﻿7 Weird Ways To Create Instant Chemistry With Women
[0:00:00] First up,
talk to her like she's your sister. Here's the thing, when you're talking with your sister when
you're talking with her friend, you're not trying to impress them. You're not nervous, you're simply
having normal conversation. And that's the key. You see, in normal conversation, you assume the
person you're speaking with likes you and so, you act friendly. Their defenses are down,
your defenses are down. You're just having a normal conversation and building connection.
Now, for a lot of women, when they're approached by a guy, they instantly throw
up their defenses. They understand that most men are after something and it's hard to hide
that. But, if you approach this incredibly friendly, you assume that she likes you.
You talk to her like you would talk to your sister, all of a sudden,
it takes her aback. All the sudden, wow, do I know this guy? He's incredibly friendly. I
feel comfortable. All of a sudden, the defenses come down and a real conversation can start.
In today's video, gents, I'm talking about weird ways to instantly create chemistry
with the ladies. Too-doo-too-doo-too-doo. [Music]
Now, this next tip is really good especially for you nervous guys you shy guys, because I know
it's difficult to start the conversation with her. Well, how about you get to know the people
in the environment that you're in? So, we use that coffee shop example.
When you walk in, this is probably not your first time at this coffee shop. You want to
get to know the people behind the desk by name, so that they recognize you, you recognize them.
You start the conversation with them because here's the thing, yes, you're pretty far back
there on line, but they recognize you. You wave at them, they wave back. You shout,
“Hey, Mike. How you’ve been? You know, it's like I haven't seen you for a few days.” You know,
you banter back and forth. Here's the thing, she's noticing
that you are a friendly person. Other people are friendly with this guy.
This guy seems to know people. He obviously is approved by the group. And it just makes you
all of a sudden that much more approachable, that much more trustworthy, that much more friendly.
Now, this next one a little bit harder for a lot of guys and that is to be vulnerable. And
I'm not talking about just going up and telling her everything that's going wrong in your life.
I'm saying you're simply at a bar, you're at an event and she's drinking a glass of wine.
And you don't know a whole lot about wine. Well, guess what? She's drinking wine,
you could ask her, “Hey, do you know anything on this menu that's really great? I have to admit I'm
a complete novice when it comes to wines. I don't even know how to pronounce half this stuff.” You
guys know I can't pronounce anything in French. Point being is you are opening up and realizing
letting her know I'm weak in this area. You have -- you seem to know something or -- and
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for $15 off your first treatment. The second tip to create chemistry is
to ask her three simple questions. And I'm talking about questions that relate to what's going on.
So, you're in line to get coffee. She's in front of you, absolutely beautiful. You just simply ask
her, “Hey, what are you going to get?” She says, “Oh, I’m just going to get a black coffee.” “Well,
okay, wow, I never get a black coffee just by itself. I'm more of a cream and sugar guy.”
You start talking a little bit about yourself. You take the conversation,
you talk for maybe 15 to 20 seconds, then you ask her another question,
“Do you ever eat breakfast or where do you get your breakfast at?”
All the sudden, she goes in that maybe she eats at home, maybe it's something that, you know, I'm
thinking about I am going to grab something. And, but if she doesn't add much of the conversation,
again, you can talk about what you know, I love to get their salmon maybe with the bagel.
[0:05:01] These simple questions,
these are softball questions. By that, I mean these are questions you're throwing out there
very easy to answer. Some guys think that you just need to ask questions. Here's the thing, nobody
wants to be grilled and this is a deadly mistake is to start asking just a bunch of questions.
No one wants to do the whole 20 questions and feel like they're in a police interrogation. But,
if it's related to the situations if they're incredibly light,
you want to give her three chances to engage with you to start talking to banter to go
back and forth. That's all you're looking for just simple ways to get the words flowing.
The next weird way to build chemistry is to hit on other women. Maybe not hit, flirt,
engage, talk with other women. And this is great if you already know them. She doesn't
know what the relationship is here. All she sees, she's looking around and she sees a guy
that's being approved by other ladies. Again, this is a huge indicator that you are
desirable, that you are someone worth engaging with. And you're just simply going back and
forth with banter. Sometimes this takes it, so that you bring in somebody, you bring people
you go with a crowd, you don't go by yourself. And that could actually be the next point,
which I'll hit on is to don't be a lone wolf. A lot of people think, “Oh, the lone
wolf is the most attractive guy.” If we look at ourselves like, yeah, it's me versus the world.
But, here's the thing, that doesn't work when you're trying to build chemistry because people,
again, women especially they're taking signals out there. And so, when they see a man walk in with
other men, she at least knows, okay, those guys all approve of each other. It's a small signal.
