Porn is a production.
When you're watching it, this is a whole thing that is meant to be viewed through the lens.
What does that mean?
That means that some of the angles and crazy wild positions that you see are very unrealistic
because they're only creating those positions so that you the viewer can get a good angle
of the sex that's going on.
So you can see some detailed look at the penis going inside of the vagina.
But that is not how sex works.
In fact, some of the positions that really turn a woman on the most are the angles where
you guys are very close together.
Where you can't see that much.
Let's say you were watching two normal people have sex.
Most likely you wouldn't be seeing much going on.
You would see one body on top of another body depending on the position.
Let's say missionary for example.
That's not going to totally turn on someone who is watching it.
It would a little bit, but not as much as you might see with an angle that is created
with a guy on his knees on the bed doing something where he's throwing her legs up in the air
or something crazy like that.
And by the way, that's another thing that's highly unrealistic.
A lot of porn stars are very flexible and they can bend and move in different ways because
they're porn stars.
And that's not necessarily what's happening with your normal average girl.
That's another reason why it can be highly unrealistic.
Let me go back to the point I was making.
All this can desensitize you mentally because if you're watching a lot of porn you're going
to get turned on by doing those types of things you see in porn with the girl you're with.
And that might not happen because she might not be into it or it's not physically possible
to get into the positions that they're doing.
What's going to happen?
You're not going to turn her on.
You might not be turned on because you're not able to do it just like the porn stars
and then you have a bad sexual experience.
You've got to think about that in terms of, do you want to be sitting there masturbating
multiple times a day to this highly unrealistic version of what sex is, or do you want to
be learning on a podcast like this "How To Talk To Girls" so you can meet girls and have
real sex with real girls?
I'm sure, and I surely hope that you're picking the latter.
And you're learning how to meet women in your life, which is another reason why porn can
be bad.
This isn't going to be a porn bashing episode.
I'm just giving you my thoughts on how its effecting society and how its effecting guys.
There's some good stuff, which I'll go into in a bit.
First, I want to make the point that you could end up watching too much porn and then never
going out.
It's so easy.
You get your laptop or go on your computer or on your phone, look up some porn sites
than actually go out and learn how to meet women.
That's the other thing, is that it could take you away from wanting to learn and meet people
and go out in person because it's so easy not to do that.
All I'm saying is pick wisely in terms of how you want to spend your time.
Do you want to spend your time on a computer looking at stuff that is not real or do you
want to spend your time actually going out meeting people, learning how to interact,
learning how to socialize and actually having sex.
Rather than having sex with your hand.
Think about that.
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