Other than the straight whiskey on a Thursday
night, I am seeing someone.
He's going to be pissed about that.
So, generally, I'm literally like the least gossipy
person on the planet.
I hate hearing about like, you know, drama.
It's just not my thing.
I don't want to know.
But of course when it comes to my children, I want to know
every tiny, little, detail.
Right now, I have a girlfriend and her name's Natalie.
And this is a first relationship
I've ever been in.
It's nice to be able to like see Miriam in this
place in a relationship.
Her new girlfriend is awesome.
Natalie gives Miriam such a good counterbalance because
she's quiet and calm.
And also she's just a delightful person.
I'm so happy that Miriam is in a relationship.
I love Natalie and I know that a lot of people may
think from seeing certain parts of the show that I
wasn't supportive of her bisexuality, and that's the
farthest thing from the truth.
About like a year ago Batsheva and I had a really
heartfelt conversation about my sexuality, how
I felt about it, and she really opened up to me.
The first double date I went on was with Batsheva
and Ben and Natalie.
We got sushi and then we went to a comedy show.
And it was so much fun.
We were all just chatting and getting to know each
other in a different way.
I'm so happy now that I see how close Batsheva
and Miriam have gotten.
Batsheva is all-in.
It was so special for us to be able to like go on
a double date together and really connect on that level.
And it was really a beautiful experience.
So after filming wrapped, I started dating this guy.
We were best friends in college.
Dated on and off.
And during this last crazy year, we decided to move in
to my tiny little apartment in Manhattan so that
neither of us were alone and scared for the future.
Robert and his boyfriend.
They are so cute.
Robert has wifed up this man.
Things blossomed, and I had a baby.
His name is Richard and he's a little baby puppy.
Let me tell you what I think about Robert's relationship.
2017.
I met this person that he's currently dating.
And I told Robert that this is the man he needs to live
with and marry one day.
And Robert rolled his eyes and told me I'm crazy.
Julia loves the man.
I think she likes him more than she likes me.
So far he's integrated very well into the family.
Very well indeed.
Can I just please say?
Told you so.
When it comes to dating and relationships I look up
to Batsheva, 'cause she's been married for 10 years.
Honestly, I'm very pleased with the trajectory of Batsheva
and Binyamin's relationship.
He has really gone through there with her, even if he
didn't necessarily feel it yet because he knew it's
what would make her happy.
There have been no new conversations about Ben and
I having children as of now.
We are still on the same path and journey of taking
our time and living life.
It was hard for me when Batsheva started
to want to wear pants.
It took a little bit of time to get used
to, but—
A long time.
Fair, it took a long time to get used to.
We let each other be who we are.
What she said.
And I think that's really beautiful.
So I'm very proud of both of them.
So recently, Batsheva decided to put a picture of me
with my mom onto her story that said, "Oh, this is my
brother and he's single."
I put it out there.
And so many people started messaging me and I'm like, I'm
not getting involved in this.
Like, this is your thing.
So I told them to slide into his DMS.
So then I actually started getting a lot of DMS.
Happens to be that this was two weeks before
I was taking my LSAT.
I did get really, a lot of really nice messages, but
I didn't really do anything about it because I was
busy studying at that time.
But I did go on my first Bumble date since the show.
I picked a coffee shop for the first date.
So I assumed I didn't need a reservation for a coffee shop.
It's a coffee shop.
But when I got there, you needed a reservation.
So I'm with her, then I start sweating.
Relating to dating...
I worry about him a lot.
Literally like downpour.
I see it in his eyes.
I know it's in his head.
That the first woman he's going to sleep
with, he's going to think he has to marry her.
So please America, can you help me explain to my son that
he does not need to marry the first woman he has sex with?
It was a good date.
I mean, we only had one date, but she was very nice girl.
Shlomo's dating profile is looking a lot better
now that we took off some of the— oh my
douche-baggy pictures that he had up.
If I had to rate my profile 1 to 10, I feel like after
getting so much input from a lot of people, it should be at
least at an eight, right now.
Shlomo's dating profile has not changed.
So I would give it a...
6.8 out of 10.
I think Miriam's probably better at dating than
Shlomo 'cause she has a girlfriend before Shlomo.
Since filming, basically things are
pretty much the same.
A lot of my closest friends I have are girls.
I just made Aron a birthday party recently.
It was a silent disco.
And there were girls there.
And it was so funny because some of the girls came
over to me like,
"Ms. Haart! Ms. Haart!
He shook our hands.
He patted his on the shoulder.
Look we did it."
Like, you know, they wanted me to like, give them a prize.
It was very cute.
Right now I'm not looking for dating.
I'm happy with just being friends with girls
and just hanging out.
Currently, I'm still talking to Dalia.
She's one of my closest friends.
My philosophy on dating is no philosophy.
Just do what you want.
I don't know.
Figure it out.
Aron's dating is definitely far more advanced at
his age than I was.
Like, I am even now, because I've only gone out with you.
The advice that I would give to him is just
continue being himself.
He's a really funny, smart, likable, creative guy.
And he should just, you know, don't ever think that you
have to be somebody you're not, or try to be somebody
that you think people want you to be, or, you know, don't
be insincere or inauthentic.
For me being in a relationship really allows myself to get
comfortable in my body with another person in a way
that I haven't been while I was just dating people.
So I'm really excited to just explore myself with
this partner, with this person, with my girlfriend,
a person that I really trust.
I think what has opened me up most to a relationship
is going through this whole process, looking
at the issues head on, addressing my own things.
I think things present themselves when you're
ready to receive them.
And that's what's happened for me.
So we'll see where it goes.
If there are other people out there that see this, there's
other people going through what you're going through.
A great way to live life is making yourself
uncomfortable and overcoming those challenges.
By putting myself out there now I kinda have
to force myself to overcome those challenges.
I think what I've learned the most from the Haart family is
that you can be in different places in your journey.
You can believe fundamentally different things, but
you can still love each other to the core.
And I think that's something that I see in this family.
It's something that I hope I bring to this
family and it's a really beautiful lesson to learn.