You might think that having a small circle of friends is unfortunate or even see it as a sign of
weakness. A lot of times, it's the exact opposite - which is typically the case for INFJ males.
In fact, Some people might even assume that you are an introvert who stays away from social
situations for fear of looking foolish. Okay, these things might hold some truth, but there’s
always a reason behind every action. Especially when it comes to INFJ men. A person can have a few
good friends and still choose to keep it at that. But there must be some deeper reasons why an INFJ
man has no friends, right? As you know, there are always deeper meanings when it comes to an INFJ.
That is why today I am talking about 7 Crucial Reasons Why INFJ Men Have No Friends
Be sure to watch to the end of this video because I want you to let me know in the comments if,
by the end, you truly think this is a setback or actually an advantage
for an INFJ man. Let’s get into it!
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Starting things off for me today is INFJ Men Feel That Their Own Company Is Much Better
We are all different and unique in our own ways. While some people crave the company of others,
INFJ men would rather spend their time alone. They would much rather enjoy their own company
than spend time with someone else, especially if that someone else is negative and toxic. An INFJ
man would prefer to spend time by themselves and get things done in the comfort of their own home,
free to come and go as they please, rather than being forced to adhere to someone else’s schedule.
This is just one reason why an INFJ man has no friends. Since they’re so happy spending
time by themselves, they don’t see the need to have a constant stream of people around them.
Especially if those people only add stress and anxiety to their lives.
An INFJ man would rather have a few good friends that they can trust than loads of acquaintances
that they have no connection with whatsoever. For them, quality is better than quantity.
Next up on my list is that INFJ Men Are Perfectionists
The INFJ male is a perfectionist through and through. Everything has to be just right,
and they are always striving to be better than they were yesterday.
He will only accept the very best from himself and others, which is a wonderful trait for him to have
as long as it is kept in check. INFJ men are not the most flexible people in the world,
and this can really cause problems for their friendships with others.
INFJs, and especially INFJ men, can struggle to forgive and forget, holding grudges against others
for what may be a relatively small thing. This can definitely put a strain on relationships and
make it difficult for him to maintain friendships with others. It can be extremely hard for people
to maintain friendships with perfectionists like an INFJ, since are always looking forward,
strive to be better than they currently are, and expect their friends to do the same. This can lead
to issues when their friends are not living up to the high expectations set by an INFJ. An INFJ man,
for example, may presume that his friends should do everything flawlessly as he would try to do it.
If they don’t, he can get irritated. As a result, his strange behavior may annoy those around him.
Kicking off my top 5 is INFJ Men Have Trust Issues
An INFJ man may struggle with trust issues, making it difficult for him to make friends. He will be
very selective about who he allows into his life and may discover that the other person doesn't
hold the same standards or values as him, making it difficult for him to accept them as a true
friend. INFJ males are not searching for disloyal people who will eventually turn on them. They are
extremely cautious about these types of people and put up barriers to filter out the negative.
An INFJ man will only trust people who have truly earned his trust, which is a challenge in and of
itself, making it even more difficult to develop friendships. It is unlikely that he will ever be
capable of being friends with someone if he cannot trust or connect with them beyond a
superficial level. If a person fails the INFJ tests, he simply will not accept that person.
An INFJ man is challenging to get to know because They are so picky and, because of their powerful
introverted intuition, they can clearly see beyond the surface of a would-be friend. If someone can
earn their trust, however, an INFJ man will be the most faithful friend you could ever ask for.
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Next up and number 4 today is An INFJ Man Has No Desire To ‘Fit In’
Most humans want to belong and fit in, but INFJ men are an exception. They would rather stand out
for who they are than fit in with the crowd and make friends with people who don’t really matter.
Being big picture thinkers and so goal-oriented - INFJ men would much rather have a small circle
of friends that fit their future - they can trust and know that they mean something to rather than
a large group of so-called ‘friends" whom they don’t know well or who don’t know them at all.
INFJ men would rather have close friends than a large number of acquaintances
that they can barely remember the names of. To him, making friends with people
who share the same values and ideals and with whom they have a connection
is much more valuable than being ‘popular’ with people who don’t matter. This is why you won’t
likely find an INFJ at a party just because it's the popular thing to do, but you can definitely
spot him spending time in a cafe, drinking hot coffee as he stares out through the window.
Starting my top 3 today is INFJ Men Feel Drained After Social Interactions
Making new friends is a social activity, but it isn't the only way to meet new people.
After social interactions, an INFJ man typically feels exhausted. As I've previously said,
they would rather stay at home and be alone than go out and meet new people. For example,
if an INFJ man attends a large event, He may lose the will to stay for an extended period of time
and will either want to sit alone or return home. Making new friends takes energy, and the
last thing an INFJ man wants to do is waste it. He feels that it would be a waste of his energy
when he could be using it to think, plan, and accomplish his goals or to spend it on the people
he actually cares about. Because INFJs are drained after almost every social interaction they have,
it makes it even harder to make friends and maintain the ones they already have.
It is essential for an INFJ man to rest after a busy period and then try to be
social and get to know people, if they decide to, once they have more energy.
In the runner-up spot on my list today is INFJ Men Are Highly Selective
An INFJ man will only ever befriend people with whom he has a strong connection. He wants to
know that he can rely on these people and that they will be there for him if he needs them.
INFJ males are selective because they do not want drama and stress created by their friends. They
will only ever befriend those who they believe are worthy of their friendship and deserve to
be in their lives. This is a good trait to have, yet it can make it difficult to form connections.
If an INFJ does not feel a connection with the person they want to become friends with,
they will simply be unable to build a bond with them. This is absolutely outside of their
control. You can't force a bond with someone; it either happens or it doesn't. Never try to
force a friendship with an INFJ man, because if he hasn't accepted you to be his friend,
you simply won't be in his social circle. What are your thoughts on these reasons an
INFJ man doesn't have many friends? Would you consider it a strength or an obstacle? Leave a
comment and tell me your thoughts and opinions! Topping my list and the number 1 reason an INFJ
male has no friends is Because They Feel So Misunderstood
The INFJ man frequently feels misunderstood, especially by those whom they consider being
closest to him. They are extremely sophisticated individuals that can be difficult to comprehend.
An INFJ frequently believes that people do not take the time to truly understand them
and their motivations, which makes it difficult for them to connect with others.
Occasionally, during a conversation, an INFJ man may begin talking about a complex issue that,
on average, will be difficult for a lot of people to understand, so when the person does not get it
the first time, an INFJ man may assume that they are not being understood properly.
If no one makes an effort to even try to understand them, however,
It will be difficult for that person to make friends or connect with an INFJ - and
if you don't have a connection, you don't have a friendship.
In fact, being so misunderstood is actually a very common story, specific to INFJs. The INFJ
personality type is one of, if not the most, misunderstood of all of the personality types.
It's not necessarily your fault as an INFJ - a lot of it is because people simply don't take
the time to truly get to know who you are and how your mind works. However, there are other,
deeper reasons you are so misunderstood. This video goes in-depth about what so many
people get wrong about you and the fundamental reasons you are so misunderstood in society.