly, you are not alone.
Dating and figuring out how to interact with each other can feel like putting a
puzzle together, but have you ever tried to put a puzzle together like upside
down? Like is in rather than the picture side
up you flipped it over and all you can see is like the ugly cardboard? Sometimes
that's what it feels like trying to put that together, right? But once you
actually know what the puzzle is supposed to look like it's a lot easier, am I
right? Well the good news is, is today I'm going to show you how to put some of
those pieces into place, and once you do that it's a whole lot easier. Pretty
exciting, right? Once you have these puzzle pieces you can run with them and
start attracting women like crazy. Now there is one huge elephant in the room
that we need to address before we get started with these tips. As I mentioned
before, the title of this video is "How to Make a Girl Happy". And the big thing you
need to know is you will actually never make another person happy. And if there
is a woman you know who expects you to make her happy and wants you to just
keep trying and keep working to make her happy and if you feel like it is your
job to make her happy, that is a toxic relationship and you
should run as far as you can. I see this happen to good guy after good guy. It is
in your nature as a man to want to protect her and take care of her. And the
truth is, to the right woman that's one of the reasons she falls in love with
you, that is such an incredible trait that is very attractive to women. Sadly
though toxic women will take advantage of that and she will make you work
forever to try and make her happy and fix it for her when that's not your job.
Happiness comes from within. So I do have a ton of videos on toxic women and how
to identify those traits. Be sure to at least watch this one, there is a link in
the description below. But I have an entire playlist on it, be sure to watch
through those because that will help you a ton. It's pretty much, just, if you want
to make sure you have your dream relationship you have to know these
things. So that's out of the way, now we can relax and get to the tips because
the truth is even though you can't make another person happy and you should
never be in a relationship where she wants you to do that
the truth is making someone feel amazing is a really good life decision, right?
Even though you cannot make her happy you can make her day and you can make
her feel wonderful about you and what that does is that takes the attraction
level up dramatically. This is ultimately what makes a woman fall in love with you.
So with that let's get started. How to make a girl happy tip number one is to
make sure you treat her the same way when you are with your friends as you do
when you it's just like one-on-one. Sometimes, this is so easy to do,
sometimes when we're with our friends we treat people differently. And the truth
is, that really bothers women, like that's very very hurtful to us. So just make
sure you are treating her with the same respect and same interest as you would
if your buddies weren't there. Tip number two is to make sure that you
are there for her. For instance, if she asks you for help with something or if
you have some kind of obligation or some kind of
set up make sure you follow through and that you are there for her. That really
helps her feel like she matters to you, like she's important. That is definitely
going to make her happy. She needs to feel like you are invested in this
relationship no matter what stage the relationship is
at. Even if it's just "Hey, we're getting to know each other." Even if she's not
your girlfriend yet she needs to know that you have respect for her and that
is huge to women. Now some of you are wondering "Wait. I thought that that would
put me in the friend zone if I do things like that." The truth is, that's actually
not true. So many people are teaching this completely wrong. That is actually
not how you end up in the friend zone, but if you watch this video you'll be
able to find out why you end up in the friend zone. So be sure to check that one
out, there is a link in the description below. The truth is, these are the things
that actually make a woman fall in love with you as long as you go about it the
right way so be sure to watch that video, it will help you a ton. Tip number three
with how to make a girl happy is if you see that she is stressed or worried or
upset about something, ask her why. That is a huge huge thing to women, it means
so much to her. Again, that's one of those traits that makes a woman fall in love.
Now again, as I mentioned before, you need to make sure you're not dealing with a
toxic woman because toxic women want you to just like baby them and they want the
drama and so on and so forth and so she will use that to her advantage and just
always have you involved in her little whatever is going on. So again, you do
want to make sure you watch those videos to make sure that that is not what is
happening. If you know the signs you don't really have to worry about it,
right? So be sure to watch those videos. But, we all have that day sometimes,
right? We all have things we worry about sometimes. And women bond through
talking. That's how we feel close to you, that's how we feel like we matter to
you, and it helps us really develop feelings for you. So if you just ask her
"Hey, is everything okay?" or "What's going on?"
That is going to really help her just like feel really happy and really really
drawn to you. Be sure that you do not push it. If she doesn't seem open to
talking about it or doesn't want to talk about it
do not push it. If you push it you're gonna mess it up so don't do that. But
just the fact alone that you showed that you were interested and that you cared
about how she was feeling, that is HUGE even if she doesn't really
want to talk about it. Quick question before we get to tip number four. Should
I make more videos on how to make a girl happy, all those little things you can do?
The truth is, there are so many and they're so easy and they make all the
difference. So if you think I should make more
videos on this be sure to comment "YES!" in the comments below and I will know to do
that for you. And tip number four is to be a gentleman. I don't care what anybody
says, if she's a real woman, yes I just said that, if she is respectful, it means
everything to her when you are a gentleman. When you hold the door and you
treat her with respect and you use those old-fashioned, so to speak, manners,
that means everything to her. Again, I keep mentioning this through this whole
video, but that's because it's so important. Guys, if she is mad at you for
holding the door open for her, she is a toxic woman and don't waste
your time on her, okay? The truth is, women who are just looking for a happy and
healthy relationship, that is a deal breaker, that is what makes her fall in
love with you. So no matter what society says or what's politically correct to
say, the truth is, the majority of women, it melts our hearts when you are a
gentleman. That is certainly going to make her happy and more attracted to you.
And we are to number five which I think may surprise a lot of you and it's
actually one of the easiest ways to make a girl happy, and it is to smile at her.
Just smile at her. Smiles make us feel connected to each other,
we are always most attractive when we are smiling, and it shows a lot of
confidence and, again, builds that connection. Now this is especially true
if she notices that you are smiling because of her. It's like a really really
awesome feeling. Like for instance, smile at her when she walks in the room or
whatever it is, let her see your face light up. That is huge and it makes her
feel absolutely amazing. Quick secret for you about women. We
overthink too. I mean, it is just something we do as humans. So men are not the only
ones who over think, she is overthinking like crazy and wondering "Oh my
goodness, does he like me? I don't know if he noticed me? I don't know if he thinks
I'm pretty? Maybe my hair looks silly today." She's overthinking things like
crazy. So when she sees you smile at her, to her that is a sign that you like her,
that you're interested in her. And so that is a huge huge deal and it
definitely makes her feel happy. So now you know some of the puzzle pieces to
making a girl happy and making her attracted to you, but how would you like
to know more of the puzzle pieces? Because the truth is, I can give them to
you. I have three big secrets that you have to have and you have to know if you
are going to get the girl of your dreams. If you have these secrets and you apply
them, you can get your dream girl, my friend. If you don't, you can't, so you
want to make sure you know them. I've put together some free training for you on
those secrets. Check out the link in the description below to register and if
you're already on my email list you've already got an invite in your inbox so be
sure to check it out. Three big secrets you do not want to
miss, there's a link in the description below. Thank you so much again for
watching my wonderful friend. Be sure to give me a big thumbs up, subscribe, and
ring that notification bell. Again, I want to hear from you in the comments. Should
I make more videos on how to make a girl happy? If I should, comment
"YES!" If we're not yet friends on social media be sure to check out those links
too because I have some awesome stuff that you are going to love. New stuff
coming, you're not gonna want to miss it. Also, friends don't let friends struggle
in relationships so be sure to share this with a friend. Thank you so much
again my amazing friend and have an amazing day. [blooper beep]
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Why am I questioning myself at every turn here? Okay.
[singing] The End!
Whenever it's the end you have to like sing a little song, otherwise that is not
officially the end. [laughter]