#1 Rule To ALWAYS Look Handsome [0:00:00]
So, to be more handsome, take a lesson from this guy right here.
Notice how he’s mixing his formal attire.
He’s got the suspenders, necktie, dress shirt, dress slacks, jacket over the shoulders
with the collars in that tattoo.
Now, even in 2023, a lot of people consider an arm sleeve, yeah, a bit edgy.
And to be straight, it’s hard to imagine a situation in which a tattoo would dress
up an outfit.
That being said, this combination works, it’s like oil and vinegar.
Yeah, they don’t really mix, but when you shake them up, there’s something magical
about the combination.
And that’s the lesson I want you to take from this example if you want to be the most
handsome guy in the room is don’t be afraid to break the rules.
The reality gents is all the style guidelines you hear about are laid out really to give
men a bit of guidance when they’re starting off.
But, once you understand the way things work, you can bend them and adjust them to serve
you.
Now, that first rule is a solid one, a bit more advanced, but it’s not the number one
rule.
No, I’m going to reveal that a little bit later in the video.
But, let’s talk about a solid rule to always looking handsome is to pay attention to your
hair.
So, when it comes to men and their hair, the reality is most of us are creatures of habit.
We go with the same hairstyle that works for us.
So, my advice here is to have a little bit of fun and cheat on your barber.
Yeah, go see that stylist across town, the one that you’ve heard great things about,
maybe a few of your friends with good looking hair go to him.
And, yeah, he’s a little bit more expensive, you even got to set up an appointment.
But, here’s the thing, you want to try something new.
And if that’s too much for you, gents, just grab a hair dryer.
Have a little bit of fun in the bathroom.
Yes, you just got out of shower, you’re going to be styling your hair.
How about you comb it in the opposite direction?
How about you use that hair dryer and, yeah, you get that hair to stand up a bit more,
get a bit of volume right there on the hair.
Go for a totally different look.
Maybe even try a new product like a fiber, a pomade, or a paste.
I mean, gents, if you need any proof that hairstyle can make a huge difference, look
at John Krasinski.
Guys, I love him in The Office, but, yeah, this newer John with that hair looking good,
this looks like a guy that should be seen with Emily Blunt, right?
Now, this next tip is really simple, drink more water.
The vast majority of us, me included, do not drink enough water on a daily basis.
I know for me a system that works is having multiple water filters at my house and here
in the office and having glasses of water all over the place.
Yes, my wife gets a little bit upset because it’s like, hey, you’re leaving a mess.
But, I can always grab one of these glasses and, hey, it’s got water, boom, I’m knocking
it down.
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Now, this next rule is not number one, but it will sink you if you don’t get it right.
This is something that you’ve just by – guys, you can’t mess this one up and that is have
good breath.
So, you know the basics, right?
Brush your teeth twice a day.
Come on, you got to know that.
Flossing your teeth.
Floss every tooth you want to keep.
Use a mouthwash.
I used to – I used to skip on this, but mouthwash is incredible especially at night
before going to bed.
Here is where you want to take it to the next level, especially if you’ve got grooves
in your tongue.
Use a tongue scraper.
I have both a tongue brush and a tongue scraper.
They are different tools.
You can usually get away with one, but I highly recommend you have both.
Believe me, guys, when you find all these gunk on your tongue and this is what’s causing
a lot of smell.
Now, this was a bit more advanced, but I think it deserves to be in the top ten because it’s
about your face and that is, guys, take care of your eyebrows.
[0:05:01] So many guys let them get out of control,
especially as you get in your 30s, 40s, believe me, the hair starts getting thicker, it starts
curling all over the place.
Let’s take Chris Pratt as an example.
Early photo of Chris, he did not bother with his eyebrows.
And, you know, he had a lot of things going for him, but let’s look at him now.
I mean, the guy is on-point.
And you look at those eyebrows.
He doesn’t overdo it.
And I’m not saying to pluck those eyebrows into oblivion.
What I’m saying is just simply get rid of the unibrow, maybe do a little bit of trimming
around the sides.
Don’t go crazy.
If you’re at all worried, go see a professional and say, hey, let’s take this slow, little
bit by little bit.
But, seriously, gents, just getting rid of the strays, bringing in just a little bit
of shape to your eyebrows can make a huge difference.
And on the subject of loose hairs, guys, don’t forget about the ears.
You want to remove all those loose hairs.
And the nose, you don’t want to force coming out there, especially if you are tall, people
are looking up, yeah, they can see everything up there.
Now, a minute ago, we talked about not smelling bad, but let’s talk about smelling good,
because if you don’t smell good, guys, that’s like having defense, but no offense.
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Now, what if you just want to be more handsome, but you don’t want to spend any money?
Well, guys, go for a run first thing in the morning.
Seriously, when you get that blood pumping, all of a sudden it goes to the skin and you’re
going to have a glow for at least the first half of the day.
Simple, easy, and, yes, eventually you’ll get in better shape.
But, what I love about this tip is even the first day that you exercise, you’re just
going to look better and people are going to notice.
You’re going to start to carry yourself with a bit more confidence.
And another tip that doesn’t cost anything is to stand up straight.
Roll those shoulders back, walk with confidence.
This is something I learned in the Marine Corps, you always had to stand up straight.
But, I see so many people, yes, you’re on that phone looking down, hey, the phone in
the pocket, especially if you’re going to be meeting up with people and look like you
know where you’re going.
Even if you don’t know where you’re going, try to look like it, have a direction that
you’re going and you will come off as more confident.
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Now, if you’re looking for a particular item that you can actually purchase, better
choose.
So many guys this is something they don’t pay attention to.
I know I’ve talked about the evils of square-toed shoes.
You better be avoiding those things like the plague.
But, simply step up your shoe game.
