And so, one of the scientists said that this woman: How do you do that?
You know what she said: I have difficulty not doing it, I can't not do it
when I'm in... When I'm doing this, that's too good!
So now that could be a constant feeling in your life!
So then, if you are going to prepare your brain and body
for a new relationship, then you would have to become love completely
every day. And that signal then that you're sending out into the field
can carry the thought of your health, your wealth, your relationship
or whatever.
But here's the cool part - when the heart is activated like that and
you feel so whole,
so in love with Life, so satisfied in the moment,
so exuberant that it's impossible to want,
now you're no longer in lack.
Now you're so whole that you will magnetize wholeness in your life!
The person who's the person that fits the mold energetically, that
would be the same as you and yet compliment you,
so that the two can become one, right?
And then instead of in contrast, in union you exchange information
equal to that emotional state.
In other words, people use each other to reaffirm their
dependence on certain emotions.
You have certain people, you complain about politics or whatever,
they complain back about their lives and you use each other to
reaffirm, you know, some type of belief about life
emotionally, you have emotional agreements on things.
Well, that motion is energy, and energy is frequency.
And frequency carries information.
So, you share the same energy, you share the same information.
But that's what people do in their lives.
But now, in a true loving
relationship, when you're truly in your heart, then the question is:
What would love do in the relationship?
And when your heart is open, it's no longer about you.
It's about how I feel so amazing with you,
I feel even more amazing. But without you I'm still whole. And so now I
no longer in need or lack. And so now when we get together and our
fields interfere, when they start interfering now the amplitude gets
way higher. There's way
more energy.
And now, I mean I'm all about all seven centers of the body lining up.
All of them. We're here in a body,
let's enjoy it all. But come from love! And so, now your heart is so open
that you can't do anything else but give. You feel so amazing,
you're so happy with yourself, so happy with your life,
so happy with what you have you want other people to feel the same way.
And you say: Here, take that! And when you give now, guess what?
You release more oxytocin, more nitric oxide,
and more of those chemicals that cause the heart to swell even more.
Then all of a sudden your immune system gets stronger and all of a
sudden your body starts feeling better, you start having more energy.
And now the constructive interference between two people that are
coming together in wholeness and no longer dependence or lack or
separation or need is a different game.
So now, imagine having this feeling. And when oxytocin is released,
what most people don't know is that it seeps into the amygdala. And
there's certain survival emotions in the amygdala - fear and anxiety,
aggression and anger, pain and suffering. And it literally shuts
the lights out in those circuits in the amygdala. And there's only one
thing left - love and joy, right?
So, now this person is suppressing the survival centers
resetting the baseline of the past, how they perceive the past.
And now, the research on oxytocin
shows that when you have just a slight, slight level of increase,
and our research of our students are way outside of normal,
that it's impossible to hold a grudge.
You know why?
Because the feeling feels so good, why would you judge another person
or why would you react to some condition and lose that feeling?
You figure it out really fast.
So this birth of unconditional love really says: I'm in love with
myself,
my connection to some Divine intelligence within me.
And because I'm so in love with life
and with myself, I'm looking at life through the lens of Love, which
means - I'm going to allow you to be whoever you want around me, I don't
really, I'm no longer... Because
I've overcome my fear, I've overcome my anger, and now I'm ready for love!
People who are in love with themselves will find love in others,
people who are happy with themselves will
find something that they can connect with.
They won't see all the flaws.
They'll see some part of them that they want to enjoy.
I mean, so if you're in a relationship and you scrub the
cupboard and you've taken out all those skeletons and you've looked
at them and you said: I don't want to bring this into my relationship.
I don't want my insecurities to be there.
I don't want my fear to be there.
I don't want my judgment to be there.
I don't want my emotions from other relationships to be there.
So let me finish this.
In another words,
if you want love in your life in your future, then you better take
care of your frustration because you can't bring that there.
You have to leave it.
So then, you may say to me:
Well, it's because that person and this emotion from 15 years ago,
my ex makes me feel frustrated.
Let me tell you something.
The only reason that you're thinking about your ex is because you're
still in frustration. You overcome frustration,
you look back at your ex and you'd be like: I wish them well.
I'm not connected to my past any longer.
So, cleaning the cupboards and getting down to those thoughts that slip by people's
awareness all the time, there are behaviors,
they complain, they make excuses, they say it'll never happen, what
do they do?
And the emotions that keep them connected to their past.
They won't even see that person, they'll walk right
past their future relationship.
They'll never recognize that person because they're looking at their
future through the neurology
and the chemistry of their past!
And the brain only learns, we only see reality based on
pattern recognition, I memorize your face and now I know Louis.
And if the pattern matches, I know. But if you're creating a future
and you're not clear on that future, and you want all these things
but you haven't
addressed all those circuits and behaviors and emotions and chemicals
of the past,
you won't recognize the pattern. You'll walk right past the
relationship, you'll never see it!
So I think that there's the preparation for the relationship, the
overcoming and overcoming and overcoming and overcoming and overcoming.
And becoming all of a sudden
now says: I am worthy! And the universe only gives us what we think
were worthy of receiving!
When you're worthy to receive, it's not going to be on match.com when
you're looking at body parts and whatever else.
This is going to be like cachinga, energy connection.
Like that came out of nowhere. Because when you're in survival
and you're in separation and you're in lack and you're forcing and
controlling, trying to predict outcomes, you're matter trying to
change matter.
And of course, it's going to take time for this to happen because
you're creating in 3-dimensional reality. And everything in
3-dimensional reality
takes time. But when you're creating from the heart, the coherent
brain and a coherent heart, and you got that 5G Wi-Fi signal, it's not
like you go anywhere now.
The experiences are coming to, you're drawing the event to you!
So, we spend a lot of time bonding with our future emotionally.
I have colleagues of mine who look at our data on oxytocin and they're
like: Listen, oxytocin levels
go up during, you know, when I'm in a relationship, the honeymoon
stage of relationship, monogamy is created because of those
chemicals, or a female mammal is bonding with our offspring. Exactly right!
I want our people,
our students, to bond and fall in love with their future.
Just like they do with somebody else. And when you're bonded to your
future, no person, no circumstance,
no thing is going to remove you from it!
So then, if you fall from grace during the day, then the next question is:
What person, what circumstance caused me to disconnect from my love
in the future?
And let me rehearse in my mind,
if I have that same circumstance, how I'm going to overcome it? And now
you're worthy of love!
It's no longer the person or the event.
It's just you're doing what it takes to stay in the emotion of your
future.
Your body is aligned emotionally to that future.
So, great doing it with a meditation, that's easy.
But now the real game is -
open your eyes.
Open your eyes and be in the initiation of
life and stay in that place. And just know that your future is going to happen!
So, being able to activate the heart and breathe in there and get the
body out of survival, and start working with it
to feel safe enough to create. Once energy makes it here, you're
going to get some really good ideas!
You're going to see things
you never thought of seeing, you're going to feel things you never
thought you'd feel. And the images that you're creating, what
are they doing?
The thoughts that your creating are making more of those chemicals!
And now you're feeling more of a feeling of your future before it happens.
You're giving your body a sampling,
a taste of the future before it's happened!