I do not have to tell you what that feeling of love is.
When you bow your head down with reverence, in total silence,
do you feel some level of purity oozing from your heart?
Lovers explain their utmost love and respect for each other, in silence.
Silence is an expression of inner love, tremendous love we have for each other,
not jumping into the other end of the spectrum where there is eeriness, irritability, anger - not that silence,
but the tremendous depth, so much so, that in that silence
you are dissolved, and the other person is also dissolved.
When you have love, you do not care for the other, it is going on, we take things for granted.
Only when the love has gone haywire, then you start wondering, ‘What about my love?’
I do not have to tell you what that feeling of love is, when you bow your head down with reverence, in total silence.
Do you feel some level of purity oozing from your heart?
Love helps us to become purer and purer.
While in love, we will stop demanding things from God.
I have to draw the line. Suppose someone says, “Oh I loved so and so,
so much and now, I do not have the heart to love somebody else.”
And then after some time, a few months later or a year later, “Oh, I met an angel.”
And there you go again. Then there is again a heartbreak,
right, and then “Okay let me dare, maybe next time I will be lucky” and you find another angel.
And then again, you have the problem. What do you do?
Then you say, “Oh to hell with this, I am not going to love anyone anymore.”
That is a problem because you want to punish somebody else, out of all these things.
Are you punishing someone or are you punishing yourself?
When you stop loving, it is like a beautiful river flowing, love flowing, the river of love flowing and suddenly you find a dam.
It is not flowing, it has become a pond and slowly it will start stinking.
My heart should not become that, it must continue to flow.
Of course, there are many challenges in modern-day life, not that they were not there before.
But we have more, coming one after the other.
It is like a flow, the inner flow of love from within.
And the mind that cannot discriminate is no mind, a heart that cannot love truly is no heart.
Its nature is to love. You may pause for a moment but there will not be a dislike.
The moment you get into dislike, that means you have compromised yourself,
your humanity, the very character of the heart.
You can pause but do not stop loving.
In fact, family life is the only life where we learn how to love,
first from the mother, father and the chain continues in such a way, that this love spreads automatically.
It is love that sustains society.
Running away from it is not going to help anyone.
In fact, it will not serve any spiritual purpose at all.
In a family, if we have to tolerate each other, then constant input is required.
In situations, where you have to give constant emotional input, it is a broken family even though you may be together.
In a true relationship, it is not tolerance that rules the life,
but acceptance of each other, which is arising out of love, mutual love.
In such a state of love, where things are taken for granted, no need for explanations,
you do not have to speak lies, you do not have to manipulate any reasons.
So, it is the love that you have in your heart that is the input and stabilises relationships.
Love brings a greater level of acceptance.
From where does this love come?
From a pure heart, from a truthful, genuine heart.
In families where we are taught to love, to sacrifice, to accept, to remain pure, we are able to let go of everything.
We can remove the incompatibility by understanding this principle of entropy.
When the heart is at rest, the heart is content, the heart is in love,
it does not question anything, it does not demand anything.
The fundamental one is to love all and hurt none.
When we look at this, everything in life makes sense.
You rob someone,
has its root in this law.
You lie to someone, it has its root in this.
Everything is based on this principle Divine Law - Love All.