Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com, in a peaceful and serene Mekong Delta, Vietnam.It
took a long bus ride with Brittany to get here.
It's been very cool, playing with snakes, bees and tasting weird honey drinks.
It's been a great time.
We are drinking bee pollen.
Oh wow. That's so good. It's like honey but not as intense.
On today's video, I want to
talk about how to attract a woman out of your league.
The first step is removing the language of any woman being out of your league.
The second you use that language, you're already putting her into a value that is higher than
yours.
Basically, you're saying that you're not good enough to be with someone else because they
are assigned a higher value than you.
That's very low value and self esteem behavior.
You're automatically low value if you're putting someone else a step above you.
That's what we do when we see a pretty girl.
All we do is think that girl is in another league and it already makes it 10 times more
difficult to attract her.
The next step in this process is understanding why you are creating
so much value into a woman just because of her looks.
Of course, we've been brought up that way.
We see on tv and magazines that the women who are pushed above everyone else
are the ones that have good looks.
From day one of being born, you were taught that anyone who is good looking is automatically
better than someone else.
Understand, know and be conscious of the fact that is not the truth.
Why?
Just because someone is born the way they are, does that make them better than
somebody else? It doesn't.
As far as I'm concerned, we're all equal on playing fields.
You, me and every other person on this planet, doesn't matter if you're rich, poor, or in
America or Vietnam. It doesn't matter, we are all the same.
Here's the big answer.
I think you're gonna like this technique.
One of the ways to build and attract woman that is out of your league is let's say you
see a girl over there and you want to talk to her, and immediately inside you're like,”Oh,
she's pretty.
I can't go talk to her.
She's better than me.
She doesn't like guys like me.
She likes guys who are super good looking with lots of money.”
The second you think that, it trigger goes off in your brain.
The technique is when you go over and talk to that girl, you need to treat her like your
friend.
I know you’re thinking, “Tripp, I can't see her as my friend, she's slamming me to
the friend zone.”
That's not what I mean.
How do you act around your friends?
Think about what is the way you act around your friends and family?
You're pretty loose, easygoing and you're not thinking too hard.
You don't think your mom or friend is better than you.
You are not thinking on that level.
You're treating them like anybody and your equal.
That's how you need to be treating these girls, you need to treat them like they are your
equal.
In order to do that, treat her like a friend.
Try to get yourself in the mindset of how you act, the things you say, your body language
and the way you're feeling more relaxed.
What is that mindset and what are you like when you're talking to your friends?
That is the way that you want to talk to these girls who you think are out of your league.
I'm annoyed putting these up so much but I have to do it because no girls are actually
out of your league.
Every girl is equal to you.
What I want you to do is treat it like an experiment.
The next time you talk to a girl, don't think about the fact that you need to get her number,
take her out and this needs to be the girl that you absolutely have to get.
I know it's scary to go up and talk to the girl that's pretty.
Once you go over there thinking like,”I better not ruin this” Go over there and
treat it like an experiment, try to act like she's just your buddy.
See what happens when you do that.
See how she opens up a lot easier and actually ends up becoming more attracted to you because
you were so comfortable with her.
The problem with putting girls in some sort of league or value system is that once you
put them higher than you, you automatically become more shy and less confident around
that girl.
We want to treat them like they are your friend.
After that, you insert things like flirting and being able to get them attracted to and
invested in you by using some of those techniques which I've talked about on my channel.
For now, if you're having trouble with conversation, go in the description below and get “Chick
Crack”.
This whole process can be very easy for you.
It's gonna be a video that's going to teach you all the different conversation topics
that women like to talk about.
Here's a little tip, you might not even need that.
Just go to girls, talk to them and get practice in becoming more comfortable
around them.
I'm out of here.
I'm off to do some more work.
The upload and download speeds are miserable here in Vietnam today.
Hopefully, I can get this video as soon as I can.
I'll catch you later.