- This one thought will motivate you to do anything.
And the thought is not something cliche,
like to work hard,
or to be disciplined,
or to, you know,
think of your why,
it's something that's a lot more profound than that,
and I guarantee you have not heard of this.
And this one thought is the thing
that's truly responsible for me
completely changing my life,
when it comes to making money,
my dating life, my family,
my friends, and travel.
And the way that I'm gonna tell you about this,
is to explain the difference
between my friends who are really, really successful,
and my friends who aren't really that successful.
And when I say successful,
I just mean living their ideal life,
it's not really about money.
So, I graduated college about four to five years ago,
and there's probably only maybe one to two people
who I graduated with,
who are actually living the life they wanna live.
You know, I have a buddy who is living in Australia,
he started an underwear company,
okay, and he he's making like
a quarter of a million dollars in sales this month,
and I have some other friends,
who verbally say out loud,
"I hate my job."
Like, there's even one guy who I could think back to,
I remember five or six years ago,
he was saying how much he hated his job,
and how he couldn't wait to quit.
And he's still in that job,
and he still hates it,
and he's just hating his life, basically.
So, the thing,
or the biggest difference between these two people,
for example,
is you have to understand,
that the default for literally every single person on Earth,
unless you proactively change your life,
is to live a terrible,
horrible, sad existence,
where you are totally depressed and unhappy.
Another good way of thinking about this,
is imagine that you're driving in a car,
and you're on track to hit a truck head-on.
That is the default for most people,
unless you take massive action every single day
to prevent that from happening.
And what I mean by that is,
it's watching free videos like this,
hiring mentors, learning,
learning how to start a business, for example,
or if you wanna improve your dating life,
it's taking massive action out of your day
to prioritize doing that.
Because if you're only half in, for example,
like you're, you know,
you're thinking, you know,
I wanna get better at dating,
or I wanna make a little bit of extra money,
but you don't sit down
for like a five-hour chunk every single day
to actually research that,
you are going to wake up at the age of,
you know, 80, or 90,
or whenever you die,
and you will realize,
man, I totally screwed up my life.
I literally did not do a single thing that I wanted to do,
and now there's nothing I can do about it.
And that's the equivalent of that truck
hitting you head-on in your car.
So the thought that makes me motivated every single day,
and the thought that's going to
motivate you every single day,
is imagining that you are going to hit that truck head-on.
But you have to think about this every single day,
like not once a week,
not like once a month,
I'm talkin' about like every hour of every single day,
at least when you're starting off,
and, you know,
once you create a successful business,
or once you improve your dating life,
or you do both of those things,
then you don't have to think about it as much, right?
But I'm telling you
this truly is the default for most people.
But when you're young,
you feel like you're going to live forever,
and that, you know,
death is never going to come,
and you you are always going to have time
to make that proactive change in your life.
But the thing is,
is that's how every single person thinks pretty much, right?
And what happens to most people,
is they get hit by that truck
in the form of regret,
sadness, depression,
and never having done the thing
that they truly wanted to do.
And the very last thing I'll say here,
and I say this a lot,
but, when I say, "Successful,"
it's whatever success means to you.
Like you, you should never conform
to what society tells you what is success,
or what the movies tell you,
or what your parents tell you,
or what your social circle tells you.
If you want to fly around on a private jet,
drive Lamborghinis,
you know, date all the attractive people,
you can do that.
If you want to move into a small igloo in Alaska,
and simply meditate,
and hang out with the walruses up there,
you can do that.
There is absolutely no right or wrong way to live life.
The only way to live a wrong life,
is if you live the life that's not right for you.
And you are the only person on Earth
who knows the kind of life that you wanna live.
And if you're watching this and you're unsure,
well, I don't know what I want.
I don't know if I want to live in Alaska,
or I wanna drive the Lamborghini, that's fine.
But there's probably something
that you want to do right now,
that you're not doing.
Maybe it's thinking about starting a coaching business,
or an e-commerce business,
or, you know,
maybe it's watching videos
on how to improve your dating life.
Like, whatever it is.
Like it literally could be anything.
Maybe it's fitness,
maybe it's even just reading a book
that's been kind of calling your name
for the past couple months or so.
Just do the thing that you feel compelled to do.
And again, if you don't do this,
you are going to get hit by a truck.
And I'm saying this with absolute love in my heart,
because I see this too often,
and I don't want anyone to get hit by a truck.
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