- [Narrator] Hello, Psych2Goers.
Welcome back to another video.
Have you ever thought that you've found the one?
Maybe they've got the brains, the looks, the morals.
Everything you've desired in a partner.
And you couldn't be more ecstatic.
This could be the person of your dreams.
Well, it's only the first date
but still, you wouldn't be happier.
Only you sense that there may be something off.
You ask yourself, "Do they feel the same way about me?"
Well, sometimes it can be hard to read the signs
that someone is simply not that interested.
So to help you out, Psych2Go presents to you
nine signs someone is just not into you.
Number one, they don't open up about themselves at all.
Do they share their opinions with you?
Whether it's to talk about their past,
their family or just general things about their life.
They're reluctant to open up to you
may mean that they're just not into you.
Serious relationships involve talking
about things that matter.
Although you don't need to get too personal
on the first or second date,
if things haven't progressed
when you've been for a while,
then they may not be feeling the same way about you
as you do about them.
Number two, they haven't made the move to ask you out.
So you're texting this newly found love of your life.
You're head over heels for them
but they haven't asked you out yet.
If you're the only one who's made any attempt
at meeting together in person,
whether that be a romantic evening
or just to grab a cup of coffee
and hang out, you might want to reassess
whether this person really likes you back.
After all, if they are interested,
they'll make an effort to ask you out on a date.
Number three, you just aren't feeling it.
Okay, so you think this person is great for you.
They have a great personality that matches yours,
they're extremely smart, yet for some reason,
you don't get excited about them at all.
The truth is, you can generally figure out
whether someone is into you by the way they make you feel.
If you've been talking to this person for a while
and you don't feel the effort on their end,
then there may just not be any chemistry
between the two of you.
Number four, they ignore you.
Have they been ignoring your calls or texts?
What are you doing?
If this great person doesn't care enough
to call you back or respond to your texts,
then they clearly don't care enough
to start a serious relationship with you.
In fact, they may be trying to ghost you.
You can check out our video eight signs someone
is going to ghost you for more insights.
Number five, their responses are short.
Are their responses to your texts extremely brief?
Generally, if someone isn't interested in you,
they won't wanna chat with you for long.
Think about it.
If you don't wanna talk with someone
but don't wanna be rude or impolite,
you may just give the most minimal response required,
like a simple K.
These short responses may be a sign
that they're not that interested.
Number six, they don't introduce you to family or friends.
Have you met any of their friends or family months
into the relationship?
It may be a sign that they're not that serious about you.
A study published in 2014 supports the thought
that marshaling for romantic relationships is normal,
especially if you can't stop thinking about them.
You want your closest friends and family
to root for the one you love
as much as you root for them.
So getting their feedback and security
is a stepping stone into moving the relationship
into a much deeper place.
Number seven, they bring up their ex often.
Do they talk about their ex a lot?
If they're talking about their ex more than they're talking
about you or themselves,
then it's likely that they're not over them.
Whether it's in a reminiscent way
or a begrudging way,
if they're talking about their ex
and the past memories of them all the time,
then it might be time for you to realize
they're not over them.
And they're probably not ready to be into you.
Number eight, their phone is protected at all costs.
Okay, nobody wants anyone snooping through their phone
and you shouldn't even feel the need
to snoop through someone's phone if you trust them
and you feel secure with your relationship.
But if they seem overly protective
about their phone and especially about who they're texting,
then they may be hiding something from you.
However, it's best to express and communicate your concern
to them instead of confronting head on
without any real evidence.
And number nine, they're not ready for a relationship,
and they've told you that.
Okay, your crush is so prefect
but there's just one problem,
they've said that they're not ready for a relationship.
Whoever is, right?
You may be thinking that they'll fall for you
and things will work out in time but think again.
This person made it clear that they aren't looking
for something serious
and if they had the urge to say this to you
in the beginning,
then they really are just not that into you.
Did you relate to any of the signs we mentioned above?
Let us know in the comments below.
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