Uncle C, back in the office and in today's video, we're going to be really diving deep
into the rock solid ways all men can utilize self improvement to really reclaim and grow
their masculinity when it comes to achieving whatever amount of success that they want
in life, whether that be with their own personal success, their own personal development, maybe
that's with women, maybe that's with you know, trying to manifest a specific partner. Everything's
very attainable. If you understand specifically the shift that has to happen within yourself
and the way you go about things and the way that you really do navigate this earth. Let
me explain now fellas, before we begin, I'd like to quickly announce that registration
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almost insane for me not to plug this attraction dash live training down below because after
this video if you register for that broadcast, you're going to understand in that full 90
minutes segment specifically how I dug my way out of hell and obtain success when it
To dating and just understanding masculinity as a whole, and then sharing that same success
and coaching over 400 people with the exact same proven process, but moving on what is
self improvement? Why are these real world habits lacking so much when it comes to men
in general? And how can we actually start to define what it is that we want in this
world where I'm going to explain? You see, in order to really understand this, you have
to break this up into two columns. And not only that, you have to understand what most
men are focused on. Okay? What they typically want is most men will gravitate towards the
change that they want in life, okay? They want to see a better result for themselves.
Maybe that's with women, maybe that's worth anything, but they want something, okay? And
here's what happens when they're very focused on the want. Meaning these columns we're going
to discuss today, they oftentimes have no idea what they actually need. Because you
see, these two things are not correlated. What you want is extremely different from
what you need and what you need over time will get you what you want. But guess what?
It is never going to be in the exact straight line process that you always thought it would
be. Things have obstacles, things take different belief patterns to actually obtain. And when
you do this as a man, when you understand these basic principles I'm going to show you
everything changes, okay? We're going to move on to the very first situation or scenario.
Oftentimes, the change that a man wants in the physical world in his life is a want and
the first one is always typically like a girlfriend, better game or better attraction skills. You
see, this is very typical. This is very common. This is what the man fundamentally wants.
He wants to get better with women. He wants to get better at speaking, he wants to get
better at flirting, okay, he wants all of these things because he maybe wants a better
sex life. This is very typical, very common, and here's what happens. He oftentimes focuses
on that he's focused on all of those tactics to get that, but he has no idea what he actually
needs. You see, what he needs is he needs the shift in the internal okay because if
you do not shift your energy Internal, whether that be how you carry yourself, what your
success habits are actually coming down to, you're never going to get what you want. And
as a man, this is key. The shift in the internal is everything in life, any amount of physical
success that you see some man has in the real world. He has proven track record of success,
a proven track record of results. This comes from his shift in his internal mentality,
his internal belief system. You see, the first thing that this man needs in himself to get
the woman is he needs courage and belief. Okay, because if he has courage and belief,
what he now would be able to do is he would be able to express himself the way that he
wants. You see, this is something that's built. This is something built over time through
going through the hurdles, going through the obstacles going through the failures, and
not necessarily letting it define you. Because what would happen if he had belief in himself
is that whether he said the right thing to the woman or the wrong thing because he believed
it was the right thing. What would happen is that the energy would match and the energy
action would go great because he truly believes he's doing the correct thing. This courage
is only built over time this courage only comes when you take each failure and you're
willing to actually reevaluate, you see, this is so key. And when you can start to analyze
and identify every single aspect of your life like this, the whole situation starts to change
for you. The second thing that most men want is some sort of success or recognition. Now,
this often comes from just a few key things. First off, they want money, because they're
told that if they have money, they'll get the women and if they get the money, then
everything in their life is just going to be peaches and cream. It's not typically how
it works. Because whenever you see a man with success or with recognition, you do not see
the thousands and thousands of hours of slavery that it takes to get that end result. And
when you actually focus on what you need in the opposite, what you need is dedication
proof. Okay, prove to yourself that you can stay dedicated to one task without switching.
And no, I'm not talking about for an hour. No, I'm not talking about for a week. Talking
about for years, you can build the groundwork and the situation every single day to make
your life better than it used to be. Because you don't give up. You
see what this is a sacrifice. This is sacrificing your current
time for a potentially better future. And there's a lot of men where they say, Well,
hey, what about being present in the moment? And what about just accepting and being, you
know, grateful for what I do have. That's awesome. That's awesome. And I'm glad you
do think that way. But there's a slight chance that your current reality probably sucks.
And the only reason I say that is because I've been there. I know what it's like to
be on both sides. And the only way out of hell is to sacrifice and make your life even
harder than it already is to dig your way out. And when you dig your way out, what happens
is that you form dedication and you find proof in yourself. Now, here's what I've noticed,
everything is interlinked. If a man typically struggles with staying dedicated to his passion,
to his purpose to being a successful man, he typically can't stay dedicated to anything.
