Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to impress a girl. 7 crazy effective ways.
Would you like to know how to impress a girl without mind games or without playing games and
without pretending to be someone you're not? You could just be yourself and she would like
you for you. That would be amazing, wouldn't it? Well, that's what you're about to learn.
So make sure you watch to the end so you know how to make sure you go from being rejected to
impressing her and attracting her very easily. Now before we dive in if this is your first time
watching one of my videos my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you
how to stop wasting your time on dead end and bad relationships by just learning the skills
you need to instead have your dream girl. I'm a certified coach so everything you learn from me
is science based instead of mind game based. So make sure you subscribe, ring the notification
bell, and give me a big thumbs up. Now speaking of not wanting to play mind games and tricks
I'm gonna let you in on a huge secret. What matters most if you are looking for a high
quality woman, the kind of woman that you want to spend the rest of your life with, are you
looking for a lifelong relationship? If yes, what those types of women care about the very most
is who you are. That's what attracts her the most. That's what impresses her the most. So no,
you don't have to play mind games. You just need to be able to show her that you would make a good
partner because that is what matters most to her. Now these tips are going to help you know
exactly how to show her that you would be a good partner and someone she would want to spend the
rest of her life with. So with that are you ready to get started? Let's dive in with tip number one.
Tip number one for how to impress a girl is to notice the small things. This right here
is what's going to help you stand out from the crowd and completely eliminate the competition.
Now I have a quick story to illustrate. Several years ago my sister and I were at an event
and we were wearing heels for this particular event. And we were waiting in a foyer standing
against the wall in these heels and there was a couch in the foyer and there were three men seated
on that couch. And they noticed us but not one of them stood up and let us have their seat. Now,
yes, we are fully capable women, we chose to wear those shoes, and yes
we are fully capable of standing in those shoes, and we were prepared to do so. But
if one of those guys or a couple of those guys had gotten up off the couch and offered us their seat
he would have become an absolute hero in our eyes. Why? Because he noticed the little things. If you
notice the little things about her what's important to her, how she might be feeling,
something maybe a little bit difficult like standing in heels and your feet hurting,
noticing those little things and helping her, whoa, that right there is how
you become a total heartthrob in her eyes and really help her see that she can trust
you. It helps you completely eliminate the competition like you learned in this video.
If you haven't yet seen that one there is a link in the description below. Something small like
noticing that her favorite show is coming out soon and talking to her about it or noticing that
maybe she's had a rough day so you bring her her favorite treat, because you know what her favorite
treat is because you've been paying attention. All these little things are really huge game changers.
That is how you impress a girl. Now my next tip is to listen to her. As women, we bond by talking.
And when somebody listens to you you feel really important, don't you? You feel like you matter.
So it's very important that you listen to her. For instance, when you're having a conversation
with her don't think so much about the next thing you're going to say. That's very easy to do when
you're nervous. Have you done it before? I think we've all done it before. Instead of focusing on
what impressive thing or cool things should I say next, focus on actually hearing her,
connecting with her. And if you've been listening to her and paying attention to her you will be
able to ask her a question about something she just said. That right there impresses her, because
not everybody does that and it really makes her feel connected to you. You listened to her, she
matters to you, she's important. So calm down and instead of trying to decide what you will say next
listen to her and decide what you will ask next. Now my next tip for how to impress a girl is to
make a move first. If you've been watching my videos for a while you've heard this before,
but guys, it's because it's so important and so crazy effective. Do you want to impress her?
Do you want to appear very confident and masculine in her eyes? Pursue her. Make the first move.
What this does is it shows her that you're a gentleman, it shows her that you're confident,
and you have enough respect in yourself and enough trust in yourself to be willing to do
that. If you saw this video you know that being vulnerable is one of the traits we actually like
most in another person. So being someone who's willing to make the first move, whoa, that's
insanely attractive. It makes her feel more drawn to you, it makes her feel safer with you. That
is going to impress her, because most men aren't doing this. You want to stand out from the crowd?
Make sure that you are making the first move, that you are pursuing her. Now before you freak out,
guys, it's normal for that to be scary, okay? It's okay if it's a little bit scary. That's 100%
normal. All you need to make pursuing easy and fun and successful, instead of ending in rejection,
is the right skills and the right game plan. That is the secret. I have a free masterclass that's
going to teach you more about this so that you can go from being alone and rejected and ghosted to
instead getting the girl really easy and really simply. So there's a link to watch this free
masterclass in the description below. There is also a link in the pinned comment. Make sure you
give it a watch asap. Okay are you ready for our next tip? Our next tip for how to impress a girl
is to learn something new. One of the best ways to make sure you are always an interesting person is
to always be learning something. To kind of have that growth mindset. This is one way you keep her
after you get her and how you initially get her to fall in love with you. Learning something new and
being involved that way means that you're always adding to who you are, you always have something
interesting to talk about, and always have something interesting you're doing. This is
another thing that most people aren't doing. So if you want to stand out from the competition,
and therefore have no competition, make sure that you are always learning something. I mentioned
earlier that who you are is what really impresses her. And if who you are is someone who's always
learning and always improving and always involved that is really going to impress
her. That masterclass I mentioned is going to help you with this as well and help you
know how to totally eliminate the competition. So do make sure you watch it through the link
in the description below. Okay, my next tip for how to impress a girl may really surprise you.
This tip is to make sure you do not put yourself down. It's really good to be someone who can
laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously. Those are very attractive traits.
