Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Let's talk about this
idea of pickup. Pickup industry, pickup artist all that stuff. Listen here's
the deal; there's a lot of pickup techniques, pickup lines, things like that.
And a lot of that stuff actually does work. This is not a clickbait title.
I know that we're going in a different direction to start with here.
But just hear me out. Yes that stuff does work. If it didn't
work then there wouldn't be a lot of information out there about it.
People wouldn't be getting results with it. But here's my issue with pickup stuff or
just even labeling it pickup. First of all, I think that entire name is
just cheesy to be a pickup artist. I don't understand why anyone would want to
call themselves that. It doesn't seem cool in my eyes. Just be a man who is
attractive and knows how to attract women. Yes it works and techniques work.
But it's not a long term solution and that's my big issue with it.
it's not a long term solution. A lot of guys get into it. In fact hey I found a
lot of this information years and years ago through pickup techniques and pickup
artistry and things like that and here I am today so I am thankful that that
stuff existed but it's not a long-term solution because a lot of guys, they will
just copy and paste some of these techniques. What ends up happening
is a guy will get results and he'll use some pickup techniques and he'll start
getting results and it's gonna feel really good and then it's gonna feel
good, good, good and he's gonna see all these results which of course
I'm sure that's what you want. You want to be sleeping with girls,
getting dates, getting attention from women. You want those things. What ends up
happening is they start to realize "wait a minute these girls don't like me,
they're not attracted to me, they're attracted to these techniques or these
pickup artist routines that I've learned from the Internet." So then the guy
goes into a depression because he's "like wait a minute there's no actual feelings
towards who I am as a person." Now there might be some guys out there
who are like "I don't care. I'm just looking to
sleep with a lot of women." If that's who you are
that's fine. But a lot of us humans who have more emotions, it
stings. It bruises the ego when we're realizing that no one's really liking us.
They're liking some script that we put together and it makes you feel like crap.
Now of course a lot of people find dating advice through the pickup
industry and then they don't just copy and paste techniques.
They do learn more about how to become more masculine, they learn a lot about
inner game so to speak that is a lot of how you do feel about yourself and how
you can be more confident so in a lot of people it does build confidence and make
you feel good but it is dangerous for those select few who really take it to
the level where they're only doing that. They're not truly working on themselves.
What does that look like to work on yourself and not just do this
pick up stuff? I would say it's good to learn how to be social, how to be
comfortable in a social environment. How to learn how to continue a
conversation without having to memorize some lies or fake routines but
being able to hold a conversation because you're an interesting person.
That you are living a life that's interesting, that you're doing things
with your life where it's gonna be easy for women to become attracted to you
because you are not just some person who's saying some stuff but you're
living and breathing a cool life and that you're not faking
masculinity but you're really getting in touch with it and you're embodying some
of the characteristics that make you masculine, fearlessness, decisiveness,
being courageous at times where a lot of guys aren't. Being able to hold the
conversation with a woman while you're looking at her in the eyes
and being seductive because you are actually a seductive person. You're an
actual charismatic charming person. You become that person.
I want you to work on some of those deeper things. I want you to tear away
all the stuff that's holding you back and start building a new you by getting
hobbies by going out and making friends. By making friends with girls,
you understand more about what they like and who they are. By being a person who's
empathetic and cares about other people and connects with other
people and goes into a conversation not just to get something but to give
something but to offer value by offering something and not
expecting something in return. This is the stuff that you should be working on.
Of course I talked a lot about that on my channel and I helpbuild that from
the inside out. If you want to learn how girls
really want to be approached and not just by some pickup techniques, check out
this podcast that I did on my how to talk to girls podcast. I'll put a link in
the description below. Check that out, listen to that. I think that's gonna help
you a lot and get you on the right path. Go do that. I'm sure you've got
a comment down below. Let's hear from ya and I'll see you on the next video.
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