These 8 Signs Show That Your Partner No Longer Loves You
8.
No eye contact.
In an Insider article, they revealed that it is common for newlyweds to always stare
at their partners.
This is a sign of affection and wanting to be close to their loved one.
But if you find your partner constantly averting your gaze or looking elsewhere, either at
people or objects, then it might be indicative that your partner is no longer interested
in you.
There’s something magical about making eye contact with the person you love.
If you notice that your partner rarely even looks at you anymore, or avoids eye contact
at all costs, it might mean that they are no longer in love with you.
Recognize any of the signs in this video so far?
Keep watching for some less obvious signs that might show your partner no longer loves
you!
7.
Noticing Quirks.
According to a study done by the APA (American Psychological Association), they found that
partners who have little quirks and quips can be more attractive to a person than physical
attributes.
But this works vice versa as well, if you are starting to find these quirks which you
once liked to be annoying and frustrating, it might be indicative that you no longer
love your partner.
For example, if you are starting to get annoyed by the small things which you used to find
cute about your partner, it might mean that you are falling out of love.
You might also find that you lash out and get angry easily because of these small things.
If you notice that you are getting angry at your partner for what seems like even the
smallest of things, it could be a red flag!
6.
You envision a future without them.
In the first stages of love, the honeymoon stage, it is common to regularly think about
that person and fantasize about a future with them.
But if you are regularly thinking about or envisioning your life without your significant
other then it might be time to plan for your future without him or her.
A part of being in a loving relationship is making plans for the future.
Whether those plans include planning a vacation, moving in together, getting engaged, or even
having kids, there is always some type of planning going on in a relationship.
If you stop thinking about a future with them and no longer feel excited about making future
plans with them, it may be time to call it quits.
5.
Decreasing communication.
According to an article done by This Is Insider, a decrease in communication can be a huge
sign that shows that you no longer love your partner.
If you are choosing to communicate relationship problems to outsiders such as family and friends
rather than to your significant other, it might be time to move on.
One of the biggest parts of an open and loving relationship is communication.
Without open lines of communication, the relationship will crumble.
This is why so many couples who do not have good communication skills often break up.
So if you are beginning to experience communication issues with your partner, it could mean that
the both of you are falling out of love.
4.
Lack of physical intimacy.
Nicole McCance is a relationship expert and couples therapist and she says that a lack
of physical intimacy can be indicative of a relationship that is deteriorating.
While it is not the case that all couples engage in sexual acts, it should be a cause
for concern if you notice that your sex life with your partner is deteriorating.
‘If you’re not having sex but you’re busy with the kids or with work, or you’re
in a situation where having sex isn’t easy, like if you’re living with your in-laws,
that’s normal.’
McCance adds, ‘But if you haven’t had sex in a while and it’s not bothering you,
that’s a red flag.’
If things used to be hot and heavy between you and your partner and you’re noticing
that your sex life has taken a dive, talk to your partner about it.
Intimacy is a huge part of any relationship and should not go unnoticed.
Again, communication is key to any relationship, so if you notice that your sex life isn’t
what it used to be, talk to your partner to see if you can resolve your issues.
3.
Your partner spends more time out.
Relationship expert April Masini says that ‘if you notice a change in interest in your
partner’s company, that’s a sign that the relationship is winding down.’
This could mean that your partner is trading in ‘date nights’ for a ‘guy’s night
out’ or if your partner is constantly going out with her friends and co-workers rather
than spending time with you.
People who are in love always want to spend time with each other.
Although it is perfectly normal (and in fact healthy) for couples to have alone time.
If it gets to the point where your partner is spending more time without you than they
are with you, it may be a red flag.
Your partner should want to include you in his or her everyday life, and should be excited
about it too.
When a partner starts spending more time alone or with his or her friends, it might be the
end.
2.
You don’t enjoy talking to them anymore.
This one might be a little obvious but if you find yourself constantly wanting to talk
to someone else rather than your partner then that might be a sign that you no longer like
that person.
Nicole McCance says that people crave love and connection and even though you may not
feel that in your current relationship, they still long for that in some form or another.
Nicole explains: ‘you might even find yourself attracted to other people physically and that
may surprise you.
But that’s a warning sign that something’s missing from your current relationship.’
People who love each other love talking to each other.
Whether it’s to rant about something that happened at work or just to tell each other
how their days went, that line of constant communication is always open.
If you notice that you are your partner aren’t really talking, or if you just don’t even
feel like talking to them anymore, you may have fallen out of love.
1.
Your “love” gets replaced.
And finally, your love gets replaced by something else that you didn’t even realize.
Some couples might not even notice that they are not in love anymore because they have
small kids who get so much love from them.
This void is filled by kids, and this is why so many marriages fall apart when children
grow up.
If you are married and have not taken the time to acknowledge your partner and instead
focus all your attention on your kids, you should try focusing on showing your partner
more love.
If you don’t really care to, you probably aren’t in love anymore.
As mentioned earlier in this video, we as human beings crave love and attention and
while we may not necessarily get that from our partners we may get it from a different
source without directly knowing it.
Being in love can be a tremendous feeling, knowing that you have a partner to rely on
and trust in can be reassuring and satisfying.
But falling out of love can be just as perilous and daunting.
But aside from no longer feeling those butterflies in your stomach or not aching to see that
‘special someone’, there are some signs that your significant other may no longer
love you.
According to a Global News article, approximately one in every five people in their late 50’s
have been divorced or separated and that four out of every ten marriages in Canada end in
a divorce.
Often times, couples who have kids and have been together for a long time deal with these
issues because their love for each other is replaced by their love of their kids and the
love their kids give them.
This is why it is very common for relationships to end in divorce after children move out
and become adults.
However, t it is possible to fall back in love.
But it takes time and commitment to fall back in love with someone, especially if the relationship
has been neglected for a long time.
It’s not that easy, especially when the sexual chemistry has faded or the sexual attraction
is not there.
It takes a willingness to want to fix the relationship because a lot of the lost love
between two people may be rooted in resentment that has been carried for a long time.
This is why when a couple tries to rekindle their love, both partners have to be 100 per
cent involved and committed to it, otherwise the relationship will fail.
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