So your period of No Contact is almost up and you’re getting ready to meet your ex.
You want to show him or her that you’re a changed person, in hopes of re-sparking
the romance that you two once had … but, you’re worried that you might do or say
the wrong thing and completely blow it.
Well, you’re in luck because in this video, I’m going to teach you exactly what NOT
to do when meeting up with your ex.
But first, let me introduce myself for those of you who don’t know who I am.
My name is Brad Browning, and, I’m sort of known on YouTube as the “Breakup Geek”
– I’ve been teaching men and women around the world sneaky tactics that help them get
their exes back, and I’ve been pretty successful at it.
So, if you’re looking to re-unite with your ex, then please do yourself a BIG favour and
subscribe to my YouTube channel!
Now, if you haven’t watched my other videos on how to get your ex back, then I have to
tell you about a few things that you need to know before even meeting up with your ex.
Depending on how your relationship ended, you need to engage in a period of roughly
30 days of zero contact with your ex.
I’m not going to go into detail as to why you need to do this (there are plenty of my
videos that explains this in depth), but you need to be aware of this strategy before moving
forward.
Also, you need to make sure that you haven’t done ANY begging or pleading with your ex
prior to your meet up -- if you’re still in an extremely emotional state, and you don’t
think you’ll be able to hold it together during your meet, then it’s probably best
to steer clear from seeing your ex for now.
And finally, if you want to get your ex back, then you need to make sure you know the fundamental
laws of attraction and the REAL reason why your relationship ended -- again, if you aren’t
familiar with this topic, then feel free to watch some of my other videos on my channel.
And by the way, if you DO have any questions regarding what not to do when meeting up with
your ex after this video, just ask them in the comments section below and I’ll try
and get back to you as soon as possible.
The first thing that you SHOULDN’T be doing when meeting up with your ex is calling your
rendezvous a “date.”
If you call your casual coffee meet up a date, you’ll probably send your ex running because
he or she might think that you want to get together for romantic reasons.
You need to make sure that your ex only thinks of your meet up as just a friendly get together
and that’s it.
If your ex feels that you’re trying to get back for romantic reasons, they’ll mentally
“cock block” you, and may even find reasons to not see you.
To prevent this from happening, make sure that you have a very good reason for meeting
up with your ex.
Do not say you want to meet up just to say ‘hi’ or because you miss him or her.
Only say that you want to meet up because you have some important questions to ask.
For example, let’s say you wanted to take up playing the piano and your ex was an extremely
talented musician.
Tell your ex that you want to meet up for coffee so you can ask him or her questions
regarding music and piano.
This way, your ex won’t feel threatened or intimidated by your coffee date, and they’ll
be much more relaxed and receptive to you.
And whatever you do, just make sure that you DO have a lot of important questions about
“playing the piano”, or whatever it is, when you meet up with your ex.
The second thing you DON’T want to do during your meet up is to bring up your old relationship
with your ex.
Remember, your ex is there because he or she thinks you want to get together as friends
-- and that’s it.
If you suddenly bring up the topic of your breakup, or issues that plagued your relationship,
you’ll put your ex on the spot and you’ll blow your chances of meeting up with your
ex again in the near future.
Remember, the key to winning your ex back is ATTRACTION -- you need to naturally and
organically make your ex miss you and chase you, and you won’t be able to do do that
by simply talking through your relationship problems.
In short, you need to make your ex feel GOOD when they’re around you -- only then will
he or she feel compelled to take you back and pursue building a stronger relationship.
If you’re interested in learning more about these subtle attraction secrets, then head
over to my website, BreakupBrad.com, and watch the free video presentation there.
In it, you’ll discover the top 3 attraction secrets that WILL make him or her consider
getting back together with you.
The third thing you DON’T want to do during your meet is to beg and plead.
Any sort of erratic or dramatic behaviour will make your ex run for the hills.
As I say in my Ex Factor Guide program, begging and pleading is a massive attraction destroyer.
I mean, put yourself in the position of your ex… do you think you’d feel attraction
for a person that’s literally begging on their hands and knees for you?
Probably not -- if anything, you’d probably feel pity for him or her.
Remember, the most attractive people in the world are confident individuals who don’t
give a damn about what other people think of them… and this is EXACTLY the kind of
mindset that you need to have before meeting up with your ex.
The fourth thing you want to avoid doing is complain.
If you’re complaining about your life or about how lonely you are or how depressed
you’re feeling, you’re only going to drive your ex further and further away from you…
and again, this is NOT attractive behaviour.
In order for you to make yourself as attractive as possible to your ex, you need to show off
the fact that you’re doing well.
That means your work, school, friends, and dating...yes, DATING...are all doing well.
By showing off how amazing your life’s been since the breakup, you’re subtly conveying
to your ex that THEY missed out by breaking up with you… and they’re going to start
wondering why on Earth they were stupid enough to let you go in the first place!
The fifth thing you should NEVER do during your meet with your ex is ask them about their
dating life.
You need to come across to him or her that you simply don’t care about who they’re
dating or what’s going on in their love life.
If you come across as curious or invasive about who they’re dating, then you’re
going to seem like you’re worried that he or she will find someone else.
Of course, I know you DO care, but for now, you can’t show it.
Your only goal of this short meetup is to let your ex know that you’re not only doing
all right, but-you’re flourishing!
And that just about does it for this video -- if you’re interested in checking out
more of my videos, then please subscribe to my channel for weekly updates on how you can
get your ex back.
And again, if you’re interested in learning some more covert, psychological strategies
that will help you get your ex back in your arms, then visit BreakupBrad.com and watch
the free video presentation there.
That’s all for today, folks!
Talk to you soon!