alright this is going to be an animated book review of the book the way of the
superior man by David data before you watch any of this video I want you to
comment the manliest man you can think of in the comment section below
also I want to start by saying that this book is intended for heterosexual males
in the first principle I really got out of this was to live as if your father
were dead and basically what this chapter says is that is that your father
has expectations are you even your whole family they have expectations of you and
they were criticized you if you make the wrong choices but you need to live as if
there's people in your life
have already passed away and that they will have no influence on your decisions
you need to understand that you can make your own decisions for your own life and
that is what being a man is all about taking the initiative making your
decision and taking on responsibility for it I know a lot of teenagers when I
was in high school they they relied on their parents to pick the college for
them when in reality it was their life in they should have picked the college
they should have done the research on the future income of their jobs in the
hiring ratio of the graduate students a second principle I got is to not get
lost in tasks and duties
there's a quote that I wanna put along with this and that's don't mistake
movement for progress just because you're doing a lot of little tiny tasks
like picking up the living room and doing the dishes and sweeping the floor
stuff like this
these are tasks and duties and you should focus on the big picture what is
stuff that is going to get you to your end goal if you're spending for five
hours a day doing little activities like this maybe you should come back maybe
you should rethink your daily activities especially if they're not leading you to
your end goal the third idea for this book is that you should not change your
mind to please your woman because if they say you shouldn't do that you
should you should do this instead
well if they are right you're gonna have to say well you're right and then also
if you cannot trust yourself how can you expect assuming your woman to trust you
and what is she was wrong then you are going to tell her I told you so and then
she's going to end up resenting you if you have a decision and your woman wants
to go against it go ahead
make your decision while respecting where her opinion is the go ahead make
your decision and in the long run you'll be seen as more of a man a superior man
who makes his decisions grows from them and takes responsibility for them in the
last principal the first principle order from this book is I like to call it a
birthday present principle now let's say it's your birthday in a woman is like he
would you want for your birthday and you can say stuff like I want you to cook me
lo Mele I want us to go on a little movie date given some some men would
even say sex however if the roles were reversed and it was her birthday you
should not ask her what she wants you should know her well enough to get her
something because if you ask her what she wants you were taking on the
feminine role it's her job to ask you and it's your job to answer we can go
into this like a let's say she's picking out a dress there's a red dress and a
black dress and she owes money which I look better in and you go and you
contemplate on a 10 or a little bit different on it but in reality there is
no right or wrong answer she was looking for your opinion you should say
something like I like the red dress but you look great in both their way you're
telling her what you like but you're not getting mad at her she picks another
issue pics the other dress so it is the masculine the superior man's
responsibility to make decisions when I was little I know a lot of people who
would come home and say what you want for supper
they say I want this place I don't really want a place what about this
place
no not really want that place when in reality if they would have just said one
place and stuck with it it would have been a much better evening thanks for
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