Whenever a man walks in with a woman or he walks in with multiple women, all of a sudden,
she's like take note, there's something about this guy. What is it that he all of
a sudden is able to be in with this group? So, quick story here kind of related to the
first point. My brother, when he was single, I remember him and my sister telling me this story.
She took him out and she's like, “You know, he's single, he's got to meet some people.”
So, she took him to a bar and she just started introducing him and bringing in all of these
girls that he should be talking with. Now, no one ever knew that that was his sister. All they knew
is that, wow, this woman is introducing me to this guy. So, she's going around making conversation.
But, basically she broke that barrier. She helped create chemistry
by setting the tone that this guy is approved, that this is someone you want to talk with.
And let's just say that my brother had a great night. All of a sudden,
he's getting women buying him drinks. And he was, you know, he was just he
actually returned from a deployment. The guy had a good story, but, you know,
most of us don't know how to put this together. But, when you have other people around you, people
that are looking out for you, people that are put --shining a great light on you, all of a sudden,
you -- it's going to be easy to create chemistry. The next tip to create chemistry, sell her on the
future. So, I'm not talking going full sales mode here, but I am saying, you know what? Talk about
what you're going to do next. Maybe you're on a date, maybe you're hanging out, you know,
we should do this next. We should do that. Talk about the future. Why? Because we anticipate,
we get excited we feel great about the future. When you were a kid and you went to Disneyland,
was it Disneyland that was so much fun or was it waiting and knowing for six months
that you were going? Because it works both ways. When you disappoint, that's bad. But,
when also you build up that anticipation and that's what you're looking to do.
Talk about how, yeah, we need to go hiking, we need to go. You know, you find out that her
interest her love is simply trying different foods, “Oh, I know this amazing, you know,
Persian restaurant on the other side of town. It just opened up. The owner is a friend of mine.”
You start talking about the dishes, all of a sudden, her mouth is watering. She can't wait
to go. And, for you to take her because you already know the place, you've got
the in. She gets excited about this. You're building up the anticipation of the future.
Now, this next tip can work wonders or it can blow up in your face. I've had it go both ways.
But, rib her, have fun with her, tease her a bit. Come up with a nickname.
So, she's -- you're in New York, you're at a restaurant, you're with a group of friends and
you meet her. Her name is Jenny, but she's from Oklahoma. She's up visiting, so guess what? Don't
call her Jenny, call her Oklahoma all night and have fun, make, you know, the boots the cowgirl,
you know, just be going back and forth banter. Yeah, everyone else is calling her Jenny,
but you're calling her you came up with a nickname for her. You're having fun. Again,
you're doing this in a very light pleasant fun way. She's got to know that you're joking with
her that you’re ribbing. But, she's going to remember this. She's -- you're going to be
that guy that, okay, he's playful, he's engaging. And this has worked really well. It also can bomb
on you. And, guys, if you've done this, if you've ever tried this technique, I'd love to hear from
you down in the comments. Share a story, give it a shot. It can work sometimes. It doesn't, but,
yeah, you might as well take a chance. The next tip to create chemistry, mimic
her moves. I'm talking about body language. So, if she's open, she's got her hands out,
you go ahead and open up and have your hands out. If she's holding a drink like this, you
hold your drink like that. If she's got her arms crossed, go ahead and cross your arms as well.
Now, this is something most people will not pick up on and I'm not talking about doing
it in a creepy way. I am saying though try to imitate and get the same signals she's giving,
because all of a sudden, she's going to notice. And not in a way it's going to be more
subconscious, but it is something that people like people that are like them. Makes sense? And this
is what you're looking to do. [0:10:02]
So, if she starts telling a story, then you can then tell a story. So, you guys go back and forth
and this right here all of a sudden, she says this guy is like me. People, again, like people
that are like themselves, it makes them feel comfortable. And, again, you create chemistry.
The next way to create instant chemistry, get her heart rate up. I'm talking about scaring her. I'm
talking about doing something that's exciting, something that makes her a little bit nervous.
So, take her out dancing. Many of you guys know the effect the dance effect
when you take a woman out dance, you get her moving you dip her. You know,
this is big especially country western swing-type of dancing. This is something that she can't help,
but feel an emotion because her body's moving and all of a sudden, she attributes that to you.
Or simply something simpler, go see a horror movie. Go see a movie that, yeah, is pretty
exciting an action adventure. Romance, yes, those are fine, but not on a first date. You want
something that's going to get that heart racing. Maybe it's riding a go-kart. It could be anything,
again, that makes her a little bit nervous, that makes her just gets that heart rate going,
so, again, she can associate that feeling with being with you.
So, what video to watch next? How about the relationship red flags that every guy
needs to know and watch out for? Seriously, guys, if you see these red flags,
you need to be careful about the relationship you're in. What are they? Find out, gents,
in this video right here. [0:11:20] End of audio