As a dating God, I get this question asked all the time, and I always see this concept
brought up in hate messages I get from butthurt nice guys.
The question is:
Do Girls Prefer Bad Boys or Nice Guys?
Well today, I’m bringing you your answer, straight from the God’s mouth.
Bad boys. Girls prefer bad boys. There’s your answer… see you next week!
Haha just kidding! Yes, girls prefer bad boys over nice guys, but it’s not quite that
simple.
Let me break it down for you.
First, let’s talk about Nice Guys. Here’s why girls don’t like nice guys.
“Nice guys”, aren’t actually nice. They’re only nice with an agenda, their agenda is
to be nice to the girl, with the sole intention of getting something in return, and since
they’re guys, you know these motherfuckers are expecting sex in return.
Which newsflash isn’t actually nice, it’s manipulative, it’s sneaky, and it’s cowardly
as fuck….
What kind of man tries to suck up and pretend to be nice and do all this other bullshit
with an ulterior motive???
A pussy that’s who… and nobody wants to fuck a weak ass dude like that! It’s gross
and it’s an attempt on guys to be manipulative.
Girls see right through this nonsense, and it comes off as super inauthentic.
Nice guys are also predictable as fuck.
A girl knows that if she asks a nice guy to do something he’ll just go and do it. She
knows that he’s always available for her 24/7.
What that does, is it ruins all mystery, all spontaneity, and all attraction because there’s
nothing engaging about the relationship.
And if you lack all this stuff in the beginning, when you first meet the girl, you can kiss
your chances with her goodbye.
This is why nice guys get friendzoned. It’s because they lack all these qualities and
traits that spark attraction when you first meet someone, but the reliability and lack
of surprises that comes with knowing the nice guy is basically gonna be your servant, makes
for a good friend.
So for all you fake nice guys bitching and moaning on the internet all day about how
girls only like douche bags, at least you can count on the girl you’re in love with
always being “such a good friend” to you. While us genuine, authentic, guys - I mean
gods, are banging her in the room next door while you listen and unpack her groceries
into her fridge.
Bad boys aren’t exactly the best models of character either, but they’re WAY better
than the fake nice guys.
Bad boys, are straight to the point, usually authentic, and they exercise strong frame
control which we’ve talked about before, is incredibly important for building attraction.
Basically, they say what they mean, and mean what they say. They lead interactions instead
of waiting for someone else to come in and take charge, and they go for what they want
instead of waiting for the “perfect opportunity”.
Bad boys have qualities of an alpha male, plus, some shitty qualities.
But girls are willing to put up with the shitty qualities because at least they’re authentic
and they know what to expect. With a nice guy, they know the guy is being shady and
sneaky about his intentions and how he goes about things, so they avoid him.
You don’t need to be a bad boy to get girls. You just need the good qualities that a lot
of bad boys tend to have which is being authentic, straight to the point, assertive, and so on.
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Now, the biggest reason girls don’t like nice guys is because people don’t like to
feel like they’re being shmoozed, played, or manipulated.
So by being inauthentic and keeping your intentions shady, you’re showing lack of character,
and showing the girl that she can’t trust you.
And not to mention, you’re showing her that you’re a huge bitch because you’re too
scared to just be upfront and man up about what it is you’re trying to do.
I mean c’mon, you better off going in to make a move on a girl and striking out because
worst case, she just says no in which case you respect it and move on to someone else.
All this nice guy bullshit doesn’t even work either because it’s not man-to-woman,
and it doesn’t convey any intent so you’ll end up wasting a bunch of time and NOT getting
the result you want anyways!
It’s almost like these idiots think it’s a game where if you get JUST enough nice points,
or do enough nice things for the girl, she’ll have to reward you with sex… it doesn’t
work like that!
You think the girl is thinking to herself, “Oh well he’s done 186 nice things for
me, so he earned a hug at 150 nice things, so that means I’ll have to have sex with
him at 200 nice things done for me….”
You see how fucking stupid this sounds?? Nobody is thinking like this, except the dumbass
nice guys who think it actually works like this.
If you’re gonna be nice, be nice to everyone and be nice because you want to be nice. Don’t
expect shit in return.
You ever hear that saying about how you can tell how someone truly is by how they treat
a waiter? It’s the same thing here, if you’re only nice to people when you need something
from them and are a total asshole bad person to people you don’t need anything from,
it’s a HUGE red flag.
And it basically makes people want to run away from you since it’s manipulative as
fuck.
And that my friends is it.
In summary, girls don’t necessarily prefer bad boys over nice guys because of the fact
that the bad boys are bad, it’s because they have qualities that other attractive
alpha male guys have.
Meanwhile, they HATE nice guys because it lacks romantic context, it’s not man-to-woman,
and it’s manipulative and inauthentic.
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