But sometimes people misunderstand and they think that making fun of themselves is the same as
laughing at themselves. It is not. Laughing at yourself is if you make some kind of a mistake
or let's pretend you like spill milk all over your shirt, you laugh and go "oh my goodness,
oh well, whatever, it's okay. I'm still human." You laugh it off. Making fun of yourself is "well,
I'm too stupid for that," or "I'm too fat. Nobody would want me anyway," or "well, I just am not
attractive, otherwise I'd have a girlfriend by now." Things like that make everyone instantly
feel uncomfortable, even if you're trying to pass it off as a joke. They don't know what to do,
because if they agree with you "yeah, you are too stupid for that," well that's insulting. But if
instead they say "no, no, you're not too stupid," well then they had to disagree with you to do
that and put you on the spot and so everybody instantly feels very uncomfortable. Where on
the flip side if you are someone who doesn't make fun of yourself, someone who builds yourself up,
not in an arrogant way, but someone who supports yourself as much as you support other people,
that's impressive and that's attractive. Quick question before we get to our next tip.
Are you enjoying this video? Would you like to see more on how to impress a girl? If you would,
comment 'impressed!' in the comments below and I will know to make more for you. And I'm really
curious. Which one of these tips do you find the most helpful? Please leave me a comment
and let me know. Okay my next tip for how to impress a girl is to be well groomed and well
dressed. This is another thing I have mentioned before and it's because it's so important. Can I
be really honest with you, really bold, really up front? She likes to see you looking good,
okay? She just does. Just like you like to see her looking good it really impresses her when a guy
has enough self-respect and takes the initiative to look really nice. That right there,
that's impressive. She is looking for a 10 out of 10, just like you should be. And it's
very important that you show her you are a 10 out of 10 by how well groomed you are
and how well dressed you are. Science tells us we have three seconds, you guys, three seconds
for someone to decide if they are attracted to us or not. And so it's really important that you
show her in those three seconds that you are a 10 out of 10. So make sure you're well groomed, you
have a really nice sharp modern haircut, that you keep your facial hair trimmed and looking nice,
that you obviously have good hygiene, and that your the clothes you wear are really modern and
classic and masculine. This is one reason why I teach the basics of fashion in my program, is
because it's so powerful, so important, and when you do it right it's so crazy effective. It turns
her head and makes you stand out from the crowd, impresses her, and makes her want to get to know
you better. Now my next tip for how to impress a girl I think is really going to surprise you too.
This tip is to smile. Oh my goodness, smiles are so powerful. When someone smiles at us we feel
this huge relief, we feel connected to them, and she's actually going to see you as more confident
and more respectful. Something I think it's really hard for men to understand is as a woman
her initial instinct is to make sure she's safe with you. And if there's anything that's going to
make her feel like she's not safe, she's done. And a smile is a really good way to show her that you
are a kind person, you are a respectful person, you are a confident person. As a man you aren't
as used to having to to tell if you're safe or not as a woman is for the most part. Because
she knows you're stronger than her and she wants to make sure she'd be safe with you. So smile,
show your teeth. That tells her so much about you and it makes us like people more when they smile.
A lot of men have been told "no, she will disrespect you if you smile. You gotta be tough,
you gotta be cool." The truth is that's not effective, unless you're trying to attract a toxic
woman. Because again, as I mentioned earlier, if she's a high quality woman looking for a long-term
relationship she's asking if you would make a good partner. Being super cool, that doesn't look like
a good partner to her. But someone who smiles, who's interested in her, who connects to her,
who's kind, that's the kind of guy she's looking to spend the rest of her life with.
A smile is especially effective if she feels like she's the reason you are smiling. That right there
melts her heart and gives her butterflies. So smile, smile big. Okay, let's sum up what you
have learned so far. My first tip for how to impress a girl is to notice the little things.
If she knows that you notice the little things that are important to her, that matter to her, and
then you act on that, whoa, that's impressive and that's attractive. Next, make sure that you listen
to her. We all want to feel important and listened to. And if you're the guy who's listening to her,
wow, you just impressed her. Now my next tip for how to impress a girl is to be the first to make
a move. This right here, most guys aren't doing this. So if you do, wow, she sees you
as confident, attractive, masculine, you just impressed her. And as I mentioned it is normal
for that to be scary and to make you nervous. All you need are the right skills and game plan so do
make sure you watch that masterclass. There's a link in the description below and a link in the
pinned comment. It's going to help you so much with this. My next tip for how to impress a girl
is to learn something new. Interesting people are attractive and impressive people. So make sure you
have a growth mindset and you're learning new things. Next, make sure that you are as
building and encouraging to yourself as you are to other people. No one likes to spend
time with someone who puts themselves down and who makes fun of themselves. Make sure
you are encouraging and supportive and positive about yourself too. Next up,
be well groomed and dress well. If she's a 10 out of 10, which is what you should be looking for,
then she is also looking for a 10 out of 10. It only takes three seconds for someone to decide
if you are attractive so make those three seconds count by dressing well and being well groomed. And
also, make sure that you smile. There's a ton of power in a smile so let it shine. Thank you
so much for watching my amazing friend! If you enjoyed what you saw be sure to give me a big
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comment 'impressed!' And tell me which of these tips you found the most helpful and are going
to start using first. Do you have a friend who would really like to know how to impress girls?
Please share this with him. If we're not your friends on social media there are links for that
in the description below. I would love to connect with you there. Thank you so much again my amazing
friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] I think I'm ready [goofy singing] [laughter]
That never gets old. Hello my wonderful- [voice crack] [clears throat] ...wonderful
friend. Don't know what just happened. That's what you're about to learn so
make sure you watch to the end because each of these tips is very powerful...
I don't know what I was gonna say. Okay. That's what you are about to learn so
make sure you watch to the end because each of these tips is very important and very helpful...
and very helpful. [laughter] Okay. Good job me.
See? I'm encouraging myself, supporting myself. It's very important. [laughter]