- Hey, this is Mat Boggs
and today we're gonna be talking
about the 10 biggest turn-ons for men.
Now, warning, this video will have
some sexual content in it,
so if you are under the age of 18,
turn off this video right now and leave the room.
Actually, I have a daughter, so scratch that.
If you're under the age of 30,
turn off this video and leave this room right now.
'Cause we're gonna get into these 10 turn-ons
and I think that you'll enjoy these.
And these are really for people who are in a relationship,
not when you're courting.
So, just word to the wise.
Number one, is when you own your sexiness.
When you are comfortable in your skin,
that radiates a sexual energy with men.
When you know that sex isn't dirty or wrong or bad
but, in fact, it's a healthy part
of a thriving relationship,
that creates a foundation
upon which all these other tips will be built.
Number two is when a woman will actually
be the one to initiate sex with her man.
When you initiate it,
when you make it know that you enjoy it
and you want it with your man,
that is highly attractive.
Now, nothing's worse than when a woman
makes us feel like she's doing us a favor
by having sex with us.
I mean, don't get me wrong, we'll take it
but it's much better if you're initiating it
and letting be know that you love making love with your man.
Number three is when you authentically find your man sexy,
we can read that.
And, better yet, when you tell us
either verbally, or with your body language,
that you find us sexy, we love that.
Totally turns us on.
So you might rub our arms or you might rub our chest
or you might lean in and say
"Damn, you are so sexy right now."
Or you can even use what's called the kissing whisper.
This is where you lean in and you tell him a secret,
you know, you get real close to his ear.
You tell him a secret where your lips
are just touching his ear.
And you tell him something like
"Dang, you are so sexy right now."
Ooh, it just drives us wild.
We love that.
Number four is smell.
A woman's smell is a powerful tool to ignite attraction.
In fact, when my wife walks by,
if she smells good, she has the power to snap a neck.
She walks by, boom, I'm like,
dang, she smells good today.
Whew.
It's a very powerful tool.
And the opposite of true.
If you don't smell good, it can be a massive turn-off.
I dated a woman once who didn't believe in deodorant.
She believed in essential oils.
Which was fine except for the fact
that the essential oils ran out after 10 or 15 minutes.
So one day we're driving to the beach to go surfing.
It's an hour drive.
15 minutes into the drive,
the car started to smell so bad.
It was like this stink rose up in the whole car.
I couldn't even breath.
It was like (gasps).
(window rolls down)
(gasps) (laughs)
Oh, it was not a good scene.
So use your smell to your advantage.
Number five is to infuse some variety into the relationship.
You know, if you're always making love in the bedroom,
change it up.
Make some love in the living room
or follow him into the shower.
If you're always doing missionary position, change it up.
I went and looked up some sexual positions for you
and, man, there's a lot to choose from.
You could do doggie style, froggie style,
cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, rusty trombone.
You could do the double down-under
or the juicy couture
or the animal style, extra sauce, double pickles.
Wait a minute, this is an In-N-Out order.
But, you get the point, infuse some variety
into the relationship and that will spice it up.
Number six is biting.
Right?
Bite his lip a little bit or bit his neck
or nibble on his ear.
It's playful and it's fun.
Don't be drawing any blood now.
Don't be going there 'cause you don't wanna hurt your man
but being playful is always fun
and ignites attraction in the relationship.
Number seven is wear his clothes.
And here's what I mean, not (laughs),
not his workout shorts.
But wear his shirts in a sexy way.
Back in the day, when we were in high school,
if our girl wore our letterman's jacket, for an example,
that was sexy.
That was a state of this is my man,
I'm proud to be with him.
Put on his dress shirt and walk around the house.
Maybe a long t-shirt
and bonus points if you ain't got nothin' on underneath.
But it is very sexy to look at our woman wearing our shirt.
Number eight is give us a striptease.
Now, why is a striptease so darn effective?
It's because it builds the anticipation
of what's about to go down.
And any time you increase the tension,
you raise the attraction.
But, you have to be comfortable in your skin.
You have to be confident in this.
If you're shy or hurried or nervous,
it's gonna kill the vibe, right?
If you're shy or hurried and it's like this,
where you're like (slow music)
(clothes rustle)
(record needle skips)
That will not create the vibe that you want in that moment.
But if you're fun, if you're relaxed,
if you're confident with yourself in that moment,
your man is gonna love it.
Number nine, allow yourself to make some noise
when you're making love.
Allow your man to know that you enjoy what's going on.
The worst is a dead fish.
A woman who's just lying there,
not making any noise, not moving at all.
And it's kinda like, are you enjoying this at all?
As men, we want to know that we are doing a good job for you
and making noise is one of the best ways to do that.
As men, we feel like, I'm doing this.
I'm making this happen.
This is awesome.
Now, word to the wise, make sure it's a sexy noise.
Avoid whining.
(whining)
Unsexy, we don't like it.
But when you bring a sexy noise
and allow yourself to express yourself that way,
your gonna let your man know he's doing a great job
which will fire him up.
And finally, number 10
is unadulterated, full spectrum laughter.
This means that you let your joy flag fly.
You let yourself enjoy the moment,
laugh full-out and express yourself.
Because there's nothing more magnetic and attractive
than a woman who is enjoying herself.
Men, we are drawn to this.
So there you have it.
The 10 biggest turn-ons for men.
And, I would love to hear from you.
What's something that turns you on
that a man does in relationships.
Or that, specifically, your man does?
Post a comment below, I love to read your comments.
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and increasing your ability to understand
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