now first dates can be minefields for a lot of guys so in this video I want to
share with you three questions that you should never ever ever ever ever ask a
girl on a first date unless you really want to come across as extremely needy
and a little insecure so if you're new here my name is Stephan Erdman make sure
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video dates right first dates second dates the dates especially the first
date it's not easy for many guys to manage and you know it can be really
awkward you can be in a situation when you do things and you say things which
you afterwards recognized as that wasn't really me at my best asking one of these
three questions I'm gonna be talking about in this video is really the worst
thing that can happen when you're asking questions out of awkwardness or because
the wrong things are on your mind so if you don't want to come across as needy
and we all know that we shouldn't come across as needy because neediness is the
easiest way to make a girl run then you really want to avoid these three
questions let's get straight into the first question that you want to avoid
and it's a very common question that people ask especially if they've found
somebody on a dating app so let's say you're on tinder match or in a circle or
Bumble or any of the other dating apps of which there are so many now what is
the question the question is this how many other guys have you met from bumble
tinder whatever it is how many other guys have you met or how many dates have
you got recently from this site straight away you will sound and become more
needy in her eyes because you already started to compare yourself you start
into your mind starts to wander to all these other people that she might be
seeing and there's just no way of coming out of that conversation looking chilled
confident like you don't even care so there's no point asking a question
there's no point really that as a conversation topic and
dragging her into that focus on yourself focus on her focus on the two of you not
on all the other guys that she might be seeing because hey either she is seeing
other people or she's not it doesn't really matter to you at this stage here
is the second question that you never ever want to ask a girl especially on a
first date are you seeing anyone else that question is completely pointers as
well again it puts you into a position where you sell needy do you see anyone
else it just it just lends itself to that voice are you seeing anyone else so
are you seeing anyone else it's just if you had a comedy that would be a very
funny question and it would come across as very insecure because you again try
to compare yourself see what the competition is and so forth so you you
act like an underdog in some way she'll be starting to worry about hurting your
feelings or whatever and none of that works for you it all works against you
so in terms of neediness level we're coming closer to the most needy question
you can possibly imagine on the first date or a second date or a third date do
you like me or so do you like me okay now I hope you never asked this okay but
just for the future I forever just never ask this it's just never going to make
you more attractive it's just never going to not put pressure on a girl to
come up is something awkward to say either she does or she doesn't making
her say it to you doesn't help you or it doesn't help her it just purely screams
neediness please reassure me and all of that really doesn't work to your
advantage so remember how many other guys have you met from whatever it is
you've been meeting her on do you like me or so do you like me Wow so are you
seeing any other guys now I've just given you a list of three of the worst
questions you can ask a girl so avoid them altogether but if there are any
other questions that come to you mine right now that you may have asked
that got a terrible response then do share here in the comment section