There's a very high chance He doesn't stick with the nutrition plan that he's always wanted
to stick with. He doesn't stick with the workout routine he's always wanted to stick with.
He can't finish a book. He buys five different books, he can't finish them. He buys five
different online courses. He only gets 10 to 15% through each of them and he gives up.
This man gives up at everything he does, right? And you can't teach that you can't teach willpower.
You have to just get puffer and there's no mentor. There's no influencer, there's no
one that can really tell you the secrets to saying dedicated, essentially, you just have
to stop being a bitch. And when you stop being a bitch and you realize
that, hey, I actually can get some success here because
I actually tell myself I can and I'm going to prove to myself that I can, everything
changes, okay, every part of your life starts to level up, because you understand it's the
exact same step by step process that interlinks this whole world together. That's the difference
between the guys that have it and the guys that don't is the guys that have it, don't
give up. And if you give up if you keep watching me on this camera and you're still not taking
action, if you keep watching All these people on YouTube and you don't take action, I don't
know what the hell you're doing besides watching videos. If you look at another huge pain point
for the things that a man wants us, he typically wants a better body. He knows when he sees
a strong masculine physique that that physique attracts attention. And the other average
physique just doesn't you know it when you see that guy who's ripped walk by, you know
that he's ripped, and you know, that everybody's looking at him and it's just like a girl with
a tiny waist, okay, it's all the same. And he wants that V taper and he wants that better
body. And this is the type of guy who's sitting there thinking I want this so bad. How do
I get it? Should I take some sort of performance enhancing drugs? Do I need some sort of supplement?
Do I need? What's the latest workout routine, the latest fad, what can I learn to stick
to for two, three weeks and then flip flop and then realize it's not for me, it's all
broken. Because once again, you're focusing on the wants and the tactics. What this man
really has to do is he has to learn how to manage his systems and manage his subsystems.
This right here, and I'm even going to turn the camera on this because this is important.
This one thing right here changed my life. This changed my life in every way, shape and
form. And I want to break this down to you. So when you're a guide, you can actually manage
your systems and subsystems, you understand that the fundamental building blocks of everything
in life correlates. Let me explain, if you look at this first block, so this guy just
has a general goal of getting fit, okay? He's like, Oh, I should I should work out right,
I should eat right? This is the first layer acceptance, okay? And once he understands
that this is the first layer, the next way of actually managing these subsystems is now
you got to go a little deeper with it. Right So now if we take this block one step up,
well now we have to break this into seven days because what are we going to work out
every single day in the gym? What days are going to be our rest days? What days are going
to be our workout days This takes planning this takes structure this takes rational thought
and dedication. Make no mistake, this does make you more masculine. This is what separates
winners from losers. Okay, so we separate this into seven days here, boom, boom 34567.
Okay, this day we're going to do chest. This day, we're going to do legs this day, we're
going to rest. This day, we're going to do shoulders this day, we're going to do back.
This day, we're going to do arms and core this day, we're going to rest. Okay, cool.
We have a split. But now what if we just take one day out of this week? Well, let's look
at the subsystems and systems that go into that. If we just take our typical chest day,
our typical push day, and we line it up right here. Well, now we have to break this into
different exercises. Okay, so if we're only focused on this one day now, now this is really
get nitty gritty, this is the slim pickins. This is where the results will come if you
can keep with me on this. So when we do chest now maybe we have a horizontal push, right,
we have some sort of incline push, we have some sort of fly, right we have maybe like
a pec deck, de we have some sort of like tricep extension for accessories. And then maybe
We finish off with some push ups. Okay, great. Now what we have to break this, we have to
we have to literally break each one of these exercises down now into a system and subsystem.
If we just take our regular horizontal push, maybe you're doing flat bench, well, how many
sets are we going to do, maybe we're gonna do four sets 234. Let's call it five. Now
we have to manage just one set of one exercise. And now you know what happens up here. Now
you have to manage each rep, maybe we hit five, five reps there, we hit four reps here,
we hit five reps here. And now look what we just did. We just broke this down into one
day into one exercise into one set into one rep and then every single rep you have to
focus and then you know what happens You have to repeat this whole building block with every
single day, every single exercise every single regimen, and this is the key to success in
your own life. This is the key to success in everything. Once you have that first attainable
block. How do you put the systems in place so that way every day this stays structured
so you can keep the snowball going? Because the guys who can keep the snowball going versus
the guys who can't, they will last and the others fail. And you can break this down into
every single thing that you do your sleep, your business, your optimization, how you
talk to women, right maybe some of the things that you say that worked and got a negative
response versus a positive response as a man, it's your job to keep trying to keep pushing
that envelope to keep developing and I hope that this made total sense. If you liked this
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