- In this video, I will share with you ladies
five signs men give before they cheat.
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So my queens, without further ado, a sign number one,
he starts to cancel on you.
So ladies, the truth is when the guy really,
really likes you, when he's really into you,
he'll literally come to that date
with broken back, with broken arm or leg.
He'll do anything and everything to make it,
'cause when he feels that you are the one
that he's really excited about,
you are like the best part of his day, of his week,
so he's excited to be there, and even that pain
that he's experiencing doesn't feel that painful anymore.
Therefore, ladies, if he starts to cancel on you,
he's putting you not as a priority,
but perhaps as a plan B or an option,
simply because he's not that into you.
And ladies, when someone's not let into you,
we put you as an option two,
and we do keep our eyes open for that option number one.
Number two sign that he might be thinking of cheating on you
when he starts losing interest is when he stops listening
when you speak, when he stops asking for your opinion,
when he kind of doses off when you're sharing a story,
or simply, he's just on his phone all day long
while being on a date with you.
It's a big sign that a guy is losing interest in you,
as he doesn't care anymore how was your day,
what you've been through, what are your stories,
what's important to you, and what's not.
So if he stops paying attention or getting to know
the real you, it's a big sign that he's losing interest,
and a lot of times the next step is to start to look
around for the better option to come along.
Number three sign that he might cheat on you is
when he is not approaching you for intimacy.
So perhaps in the beginning, everything was on fire,
everything was super exciting,
and now he's not really looking for that intimacy.
He's actually pulling away from you, or avoiding it.
Perhaps you try to touch him here and there,
he's stepping back,
or maybe you even try to seduce him himself,
and you can see that he's just not into that at all,
he's constantly rejecting you.
Just to make this clear, when the guy is rejecting intimacy
with you, or he's just not approaching you for that,
it's not always that he's just cheating,
or he's gonna cheat on you.
There could be a number of reasons for it,
but cheating can also be one of them,
therefore, it's good to keep your eyes opened,
and be aware of that.
Number four sign that he could be cheating on you,
and in my opinion, this is the biggest one is
when confronted, he completely explodes,
and puts all the blame on you.
He starts calling you crazy.
He starts calling you insane, insecure, useless,
whatever other word he comes up with.
Plus when you do something bad,
you go the extra mile to cover it, right?
So when you do something bad, you try to justify,
you try to defend it, so you think of tons of lies
to cover it, because you got caught,
whereas if you are the innocent one,
and somebody confronts you
with something that you have not done,
you don't even feel like explaining yourself.
You're kind of like, hold on a minute.
You don't trust me?
How dare you accuse me of this stuff.
And you kind of don't even explain yourself to that person.
If anything, you feel offended.
Therefore, if he's explaining, over explaining,
first to lose his temper on you,
and is just basically going wild, it's probably
because he most likely has some big stuff to hide.
Number five sign that he could be cheating on you is
if you guys live together,
and he constantly looks happy by himself, like he's texting
to somebody and he's giggling, or he's constantly smiling,
he's in a corner hiding, talking to somebody,
and he's smiling, so whenever he's not communicating
with you, he looks happy, he looks excited,
and whenever you come into the room,
or you're both in the room together,
or you cross your paths,
starts to see you as an obstacle to his happiness.
Therefore, when you're around, automatically
he starts to behave more grumpy and moody.
So ladies, these are my five quick signs
that he could be cheating on you.
Seeing all of these signs, ladies,
it's never really black and white.
To be honest, ladies, if a guy is doing these signs,
it doesn't necessarily means that he's cheating.
A lot of insecure guys, or guys that play many games,
the player type of guys, do these signs on purpose
to make it look that he could be cheating, in order to see
would you get jealous, do you care,
do you have feelings for him, will you pursue and chase him
if potentially he's talking to someone else,
or will you just step back and leave him to her
if he has some business with someone else?
It's to test who you are as a person, how will you behave,
what type of woman you are.
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