Don’t be wearing running shoes outside of running.
Find shoes that are appropriate for the situation.
Maybe have a little bit of fun, bring in some boots.
So many great options out there, guys.
Step up your footwear game, it’s something that not only the ladies notice, but other
guys do as well.
Now, earlier, we talked about stray hairs on the face, but what about facial hair in
general?
So, if you can actually keep it trimmed, looking good.
This is something women find very attractive.
I get it, it’s a little bit more casual though, so maybe consider growing a beard.
And what’s nice about a beard especially if you have a little bit of a rounder face
is the beard can elongate the face and it works with proportions that basically makes
you look more handsome.
The key here is a well-groomed beard.
You don’t want to go with a whole neck beard thing.
You know, you want to get this on point, you want it to look good.
And, again, go see a professional, maybe find a beard oil, beard cream.
Start to pay attention to it, guys.
A lot of you guys can do a lot with your facial hair.
Me, man, not so much.
Genetics, you kow?
Now, what about skills that can make you more handsome?
Because it’s not just about how you look, but it’s also about how you make other people
feel.
Well, the easiest thing is to simply shut your mouth and learn to listen.
Ask more questions about people because when you get people talking, they just like you.
They like to be around somebody that actually listens, asks for more detail goes into it.
And these people, they just find them more attractive, they want to maybe do business
partnerships with them.
These are people they just simply want to be around.
Another thing to throw into this is humor, but the right type of humor.
Think high humor.
There is low brow humor, which is slapstick comedy.
That’s what you want to avoid.
That doesn’t really show much for intelligence.
But, women are very much attracted to men that show high humor.
And high humor is going to be forms of sarcasm, it’s going to be dry humor, it’s going
to be able to make people laugh a little bit edgy, because what it shows is a higher level
of intelligence.
[0:10:01] Now, we are a style channel, so I need to
talk about clothing.
And this is very close to being one of the easiest ways that any man can upgrade his
look and come off as more handsome is just simply dress himself better.
But, how to do this especially if you’re on a really tight budget?
Well, take a friend that is very critical or a friend that really understands style.
It doesn’t have to be – a lot of people think it has to be a woman.
No, there’s tons of guys that are finding another guy that dresses well.
Maybe go to a trusted source.
Go to the best menswear shop in your town and you may not be able to afford the clothing,
but you know what?
Most of those guys, they’re not a-holes and they’re going to be willing to talk
to you, point you in the right direction.
Maybe even try a suit on because, hey, they want to sell it to you, but you can actually
see how you look.
And more importantly, you can start to understand what makes for great looking clothing and
you start to understand a lot of classic clothing that isn’t going to go out of style because
it’s been in style for over a hundred years.
There’s a reason that men gravitate towards it because a suit, it builds up the shoulders,
it slims up the silhouette, it makes you look taller.
Shoes that have a little bit of a heel, they just stand more up straight when you’re
wearing these things and they make you look a little bit taller.
Now, this next tip is very close to being the number one and that is if you decide to
buy some of that nicer clothing that looks good on you, guess what?
Make sure it is adjusted to fit you well.
And don’t buy clothing unless it fits you very close or it can be adjusted to fit you
better.
It doesn’t matter if it’s 90% off if that suit is too tight or is three sizes too large,
you’re not going to be able to adjust this thing.
So, understand what the limitations are and only buy clothing that either fits you well
or can be adjusted to fit you well.
Seriously, gents, fit is king.
I’ve talked about the style pyramid before – fit, fabric, function, but fit is at the
top.
Now, gents, this next tip, again, came so close to being number one.
It’s not, but it is still solid and that is know who you are and then, be yourself.
Notice, I didn’t just say be yourself, because you first have to discover, you have to build
yourself, you have to become who you are.
A lot of people think, oh, I’m just being myself dressing like a slut.
No, you’re not.
You haven’t even thought through it, you haven’t thought about, hey, you’re an
up-and-coming lawyer, you’re in law school, you want to get into – you’re in pre-law.
Point being is start dressing like an attorney now.
Start thinking about, hey, I’m looking for internships, I’m looking for opportunities.
You are still five years out, but you know the path you want to go to.
You want to be that future engineer building that bridge.
Well, how is that person going to dress in the future?
So, when you know who you are and you thought through this who you want to be, you can start
dressing as that person.
All right, gents, so the number one rule to be more handsome, I kind of was getting into
it in that last point and that is practice being the man you know yourself to be.
Again, look at who you want to be.
What does that success for you five years from now?
One year from now?
Ten years from now?
How does he dress, how does he behave, how does he act?
You want to start practicing to be that person now, because guess what?
In ten years, yeah, if you win the lottery, you have all these money, you wouldn’t just
the next day start dressing and behaving and start acting or, you know, maybe you want
to run a nonprofit, you want to give away a lot of money.
Everyone says if they would win the lottery, they’d give away.
But, how much you’re giving away right now with your limited funds?
Maybe you don’t have money to give away or you’re giving away some of your time.
Are you actually taking the small steps because everyone – people are fooling themselves
if they don’t – if they think that their behavior is going to change if they were to
get a windfall.
No, practice being that person, practice being a bit more heroic, a bit more committed, a
bit more honorable.
Who the man you want to be, gentlemen, that’s what you have to practice and putting every
day.
So, if you know that he’s going to dress sharp because he’s going to own his own
company, he’s going to be running that nonprofit that’s going to change the world, start
dressing as that man.
When you put in those reps, you put in that practice, you get better.
You start to refine your style, you start to refine your look, you refine your mannerisms
and you behave and you sometimes will make mistakes, but you’ll continue to be on that
path because when you got your bearing down, you’re going to eventually end up in that
place and, guys, that’s where I want to see you.
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