Hollywood likes to dazzle up the idea of infidelity for one simple reason: sex sells.
However, unlike what we see on the big screen, cheating can happen in any relationship, and
it’s impact lasts much longer than a 90 minute movie.
Sometimes affairs are for love, and other times, it’s really just about the sex.
Some couples stay together after cheating, but others can’t handle the situation and
call it quits.
While there is no one reason for why a partner cheats, knowing how to prevent it from happening
does help.
So, if you’re interested in learning how to keep your man faithful then keep watching
because I’m about to share with you some proven tips that can keep your relationship
on the right track.
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Now, let’s get started.
1.
Have Open Communication To keep your man faithful it’s important
that you talk to one another, honestly and openly.
Now, this doesn’t mean the typical “How was your day?” and “What would you like
to do this weekend?”
but rather talk about your feelings, expectations, desires, dislikes, the whole works.
Giving your man an outlet where he can vent, free of judgement is a great way to keep him
faithful because it gives him something that no one else can.
Since men tend to hold in their emotions much more than women, being the person he can confide
in makes you an important part of this life, one that he wouldn’t risk losing over an
affair.
2.
Set Standards This one may seem a bit strange, but having
a talk with your guy about what he considers cheating is a great way to prevent it.
Now you may be thinking, “But Amy, isn’t it pretty obvious what cheating is?”
Well, believe it or not, that’s not always the case.
What one person classifies as cheating another may think is just playful or foolish behaviour.
Trust me, there are a lot of grey areas that unless talked about, couples can’t establish
what’s fair game.
For example, flirting, kissing, porn, giving out your number…
the list goes on and goes.
Make time to set some standards and you’ll have much less to worry about.
3.
Appreciate Your Partner As you may or may not know, guy’s crave
appreciation, so much so that studies have shown that men would rather be respected than
loved.
So, a major piece to keeping your guy faithful is appreciating him.
By telling him how great he is, what a good job he’s done, and how much you admire him
he’ll be much less likely to go looking for praise elsewhere.
On the other hand if you and your man fight constantly, if you belittle him, insult him,
put down his ideas or opinions then it’ll only be a matter of time before he looks for
love elsewhere.
To avoid infidelity, take the time to appreciate you man every day and tell him how much he
means to you, because it you don’t, someone else might.
If you’d like to learn some little-known tips for making a man feel appreciated so
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4.
Be Intimate It’s no secret and men love sex.
They think about it, they’re turned on by it, simply put, they love it.
And since sex is such a big part of their everyday life, it’s important that you make
it a part of your relationship, too.
Women who keep their sex lives spicy, keep their men faithful.
Now don’t get me wrong, this doesn’t mean you have to do it all the time, or try things
that make you uncomfortable, but rather that you’re passionate with your guy.
This means kissing on a regular basis, touching, cuddling and talking openly about sex.
That said, a great way to prevent cheating in your relationship is by fulfilling your
man’s sexual desires and being open to new ideas and experimentation.
Your guy’s fantasies might not sound appealing, but if you give them a shot he’ll not only
appreciate it, but you’ll be filling this role which will prevent him from looking elsewhere,
too!
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5.
Be Romantic It only takes a small gesture to be romantic
and show your man that you care about him.
For instance, you could surprise him with a case of his favourite beer, make him dinner
after a long day of work, or offer him a back rub before bed.
These may seem like small actions, but they speaks volumes when it comes to cheat proofing
your relationship.
If the romance has been put aside because of personal insecurities, complimenting your
partner regularly will boost his self-esteem and may also help him become more romantic
and open.
It’s been proven that when both partners feels good about themselves and the relationship,
the chances of either of them looking for romance elsewhere lessens.
6.
Avoid Jealousy In most relationships, there will come a time
when you suspect your partner’s attention may be drifting elsewhere.
As tough as it may be to keep your cool, it’s important not to get angry at him or the person
he’s giving attention to; in fact doing so could push him further away.
Jealousy is a natural, but it’s also a toxic and usually leads to self pity and anger.
To get your man’s gaze back on you, step up your game and focus on wooing him rather
than threatening to leave or becoming critical.
Positivity works better than guilt or threats when it comes to securing your man’s commitment.
7.
Do Things Together There’s only one way to make cheating impossible,
and that’s by removing opportunity.
That said, unless you’re with your man every minute of every day (which you shouldn’t
be) it’s not possible to remove all those chances.
HOWEVER, you CAN limit opportunities.
Since cheating typically occurs in situations where you’re not present, it’s important
to pay attention to his actions.
For instance, if you notice that you man is going out drinking with coworkers more often
than usual, then ask to tag along, or mention it to him.
Instead of sitting back and thinking “Woe is me” make an effort to do things together
so that other women don’t have as much access into your guy’s life.
8: Focus On Commitment The truth is, humans are not biologically
wired for monogamy.
What makes matters worse is that there are many forces that drive people to cheat.
So then, why should your guy stay true to you?
The benefits of commitments, that’s why!
By reminding your man of all the perks of being in a committed relationship you can
prevent him from cheating… or at least lessen the likliness of him doing so.
Show your guy that he has someone who knows him better than anyone else, and remind him
of the many loving memories you’ve shared together.
Let him know that he can rely on you.
Often times these reminders alone are enough to prevent cheating.
Keep in mind that actions speak louder than words, so rather than rambling on about how
great you are together, show him.
You’ll come across as much less needy and what you do will be much more effective.
9: Be an Awesome Partner The best defense against cheating is a great
relationship.
When your man’s needs are met physically and emotionally, he won’t have as much interested
in looking elsewhere.
To do this, ask yourself how well you meet your partner’s wants and needs, and make
an effort to step up in the areas that are weak.
You should always be his number one go to person, so if you’re not there for him then
he may go looking elsewhere.
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Well, that’s all for now so until next time take care and good luck!