Throughout your life, you probably have seen somebody on TV,
possibly in a live presentation,
maybe some band playing or met somebody up on stage who is a comic,
but you'll found that some people have what you might call that X factor,
charisma. And you might have wondered, you know,
do they have something you don't or they were born with something that was
special?
So let's take a look at what charisma might be.
When they investigate charisma.
Most people think it's something to do with the person,
some sort of a magical component of this person.
But actually when they explored what charisma was,
they found out that when an individual is communicating,
whatever it is that they want to really get across to people,
whether it be a speech or whether it be a comic act or whether it be some sort
of message or music,
when they're communicating it in a way where it really relates to the people and
it gets into their value system and they're able to feel that the people are
feeling that they feel wow, it's helping my life,
it's helping me get what I want in life,
hen the people register that as charisma.
Charisma not is not something really magical about the other person.
It's just the ability to connect with the audience and be able to communicate
something that's a value to the audience.
Charisma is actually within the individual,
perceiving the person that's feeling fulfilled and the feeling that their own
values and what's important to them is being met.
The second you feel alive as a result of that and you see possibilities,
you've assumed that they are charismatic, but the reality is,
is you are alive and your reticular activating system and your higher brain
centers are online and you're seeing new possibilities and feeling alive as a
result of their behavior.
So it's not so much the magic in them as the magic in you,
the moment you feel that they're helping you get what you want.
So you don't want to minimize yourself to somebody that you think has this
special gift, because the reality is it's inside you.
When you feel that you're getting your values met,
you feel that they're charismatic. Just like if you feel an inspired,
sometimes you see the people around you feeling more, they're,
they're easier to get along with them, there's more magnetism about them. Yes,
the person who's speaking or doing the comedy act is connecting.
That is a gift or something you can be trained,
but the real charisma that when they research it is actually the feeling in the
individual about the person when that person's connecting.
So if you'd like to feel charismatic,
just keep asking how specifically is whatever they're doing, helping you,
if you would like to demonstrate charismatic,
care enough about the audience or who's listening,
or the person that you're communicating to and think about what's important to
them,
get what that is before you communicate it and communicate it in their value
system. And all of a sudden,
you're going to now be perceived by them as charismatic.
They're going to feel that you're charismatic because they're going to feel the
energy that they're getting what they want in life. But in actuality,
it's just a connection between two people, one inspired by something
and one feeling that their values are being met.
So charismatic individuals or individuals that know how to connect with people
in their value system.
And the feeling of charisma is a feeling you get when all of a sudden they
connect with your values. So again,
it's not so much the magic of the person as it is the magic of the connection,
because if a person's just standing there and nobody's connecting with it,
even though they could be inspired by what they're doing,
if the audience isn't connecting to it,
they're not going to register the person charismatic.
So it's the skill of communicating what it is that you want in music,
in comedy and presentation in a way that helps the other person fulfill what
they want in life. If you help other people get what they want to get life,
you get what you want to get in life, and you'll be registered as charismatic.
And the person will feel that they're in a presence of somebody who's got
charisma.
That X factor is really the ability to communicate what it is that you have in
terms of what other people are wanting in life.
When you help other people and fulfill their values,
you are perceived as charismatic.
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