So you're seeing a guy, but how do you know when his feelings really start to intensify
for you?
That's what we're going to talk about today.
I'm going to share with you five signs that your man is falling in love with you.
Number one is he opens and closes his day with you.
When a man is falling in love with you, you are on his mind in the morning, you are on
his mind at noon and you are on his mind at night and he wants to be close to you.
And so this looks like him waking up and sending you the good morning text, this looks like
him calling you at night with nothing really in particular to say, but just to hear your
voice because he wants to be close to you.
When he's falling in love with you, he wants to be close to the person who matters most
in his life, and that's you.
Number two is he's willing to take it slow.
Now, what do I mean by this?
The man who's falling in love with you is willing to take it slow when it comes to sex.
He's not critical of you or making you feel embarrassed or judged because you want to
take it slow.
Contrary to that, the man who's falling in lust wants to get busy and wants to get busy
now.
That person is going to be critical.
And if he wants to get busy and wants to get busy, now you want to get busy and down now,
there's nothing wrong with that, but it's important to know that the man who's falling
in love wants you to be comfortable.
He wants you to feel good.
And in many cases, he actually is putting your pleasure in front of his own.
So it's important to know that because the man who's falling in love with you is willing
and happy to take it slow if that's what feels good to you.
And number three is he's okay with the gross stuff.
Now, what does this mean?
The man who's falling in love with you doesn't expect you to be perfect.
In fact, it's your humanness that makes you endearing to him.
There's a bunch of studies that show this, but you've experienced this when something
that might otherwise be gross, when it's someone that you love, you're okay with it.
You'll put up with it because it's the person that you love.
A quick example of this is, I remember when I was one of the first loves that I had, I
was 16 years old, my girlfriend, my dad, and a group of us, we all went camping together.
And when we came back from camping, my girlfriend left her shoes in my dad's car and so I went
to get the shoes.
And these shoes, we've been hiking for a few days, and I'm looking at these shoes and don't
ask me why, but I smelled the shoes and they were nasty.
They were horrible.
And instead of being put off by that, I actually found it endearing.
I was like, "Wow, her feet stink as bad as mine do," and I found that totally endearing.
And I asked my dad, I said, "Dad, is there something wrong with me?
The fact that I'm okay with this.
In fact, I have affection for the fact that her feet stink as bad as mine do."
And my dad says, "Son, I think you're starting to fall in love with this girl."
And I'll always remember that because it was loving all of the person, not just the perfect
parts of them or the best parts of them, but when you're really falling in love with someone,
you're loving all of them, the perfect imperfections, if you will.
The fourth sign is he's willing to do new things, go outside of his own comfort zone
in order to make you happy.
So the guy who's falling in love prioritizes your happiness over his own comfort, if you
will.
This is the guy who'll take you to the orchestra because he knows you love classical music
even though he doesn't like it.
Or he'll take you to painting in Pino because he knows you love painting and you love drinking
wine, and he'll end up painting two romantic owls that just have to be together because
they look so cute together, don't they?
Or he'll go to your friend's birthday party where he doesn't know a soul because he knows
that those people matter to you.
A man who's falling in love with you will expand himself to include your world because
he wants his world to include you.
And number five is he loves your quirks, the little things that make you you, the stuff
that maybe your friends or your family tease you about or even make fun of you for.
He loves that stuff because it makes you, you.
The fact that you love crazy socks and you've got like a thousand pairs of these socks,
or the fact that maybe you snort when you laugh, he loves that.
Or the fact that you are a grammar Nazi and you're correcting grammar on literally menus
at restaurants, or signs on storefronts, or for text messages for God's sake.
Or the fact that when you're saving files on your computer, you make little noises to
save those files.
Or maybe the fact that you draw, like me, like a five-year-old.
This is a self-portrait of me, actually.
Pretty handsome, I think.
Thanks, Matt.
You're handsome too.
Or maybe the quirk that you're scared of squirrels, even though they're super cute.
No, Alex, I think everyone would be scared of that squirrel.
Can I get a cute squirrel, please?
There you go.
That's better.
Yeah, you're scared because you think it's a rodent, but you're super scared of squirrels.
It's these things that make you you, it's these unique quirks that make each of us individuals,
that give us our own special world and he loves that about you.
So there you have it, five signs that your man is falling in love with you.
And to take this one step further, I've created a
great ebook for you, which is the Five Feminine Qualities that you Already have that High
Value Men find irresistible and really strategic practices for dialing those up.
I'll link that free ebook here in the video and in the description below.
It's a gift from me to you.
But I would love to hear from you, what are the signs that you notice in yourself that
you're falling in love with your man?
Let me know in the comments below.
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