Hi, this is Christy Whitman with a Quantum Success Show where you can get
your information and inspiration to create your desires and today I'm
talking about how to attract your ideal home.
you know first step and I've done this process for different times and always amazes me how
it shows up
first and foremost as you want to write down exactly what you're looking for.
how many bedrooms?
Do you want to have it on an acre lot?
Do you want to have
neighbors behind you or do you want to have a forest?
what you want in this house?
Do want to be one level is to mark upstairs downstairs?
Get really specific on all the different things that you want.
Do you want a bath in the master bathroom?
So for example you want to write down every single quality that you want in that house.
All the characteristics.
Your first can have to know this anyways if you're going to tell a realtor what to look
for.
You know as far as if you're going to work with a realtor.
What to look for…so how many bedrooms?
How many square feet?
Around the price range…
That kind of thing.
So write that all down.
Then you want to get really clear..once this house manifest because that house already
exists right now.
You don't even have to do anything.
You may build this house that this house already exists as energy.
So as your connecting with this house…
This is the second step connecting with this house.
How are you going to feel as you are living in this house?
I want to give you an example that just happened recently with Frederic and I. You know we
spend our winters in Arizona and we been renting a house.
We spend our summers in Montréal.
We been wanting to purchase a house in Arizona and we've been looking.
We've got specific on the things that we want.
Some things we were open whether it was a ranch-style or where there was two floors
but we got very specific on what we wanted.
You could tell by when it's time to move on something because the energy is there.
Sometimes it just doesn't feel like the right timing.
Well something opened up.
We had been looking for about a year and all of the sudden the energy was like yes let's
do it.
We found this house.
Frederic found this house online.
We thought it was perfect for us.
It had everything that we wanted.
It seemed like the perfect price, the perfect amount of rooms everything.
Nobody had made an offer on this house for months.
So we went ahead and put down our offer and we were in the process of negotiating with
the owners and they had 24 hours to respond to our offer.
At the 11th hour they had two other offers that came in.
So our realtor who happens to be my best friend from high school was telling me they all the
sudden got to offers in one is a cash offer.
I immediately told Frederic you know what if it doesn't come through, if they don't
accept our offer and they choose somebody else's it's not our house.
I trust that.
That's where the law of detachment came in.
I'm attached to the different qualities and characteristics of this house but whether
it be that specific house in that specific timing and that specific location it was like
that's right detached.
And the next morning we found out that they took a different offer.
Both of us were a little like upset because we started to get excited about this house
so what I did immediately is I went in to my stomach.
I went into my emotions.
I released in the energy I was feeling.
Whether was anger, sadness, disappointment.
I went in there, shed a couple of tears because I was disappointed and then I was like okay
I'm done.
That night I went to sleep and I thought you know what, I get why that was not my house.
That was in the area and the location that I wanted.
It wasn't the type of builder that I wanted.
So the next morning I remember it was on a Sunday morning and I came up to Frederic and
I said I know where I want to live.
I don't know if it's the timing now or if we have to wait another year but I know the
builder, I know the place I want to live.
I want to live in this particular area in Arizona.
When I'm there I feel so grounded.
I feel so successful.
That's what I want to feel.
I want to wake up in the morning and feel like the house I'm living and just feeds me
with that feeling of success.
That is what these particular houses by this particular builder I know I'm going to feel
that sense.
That afternoon he found a house that was is way below market value.
That was in that exact area.
And we made offer that night.
It was amazing because as we were going through the process things kept getting better and
better.
The amount that we were told we had to put down, was 25% of the house.
Became 20.
The interest rate we locked in was slower lower.
They were leaving their brand-new refrigerator and a washer and dryer.
It was like everything just kept getting better and better.
So because we were buying this off the Internet I drove to Arizona and was going to see the
house and something hit me.
It was amazing.
Every time when we were in Arizona for the past couple of years and I saw this particular
gate in this particular development I would say I want to live there.
That's the kind of house I want.
I see myself in there and I would feel what it would feel like to live in those types
of houses.
How successful I would feel.
How luxurious it would feel.
I kept telling myself that every time.
I would love to pull up to the gate and put in the pin code and have the gate open.
As I was driving there … My dad was actually in the front seat, my mom in the backseat.
As he was putting in the code to go in I looked and I'm like this is the exact development.
This is the place I kept saying I want to live in there, I want to live in there.
So when you put out the intention of what type of house you want to live in and you
write down all the characteristics and qualities and you feel what it would feel like.
For me it was like success and luxury and so much beauty.
That was the essence and I knew that was possible.
I knew was possible and it didn't have to be today and it didn't have to be next month
but I you that someday that would be a reality for us.
The universe completely conspired so much that it blocked and brought in another buyer
for the other house because that wasn't the right house.
That wasn't where I wanted to live in I probably wouldn't have been is satisfied and happy
hadI lived there as opposed to living by these mountains that I now have views from my bedroom.
From my living room I have these gorgeous mountain views.
My point to all of this is get clear on what you want, get into the feeling sense of how
you are going to feel when that house that you want becomes a reality and your living
in it.
Believe in expect it to happen.
feel yourself visualize the already living in the house.
Doing the things that you would do.
Just allow yourself to receive it.
Thank you so much.
Let me know how this information has impacted you and
have an awesome week.