- Now you sexy single ladies may have noticed
that there are just a few things that trigger a man
to just absolutely turn him on
in ways that you never even knew possible.
But over the years you might be assuming that
it is all visual cues.
But I'm here to tell you
that there are actually five different ways
to turn a man on
that actually have nothing to do
with what he sees, keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam Lodolce from sexyconfidence.com
where I help you create your love story.
And in this video right now,
we're gonna be talking about a few different things
you can do to spice things up a little bit
and the coolest part about this video is
you're not gonna have to change anything physical
about yourself because these things
that are going to turn him on
are gonna be all about emotional triggers.
They are going to create a little bit more intimacy
in the bedroom so you can start connecting
on a much deeper level.
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all about how to turn men on
and how to connect with guys in the bedroom.
So let's jump into it
and let's get a little bit freaky.
Number one is using a soft, sexy,
feminine voice tonality when you're talking to him.
Now there are a lot of experts out there
who talk about body language
whenever it is that you're trying to connect with people,
but not enough body language experts talk about the power
of voice tonality.
When I used to coach men on dating,
I would really work with them to project their voice
in a more masculine way.
And for women when you want to really turn a guy on
and really start presenting
your more feminine energy to him,
start working with your softer
and more feminine voice tonality.
I assure you this is what is going to draw him in
and really create the what we call masculine
and feminine polarity.
And what that means is when you you start stepping
into your feminine energy,
it's going to unleash his masculine side
and the more masculine, feminine polarity that exists
between the two of you,
the more sparks that are going to fly in the bedroom.
So try it the next time you're with him,
try slowing things down a little bit,
being a little bit softer with your voice
and even whispering into his ear,
and I assure you,
it's gonna turn them on more than you could ever imagine.
Number two is try blindfold him.
Now, this is the ultimate
in removing any type of visual stimulation,
because by obviously putting on blindfold,
you're removing any ability for him to see anything,
and it's going to build so much mystery,
so much anticipation as he's waiting
for what it is that you're actually gonna do.
And this is going to trigger him in a way
that he really hasn't felt before
because most guys rely on visual stimulation
when they're getting turned on.
And then once he has the blindfold on,
he can't see anything,
the only stimulation he can actually focus in on
is physical stimulation
and what it is that you're doing with his body.
So if you guys open minded to this, go ahead,
give it a shot.
Number three is what I call changing the dominance dynamic.
Now usually in a sexual relationship,
one person tends to be more dominant
and another person tends to be more submissive.
Now, if you tend to be more submissive
when you're sleeping with their guy,
try changing the dominance dynamic and being the dominant
and really taking charge in the bedroom.
Or on the other hand,
if you tend to be the more dominant person
who's kind of taking charge in there,
really learn to step back
and allow him to kind of take control
and really give over that control in the bedroom.
It's going to turn him on
because it's going to just completely change the dynamic
within the relationship.
Which leads me to number four,
which is all about breaking the routine.
Have you ever wondered why vacation sex is just so good?
Of course, it's because it breaks the routine.
It allows you to kind of step outside
of the kind of standard things
that you're doing in your life
and allows you to experience each other
in a totally new environment.
But you don't need to go
on vacation be able to break the routine.
I mean, you could try new positions,
or you can just try new toys maybe in the bedroom.
And this can be an easy way to break the monotony
of just everyday life.
And finally, the fifth way to turn a guy on
is when you truly love your body.
Now, this might not be as easy to implement
as all the other things I'm talking about in this video,
but it is so important.
Men are attracted to confident women who look in the mirror
and they love their body,
their imperfections and are willing to accept themselves,
especially when it's in the bedroom.
And on the flip side,
when a guy is with a woman who he is actually attracted to,
and that woman is always trying to hide herself
or isn't comfortable with her body,
it actually ends up being a turn off
because he doesn't understand it.
He's attracted to you,
but you're not attracted to you.
So it's time to stop being so tough on yourself.
We all have imperfections,
we all have things that we wanna change about ourself,
but don't forget this,
if he is with you sexually,
he wants to be with you because he's attracted to you.
And yes, you probably will always be your worst critic,
but what I asked you to do
is kind of tone that back a little bit.
So now that you've heard the five things
that turn guys on the most.
I wanna hear from you
and I want you to give us guys a little bit of advice.
What turns you on the most in the bedroom?
Comment below and also if you want a little bit more help
being able to tap into that feminine energy,
I have a course in the Sexy Confidence Club
called the Feminine Charm Code
and you can get that as well as a dozen of other courses
all part of the Sexy Confidence Club membership.
We'll leave a link in the description
or you can check that out at sexyconfidence.com.
So thank you so much for watching
and I will speak to you
you sexy single lady next week, bye, bye.