Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is titled
what do women want from men? Seven traits women love that will shock you. Can I be
really honest with you for a second? There are a lot of mixed messages out
there about what women really want from men. You may be watching
this video right now because you're a little bit nervous and maybe feeling
like it's impossible to get the type of girl you're wanting.
Maybe you've been in bad relationships or maybe you're a really awesome guy
who can just never get a girlfriend. Either way what you are about to learn
is going to comfort you so so much. Not only will you have a
better understanding of women but you also know how to move forward
from here so that you can stop being single
forever and instead have the girl of your dreams. So if that's something
you're interested in make sure you watch to the end. Before we
dive in and answer the question "what do women want from men?" if this is
your first time watching, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a
Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your
time and your money and your energy on dead-end relationships that go
nowhere by learning the skills you need to instead get the girl of your
dreams. So make sure you subscribe, ring the bell, and give me a big thumbs
up. All right, let's dive in and answer "what
do women want from men?" Let's talk about women and
specifically let's talk about real women. I'm not talking about toxic
women here, I'm talking about the majority of women.
The really good women. The kind of women you are wanting a relationship with.
At the end of the day women are a lot like you,
okay? Yes, men and women have differences, but
most people on this planet just want to love
and be loved, okay? That's what she wants. As a woman, this is the way God made us,
women are very very nurturing, okay? And so what she wants
deep down in her soul is she wants to love you
like crazy and she wants you to love her like
crazy. She wants to take care of you in the way only a woman can take care of a
man and she wants to kiss your battle scars
and she wants to make you feel amazing, okay? Completely honest, that's
what real women want. If you've been following
me for a while you know that one thing that sets me apart is I
teach you guys how to have long term crazy happy relationships. I'm not
about a one night fling or lots of drama. I teach you guys how to
have that long long-term relationship. And that
is what real women are looking for. I'm gonna let you in on a little bit of a
spoiler here. You paying attention? [chuckle] Not all women are
jerks, guys. Yes, there are some women who are jerks
and if you've been following me for a while
you maybe have seen this video or even this video and you know that I'm very
open with you guys about the fact that toxic women exist
and it's something you definitely need to be aware of.
PS if you haven't seen those videos there are links in the description below.
But at the end of the day toxic women are not the default setting
of women any more than toxic men are the default
setting for men. Most people just want that happy
relationship. The key is having the dating and relationship skills you need
in order to attract that relationship and maintain
that relationship. So to answer the question "what do women
want from men?", if we're talking about good women here,
she wants a lifelong partner, she wants someone to love like crazy and
someone to love her like crazy. Now I'm going to be going into some of
the specific traits that make that type of partner that
women are looking for. Just knowing this is going to help you
so much. These are the traits she is looking for in her man.
You want to know what they are? Let's dive in. Now my first trait that answers
"what do women want from men?" is kindness. Now I know what you are
thinking, but honestly think about it from her perspective. Why
in the world would she want a partner who is unkind?
There isn't a reason, right? There was actually a study done
across 33 countries and six continents. Those involved were asked what they
wanted most in a partner. And do you know what
the number one thing that came up was? It was kindness. This was above how much
money they made or how they looked. At the end of the day
everyone is looking for someone who'll just be kind to them because we're all
imperfect and we just want to feel good enough, we
just want to feel loved. Believe it or not, like I mentioned before
women are a lot like you, they just want someone who is kind.
Be sure to watch this video to learn more about this, there's a link in the
description below. Now my second trait that answers what do women
want from men is she wants a man who is invested in
the relationship. She wants a man who she knows can help
her keep that relationship healthy and happy
forever. Now how do you do that? You do that by both people having solid
dating and relationship skills. I have a lot of men reach out to me who are
frustrated because they get rejected a lot and they're like "oh my goodness,
all women are jerks." No, not all women are jerks.
Women who have dating and relationship skills
are looking for a man who has dating and relationship skills.
If she has them why would she look for a guy who doesn't?
Well, she wouldn't. And if neither of you have dating and relationship skills well
you're going to have a bad relationship. It just doesn't work. So making sure both
people have those dating and relationship skills
is key. If you want to get the girl of your dreams, if you want to get the
relationship of your dreams, the entire secret is to make sure you
have those dating and relationship skills.
