Hand flapping is a common self stimulatory behavior for kids with autism.
Today, I'm talking all about hand flapping and giving you insight on what to do about
it.
Hi, I'm Dr. Mary Barbera, autism mom, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, and bestselling
author.
Each week I provide you with some of my ideas about turning autism around so I'm glad that
you are here.
Have you ever been in a lecture where the material is way too easy or completely over
your head?
Or have you been bored waiting in line at the grocery store?
If you get into these situations, if you're in a lecture, I bet you might doodle or play
with your hair, or if you're in line at the grocery store, you're probably scrolling through
Facebook feed to keep you entertained.
These behaviors are the equivalent of a child with autism or a toddler with signs of autism,
engaging in self stimulatory behavior, otherwise known as stimming.
You see, we all stim.
In fact, our solitary leisure activities, such as shooting a basketball into a hoop
for a few minutes, playing a violin and getting the, the notes to sound just right or watching
reality TV are actually all stimming.
These self stimulatory behaviors keep our neurons firing when we are not engaged in,
with others or working on a task where we need to concentrate.
Since children with autism usually have poor language, social and leisure skills.
Some kids with autism engage in self stimulatory behavior for hours each day.
And these stim behaviors are often very disruptive across a variety of settings and impact a
child's ability to learn new skills.
Hand-flapping is one of those self stimulatory behaviors.
Often the hand flapping can be on the sides or in front of their face, or a child may
even take an object like a pen and wave it in front of their face too.
These are all considered hand flapping.
Hand flapping can be a sign of autism and is a repetitive movement that's quite common.
I did do a video blog on how to tell if it's ADHD versus autism.
Um, you may want to check that out.
I also have another video blog, which is reaching a half a million hits, uh, views at this time
and that's “Is it a speech delay or autism?”
If your child is stimming, no matter what their age are and hand flapping for long periods
of time, it's almost always impeding his or her learning and socialization.
Some kids like my son, Lucas, when he was young was actually, um, his stimming was,
was watching TV or now playing on his iPad.
When he was little, he used to get so over excited that occasionally he'd hand flap with
excitement.
He also had vocal stims where he'd make noises, um, while hand flapping, which is not only
impact his learning, but was also really disruptive and embarrassing, especially in places like
churches, where everybody's supposed to be quiet.
Kids can also flap objects, like I said, in front of their faces to stim.
One client I worked with liked to wave straws in front of his face and another client gravitated
towards flapping pencils, or even like the spatula in preschool settings, um, the spatula
in the toy kitchen, she would flap that spatula in front of her face, um, even when she wasn't
playing with the kitchen.
We actually had to hide it, um, because it was such a problem.
She would run into preschool and she would run to grab the spatula to begin flapping.
Some people, especially high functioning adult autistics who are completely conversational,
do not believe that we should be considered, we should consider stimming to be a problem
behavior or that we should try to reduce it.
But in children with autism who are not learning language and social skills and leisure abilities,
and they're having problem behaviors when asked to do self care skills or homework,
um, rather than stim, I think we have an ethical responsibility and it just makes sense to
teach a child needed language and learning skills and to reduce their stim behavior as
much as possible.
So to reduce any kind of stimming, including hand flapping, we need to assess, we need
to take some data and we need to plan what kind of learning activities we're going to
do to reduce the self stim behavior.
I am actually not a believer in telling kids to stop stimming or hands down or hands quiet.
Um, in most typically, you know, in most settings I would rather engage a child, give them things
to do with their hands, as opposed to telling them to stop un, unwanted behaviors.
I did do a podcast about self stimulatory behavior you might want to check out.
And I also have a, um, free cheat sheet, which tells you six steps, six steps to reduce stimming,
which I'm going to give you the link in in a minute.
The overall key to reducing stimming is to teach the child needed language, learning
self care, and leisure activities.
As these goods skills increase, a child will be more engaged, more independent and happier.
And then, uh, they'll spend less time stimming.
While hand flapping is not a dangerous behavior, it can affect learning and socialization for
kids with autism.
If you have a child or client, who's exhibiting this behavior and you want to know how to
help him or her, you can download my six step free guide on reducing stimming at marybarbera.com/stimming.
And download that today.
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