I will respect her wish, and we'll get married
before the end of the year.
Yeah, right!
- That's the wrong response. - What?
MAN: Wrong response.
You're telling a fib.
I am overjoyed.
I thought that I was gonna be engaged, like, five more years.
But for him to say, baby, I want the same thing, too,
I want to be married now, I felt like he
proposed to me all over again.
Is that the response you gon' give him?
- That's what [INAUDIBLE]. - Awesome!
Come to me-- MAN: That's the response?
Come on [INAUDIBLE]. - --darling.
MAN: That's the response?
And that way she's got her arms up.
Don't ask why.
Are you serious?
Yeah.
How's it feel?
I guess I feel like, with my flaws,
with my depression, all of that, I didn't feel worthy.
And you're still willing to say, oh, let's-- don't do it.
I didn't feel worthy, and my behavior reflected it.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
My first name is Tenitra and Michelle
is what the world knows me by.
And I feel like Tenitra is being loved and cultivated and--
you know?
Chad and I have been in a dark place.
You know, it's always darkest before the dawn.
But the light is coming.
[GIGGLING]
I love you, baby.
I love you, too.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
I didn't know you wanted to get married this year.
I want to get married this year.
OK.
Well, let's get married this year, then.
I don't want it to be pressure, though.
Girl, you said you want to get married this year.
I said let's get married this year.
- OK. - That's what you just say.
OK.
All right?
OK.
I love you, baby.
I know we're not all the way there yet,
but today I feel like we took a great step
forward in our future together.
You can call your mom and tell her
she can start preparing her dress.
I know.
[LAUGHING]
[MUSIC PLAYING]
Well, what did you think about the session?
Baby, I felt like it was the day you proposed to me.
CHAD: I was shocked that you actually told him about a date.
Can we talk about this date?
Whoo.
CHAD: You were leaving all the pressure on me.
MICHELLE: Oh, I'm sorry.
CHAD: And it's like, I don't even know if we're supposed
to be married, you know?
We pause and say, hey, you know, let's
get some other people involved in this thing
and get some professional opinions.
I definitely want to marry Michelle,
and I don't want her to feel any other way about it.
But I do think that it's wise, and I
want us to do the work to be able to get to a wedding date.
Is this the right thing right now?
You're not backpedaling, are you?
I hope you kept it real and it wasn't the pressure
of the question which made you say, yeah, I want
to get married this year, too.
No, I said that I wanted to be able to really,
really work towards your desire.
I mean, for me, it's about making you happy.
You know?
So.
What?
It's not about just making me happy.
It's about you, too.
I don't want to be in a situation
where only one person is happy, and I don't want you just going
through the motions, either.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
So when you feel like this is what you want to do,
then let me know.