That makes sense, right? Now how do you learn those skills? How do you make sure
you have exactly what you need to make sure
you can attract and maintain a healthy relationship?
I actually created my program to make this so easy for you, to give you
exactly what you need. This is the fastest, best, and easiest way to make sure you
get that dream girl. So if you have not yet watched my free
masterclass make sure you do it now. It's going to give you an overview of my
framework and what I teach and a quick sneak peek at my program.
There's a link in the description below to watch this free masterclass and get
that preview. There's also a link in the pinned
comment below. I'm going to say it again because guys this is so important.
The best easiest and fastest way to get the girl of your dreams is to get those
solid dating and relationship skills. If you're someone who's sick of being alone
and sick of being rejected this is your answer. Now our next trait
that answers what do women want from men is she wants someone who can keep the
spark alive. Everyone's worst fear is for their
relationship to just die, right? To have this beautiful happy
relationship where you're so in love just go stale.
That would be terrible, right? This is again where those dating and
relationship skills are critical. If you know how to create that
relationship you're going to know how to maintain it. You'll know how to keep that
spark alive and keep the butterflies alive and keep it really
fun and enjoyable to be in love. Do you want a love that lasts forever?
So does she. So it's very important to know those skills and be able to keep
that flame alive. Our next trait that answers
"what do women want from men?" is honesty. Again we're talking about a lifelong
relationship, right? We're talking about staying together forever. And that means
you need someone you can count on, someone who is very honest with you. She
needs to know that you're not going to cheat on her. She needs to know
you don't have eyes for other people. She needs to know that you communicate
well with her and you're very upfront with her. Quick question before
we keep going. Are you enjoying this video and would you like
more videos on what women want in a man? If you do want videos like this in the
future be sure to comment "YES!" to let me know.
That helps me so much as I prepare my material for you. Now our next trait that
answers "what do women want from men?" is she wants someone who's
enjoyable to be around. She wants someone she can laugh with and she can play with.
This is part of what helps keep that flame alive
and what makes being in love and being with someone
really enjoyable. If you are looking at a long-term
relationship you're looking at the ups and downs of life. That's just going to
happen, right? That's to be expected. So you really want someone you can laugh
with through those ups and downs. Someone
who's playful, someone who's fun and doesn't take life too seriously. Our next
trait to the question "what do women want from men?" is she wants
someone who's dependable. That makes sense, right?
I'm sure that's what you're looking for in a partner as well.
We all want someone who we can count on. Someone who has got our back,
someone who is there for us, and someone who we can always
count on. Our next trait that answers "what do women want from men?"
is she wants someone who's interesting. This is again part of how
you keep that spark alive. Boring people are boring,
interesting people are fun, and they're someone that we can stay
in love with. This is why it's important to make sure you're an interesting
person, that you have hobbies, that you have
things you are interested in and things you are actively doing.
Someone who is interesting, someone who has a growth mindset, who's always adding
to who they are as a person, now that, that is attractive and that is
something she wants in a long-term partner. All right my wonderful friends
so now you know that women are a lot like you. At the end of
the day she's just looking to love and be loved. She's looking for an
amazing, lifelong partner, someone to spend her
life with. Just like you. The secret and the key to being
what women want is to make sure you have solid dating
and relationship skills. That's what gives you the traits you
need to be a total heartthrob, to attract her to you like a magnet, and
to ultimately be the partner she is looking for. So if you want to learn
step by step how to stop being single forever and instead just fast track it
to the love of your life make sure you check out my program. There's a link to
my free masterclass through the link in the
description below. This will teach you what my framework is, why it is so
insanely effective, and you'll get a quick sneak peek at my
program. So make sure you check out that link to that free masterclass
through the link in the description below. Thank you so much again my amazing
friend for watching! If you enjoyed what you saw be sure to
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share it with him. I want to hear from you in the comments. Which of these
traits about what women want from men, which one
surprised you the most? I want to hear about it. And do you want
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friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep]
Can I be really honest with you for
a second? There are so many messages- [messes up]
Yes there are. Okay. Before we dive- Oh yeah. Before we dive into-
Before we dive in and start talking- Let's talk about women for a second... [laughter]
And our next trait- And our next trait to the-
I don't know why I can't talk. It's fine. Okay.
I think I'm done. I always feel like I'm forgetting something...
But I don't think I am. That's good news.