hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about 10 signs a girl
likes you back now let's begin number one physical orientation when a girl is interested she changes
her physical orientation you may have heard the term physical orientation before but what does it
actually mean physical orientation isn't just the direction someone is facing it describes
direction posture and the distribution of weight across someone's body these variables change when
we're excited by or attracted to another person and these changes are almost entirely unconscious
our physical orientation opens and closes depending on the way we're feeling now according
to the university of kansas flirting in general is an outgrowth of our feelings toward another person
that's why unconscious movements are some of the most reliable signs of attraction if you
understand what they mean you can identify when a girl is interested in you so let's get specific
what physical orientation shows interest and what doesn't alright let's say you're at dinner with a
girl you like you're having a good conversation but you want to know if she likes you as
more than a friend look at the orientation of her body is she turning her body towards you is
she sitting straight up or leaning slightly in your direction now if her physical orientation
looks like this she's interested in you all three of these signs show both interest and attraction
when a girl is drawn to you she faces your direction she pays attention to her posture
and she shifts her weight towards you alright let's try another example this time her physical
orientation looks completely different she's facing away from you she's slumping forward and
she's leaning her weight backwards does this mean she's interested in you she may be having a good
time but her body language does not show signs of attraction so she's probably not interested
identifying positive and negative body language like this isn't as difficult as it seems you just
have to know what to look for so the next time you're with someone you like pay attention to
their physical orientation because their body may be telling you that they like you back
number two sincere interest everyone flirts a little differently so everyone's interest takes
a different shape but there's one flirting style that gives itself away when you see this sign
of attraction there's a very good chance that she likes you this comes from jeffrey hall a professor
investigating the different ways people flirt in our culture by examining thousands of failed
and successful relationships paul discovered five different flirting styles these styles
are physical polite playful traditional and sincere we're going to focus on the last style
on his list the sincere flirt these people are very particular about who they show interest in
if they're not interested in you sincerity flies out the window they rarely make an effort
to establish an emotional bond they will not tell personal stories or take an interest in your life
because they care about bonding with you on the other hand if they like you sincere flirts get
emotionally invested in you they make an effort to be interested vulnerable and expressive
they use sincerity to show you they want to be more than friends look out for this flirting
style the next time you're talking to someone you like she may not brush your arm or engage
in playful banter but her sincere interest could tell you everything you need to know number three
fearless laughter how do you laugh when you first meet someone it's small reserved and polite right
you don't use your real laugh around strangers now on the other hand think about how you laugh with
people you really like you laugh too loud and you laugh too long you don't think about how you look
or you sound you don't laugh just to be polite you laugh because this person genuinely cracks you up
if a girl likes you they'll really laugh around you it's not just because she likes your sense of
humor it's because she feels comfortable safe and happy with you she can laugh openly because she
trusts you to laugh alongside her smiles work the same way if she smiles a wide and natural smile
she's not just being nice this is especially important if she doesn't laugh or smile around
others if she does these things around you she may like you as much as you like her
number four physical interaction let's explore another one of hall's five flirting styles
the physical flirt she may not be interested in your life or emotions but that doesn't mean
she isn't interested in you physical flirts are far and away the most interactive of the five
categories if she likes you she'll show her interest by making physical contact with you
sometimes these touches are small and subtle other times they're open and obvious
but keep this in mind if a physical flirt makes contact with you it doesn't automatically mean
she likes you physical flirts use contact to gauge interest if the other person responds
positively a physical flirt may keep testing the waters instead of simply brushing your
hand she might lay her entire hand on yours why because she wants to see how you react
so how do you know when a physical flirt likes you and when they're just playing around if they're
being physical with you they're trying to get your attention they may not be serious about you but
they're probably interested in you so don't miss your opportunity to show some interest of your own
number five sinking jealousy does she get quiet when you talk to other girls does her mood worsen
when a girl enters the conversation many girls get jealous in the early stages of a relationship
when she likes you she may get annoyed when you show interest in another person
you'd react the same way right if you saw your crush talking to another guy you might get jealous
you might steal back their attention or maybe you'd mope quietly until they come back to you
either way pay close attention to her mood when you talk to another girl if she gets irritated
she may be feeling jealous if she's feeling jealous it's safe to say that she likes you back
number six the center of the world when someone you like talks you hang on their every word
you listen closer to them than anyone else it doesn't matter what you're doing or who
else is talking when they have something to say they become the center of your world
if your crush likes you they'll feel the same way when you speak they'll stop everything to listen
to you and when you talk they'll really look at you this sign can be difficult to see on your own
so enlist a little help ask the people who spend time with both of you together do they
notice the special way she looks at you does she ignore everybody else when you talk if you become
the center of her world just like she becomes the center of yours you know that she likes you back
number seven sudden playfulness does she seem extra playful around you when she's around someone
she likes her personality shines she may be shy awkward and quiet with the rest of the world
but with you she's talkative playful and outgoing she may seem like a completely different person
that's because she can be yourself around you she's comfortable pushing those boundaries taking
risks and stepping out of her comfort zone if she comes out of her shell when you're alone she
may think of you as someone special number eight treating you differently if a girl likes you she
may change more than her personality around you you may notice she gives you special treatment she
may cross boundaries that she doesn't cross with anyone else for example she may make contact with
you but remains distant from the rest of the world to figure out if you're getting special treatment
pay attention to her normal behavior is she touchy around other people is she touchy around you does
she laugh with everybody how much does she laugh with you if there's a big positive difference in
the way she acts i've got some good news for you there's a good chance that she likes you
number nine saying your name how often does she say your name out loud when you like someone
saying their name makes you happy you want to talk about them you want to hear about them they're on
your mind constantly so their name is always on the tip of your tongue if a girl likes you she'll
do the same thing she'll say your name more than she needs to she'll bring you up in conversations
and talk about things you did together once again you may need help from your friends with this one
if they notice her saying your name all the time that's a big sign of romantic interest
number 10 finding time alright let's say you ask out a girl you like you built up the courage to
ask her to dinner but she said no does that mean she doesn't like you not necessarily if she says
no and the conversation ends she probably doesn't like you but what if she says this
i can't go tonight could we go next weekend instead if she tries to reschedule she wants
to see you she wants to spend time with you she's only saying no because she really is busy so don't
lose hope the moment she says no if she likes you she'll make time to be alone together hey thank
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