- All women are created equal,
but from a romantic perspective,
not all women are equal in a man's eyes.
Some women are, nah.
Other women are a, meh.
And then there's a small percentage
of very high value women who are a,
holy (beep), I need to take her home to the parents.
And believe it or not, this is not
necessarily dictated by your physical appearance.
If you learn how to position yourself as a high value woman,
he'll wanna take you home to mom and much more.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam Lodolce from SexyConfidence.com
where I help you create your love story.
And this is part of a new format.
Part one of this video is all about
how to be a high value woman
and how to be able to position yourself that way
in a man's eyes.
And part two of this video is only for
Sexy Confidence Club members
where I give you a few specific scripts that you can use,
things that you can say when you're on a date with a guy
to position yourself as a high value woman.
So if you're not in the Sexy Confidence Club,
go ahead, and you can click up here
or the link in the description to join
and watch the entire video.
So let's jump into part one,
which is all about how to position yourself
as a high value woman.
Principle number one is, don't acknowledge his high value.
One thing I've learned in life
is the less you acknowledge someone else's value,
the higher your value also goes up.
Essentially, don't be that impressed by him.
Now, lately, I've found myself
around the presence of a lot of very, very wealthy people.
And this is just through a lot of connections
that I've made recently.
But I'm not the richest guy in the world,
but a lot of people I've been hanging out with
are multi, multi millionaires.
And one thing that I have noticed is that a lot of them
are constantly trying to impress me
because I am so unimpressed by their money.
Like most people that end up surrounding theirselves
by most of these very wealthy people, are so impressed.
They kiss their ass and they're so excited.
They'll do anything.
And when they start talking about private jets,
or the millions of dollars they spend on houses
and all this good stuff, most people are like,
wow, that's amazing.
To me, money doesn't really motivate me that much.
I'm not really that impressed by it.
And actually, I will call people out
if they're being a little bit douchey.
So what ends up happening, actually,
which is crazy, is it also increases my value in their eyes
because I'm not that impressed.
So the same thing also applies when you're dating.
Like when I was single
and would go out with a very attractive woman
or someone I was very attracted to,
I would not be very impressed by that.
Or if I was going out with a woman
who had a very, very top career,
I would just like, yes,
I would be impressed by them as a person,
but I would not like overly
get too excited about their career.
Same thing goes to you.
If you're seeing a very attractive guy,
or maybe he's got an amazing job,
or maybe he's just very intimidated towards you,
treat him the way you would treat
basically any guy who's just pursuing you.
Principle number two is don't try to show off your value.
The moment that you're trying to show him
your Instagram account
because you have 200,000 Instagram followers,
that is the very moment that
you're giving away all your value to him.
This is because he's not finding
this information out on his own.
You are putting it out there to seek his validation.
Because, trust me, if you had 200,000 Instagram followers,
he will find out
because he'll be creeping the (beep) out of that profile.
Principle number three is remain a mystery to him.
Telling him your whole life story on a first date
is not a very high value thing to do.
It shows that you're trying as hard as you can
to make him like you.
Be that onion.
Be that sexy onion that he needs to peal back
to really get to know who you really are.
The more that he has to work to peal that onion back,
the higher your value.
Principle number four is remember,
you don't need a man to complete your life.
You want a relationship and a man to supplement
your already kick-ass life.
Principle number five is to remember this one thing.
If he doesn't see your value, then he's just blind as (beep)
Your value doesn't decrease based on
his inability to see your worth.
There are some guys that you're gonna go out with
who just aren't that interested.
And that shouldn't be a reason for you
to try to impress him more.
That should just be a reason for you to walk away
and find someone who is impressed by you,
who is really engaged in getting to know you
and pealing back that onion.
That, my ladies, is high value.
Principle number six is that high value women
have what I call walking power.
Walking power is the power
that you will walk away from a relationship
if it's not healthy for you.
You will walk away from even just starting to talk to a guy
if he doesn't treat you with respect.
This is walking power.
And there's something incredibly powerful
about walking power,
because a man can always sense when a woman
is going to walk away if he's not respectful,
if he doesn't treat her well,
and he doesn't invest his time and energy into her.
And a man will also sense if he can
just walk all over a woman, and she'll stay forever.
So be that sexy confident lady,
and be willing to walk away if it's not good for you.
And finally, principle number seven
is that a high value woman will express her feelings
to a man when he has clearly invested himself in her.
And this principle is really important
because I feel like a lot of the principles
that I talk about in this video
are a lot about him having to work hard,
you pushing away, and you not opening up to him.
That's not the purpose here, right?
The purpose is that at first he needs to work hard
to be able to get to know you.
But once he has finally invested his time,
his energy, and his clues showing you that he's interested,
he wants to be there,
then you are also going to express
your feelings back to him.
This whole process isn't about you just being closed off.
This process is about him having to work hard
to finally get you to open up to him.
And that is how you become that high value woman
that a man has to chase.
So I wanna hear from you in the comments below,
are you a high value woman?
Give me a heck yeah in the comments.
And also, tell me which of the principles
that I just talked about, you really need to work on,
or you need to implement more in your life.
'Cause we always need to work on something in our life.
And also, if you enjoyed this video,
please give it a like on YouTube,
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And also, if you wanna watch Part Two of this video,
go ahead and click the link right there
where you can get the three scripts that you can use
to start really displaying your value when you go on a date.
The link to the Sexy Confidence Club
is in the link in the description,
or you can click right there
to be able to watch Part Two of this video.
Thank you so much for watching,
and I'll speak to you very soon, you sexy single lady.
Bye bye.