Hello everyone and welcome to this week’s Naked Truth.
It’s Trisha Hershberger here and this
week’s topic is a real interesting one.
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Alright now onto this week’s topic.
This was a topic suggestion by
Andrew Donhast who asked.
Let me get the exact wording because I would not have phrased it
like this but he said is it true that girls like guys with big dicks yes or no?
And I think that it’s
more complicated than yes than no.
That’s the tldr version of the answer.
So when thinking
about how to approach this topic I feel like everyone has a different opinion but rather
than say
the answer is everyone has a different opinion let's tackle this from a more analytical stance.
So
from a science perspective I actually just watched a really interesting video from D
News from a
while ago from my good friend Trace who’s been on the Naked Truth before and he said
that
certain scientific studies say that it does matter.
Size of the male genitalia does matter and what
they use to point to that is that males in relation to body size have larger penis sizes
than other
primates and they think that’s because selection over the years.
There was a study that they
were reporting on that said that.
But he said the important distinctions to know in this scientific
study were that this was flaccid size not erect size.
I think when most people think of this
question they think of erect size.
And it was saying the average flaccid size can range from 1-4
inches the average erect size can range from 5-7 inches so there’s less variation in
the erect
size.
But basically the idea of this study was that females would look at males not clothed
because this is back in the day you know when people didn’t need to wear clothes and they
would choose their partners based on flaccid size and then because of evolution and because
those were the people who were reproducing more over time male genitalia got bigger in
comparison to other primates.
So that was the idea of this study and I think that there’s a couple
things that I would raise questions there.
I think that’s making a lot of assumptions to say that
males were being selected they were the selected and not the ones doing the selecting.
I think it
was probably a bit of both.
They also brought up in this study that the average female size for
inside the vagina is 4 inches so to keep that in mind as well when you’re thinking about
average
sizes and things going in certain places.
And then so that’s kind of how science has looked at
this question that many people have asked over the years and I feel like we’re all
going to bring
different experiences into this based on our life experience.
And for me from a personal
experience I remember joking around with my friend CJ who has now passed on.
God rest her
soul.
If you saw my Naked Truth on Boobs you know who I’m talking about.
But her and I had a
really hilarious conversation in college where we were like I don’t want a big dude I want
a dude
that’s hung like a Q-Tip is what we would always say to each other and it was because
we were
not very sexually experienced in college and we were afraid that someone who was too large
for
us would be painful.
We were like I’d much rather someone that’s on the smaller side than on
the larger side for that reason.
And then just to throw in another bit of personal experience I
have dated people who were much on the larger side I would say and when we’re talking
about
large I’m kind of talking about both length and girth even though these both play into
you know
how people are compatable with people differently.
But these people were kind of both on the
larger side both length and girth wise.
I remember using the phrase with friends hung like a
Coke can so just to give you the difference between Q-Tip and Coke can.
There’s your visual
you’re welcome.
And both of those partners who were much larger I personally had a hard time
with.
It was you know whenever we were intimate it was more uncomfortable for me especially
in certain positions and it was actually harder for me to reach climax in those situations.
So
while I don’t want to say that too small isn’t a problem but too big is that’s
kind of been my
personal experience.
And then I think you read a lot of surveys and stuff like that where more
women say that they prefer someone who’s larger and I think ultimately what it comes
down to
is different people’s downstairs are shaped differently and they want different things.
For me I
would much rather prefer someone who is like a great average or just barely above average
size is fine but really what it comes down to is like I said compatibility and how you
feel about
the person.
The emotional connection you have with your partner is more important than
anything else as far as being satisfied with the sexual experience as far as being comfortable
with the sexual experience.
That matters so much more than anything and from a lady
perspective at least I can tell you when I’m emotionally connected to someone that the
stuff in
another region just kind of happens to sort itself out a little bit better.
So I guess that’s the best
way that I can say it and I’m interested to hear what all of you guys have to say about
it because
like I said everyone’s experiences are going to be different.
And I think that it’s also important for
any guys who are watching this video to know that the size and appearance of your downstairs
region is something that women are also very self conscious about and that’ll have to
be
another Naked Truth for another time but you are not alone in that struggle and if it is
something
that you are self conscious about what I would say to you is there’s a lot of different
things that
can happen when you’re intimate with someone that are fun and should be explored and maybe
it’s just not all about that one aspect that maybe you’re worried about.
So yeah I’m a big fan of
reading up on sex education and on reading up about any kind of instructional stuff or
things
that you’re interested in and I think that you know when people say it’s not the size
it’s the
motion of the ocean they’re referring to that.
They’re referring to your prowess overall as
intimacy.
And I think that that’s all stuff that could be thought about that it doesn’t come down
to
this one thing.
So does size matter I would say only in extreme cases.
If you’re extreme one
side or the other you might have a harder time finding someone who’s compatible with
you but
otherwise I wouldn’t worry about it.
It’s all about the emotional connection.
So be you go out
there love spread love into the world but not so much love that we’re giving each
other diseases
you know what I mean I’m just going to end this right here because now I’m going to
ramble.
But
guys thank you so much for watching.
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Alright guys see you next
week.